How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[Harvest]

The Quick KC Newbie's Guide To:

Differentiating Between True Love and Illusionary Love

Is your judgement getting clouded lately by the thick shroud of KC forces overwhelming you? Time to take a step back and re-align your emotional compass with these time-tested words of KC wisdom:

1) True Love builds on the foundation of TRUST and RESPECT; Illusionary Love builds on the foundation of dollars and NO SENSE.

2) True Love needs TIME to develop and grow; Illusionary Love only needs to water $$$... and lots of it... to keep feeding the weed.

3) True Love is SELFLESS in nature; Illusionary Love always has a hidden (and selfish) agenda.

4) True Love conserves its life force for her one and only; Illusionary Love sucks the life force out from him who thinks he is her "one and only".

5) True Love amplifies FAITH and DIGNITY (in spite of obstacles and hardship); Illusionary Love wears a mask of DECEIT and conceals SHAME (of the hidden skeletons in the closet).

6) True Love has to be given away willingly; Illusionary Love can be bought and traded like commodities.

7) True Love is forged and strengthened in ADVERSITIES; Illusionary Love blossoms only in good times.

8) True Love grows your strengths and improves your weaknesses; Illusionary Love inflates your EGO and sinks your wallet.

9) True Love stands the test of TIME; Illusionary Love writhes away in REALITY.

10) True Love never fails; Illusionary Love always fails to deliver what really MATTERS in life.

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by Harvest

The Quick KC Newbie's Guide To:

Differentiating Between True Love and Illusionary Love

Is your judgement getting clouded lately by the thick shroud of KC forces overwhelming you? Time to take a step back and re-align your emotional compass with these time-tested words of KC wisdom:

Hahahaha !! Good one !

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by Harvest

The Quick KC Newbie's Guide To:

Differentiating Between True Love and Illusionary Love

CLAP CLAP. Excellent piece of work.

[Chengdu dog]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Like what bro DYBJ said, unless one goes through the baptism by fire, one will never fully understand or appreciate the situation. We can read about this a million times but will still fall. End of the day, only those with a clear mind will survive.

And to me, having a clear mind is being able to distinguish between what you want and knowing what is merely an illusion. And unless one experience it firsthand, it is hard to have a clear mind.

Our 老江湖 speak leow hi bro slider72 long time didn't see you posting.

Did you travel to 重庆 for holiday ?

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Harvest

The Quick KC Newbie's Guide To:

Differentiating Between True Love and Illusionary Love

10) True Love never fails; Illusionary Love always fails to deliver what really MATTERS in life.

Errh... this one kinda hard to find in WL or BY r/s...

Nice work

[cablesnwires]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Like what bro DYBJ said, unless one goes through the baptism by fire, one will never fully understand or appreciate the situation. We can read about this a million times but will still fall. End of the day, only those with a clear mind will survive.

And to me, having a clear mind is being able to distinguish between what you want and knowing what is merely an illusion. And unless one experience it firsthand, it is hard to have a clear mind.

It's been a long time, bro slider_72. Check your pm.

[scoobyhoo]

Originally Posted by Harvest

The Quick KC Newbie's Guide To:

Differentiating Between True Love and Illusionary Love

Is your judgement getting clouded lately by the thick shroud of KC forces overwhelming you? Time to take a step back and re-align your emotional compass with these time-tested words of KC wisdom:

1) True Love builds on the foundation of TRUST and RESPECT; Illusionary Love builds on the foundation of dollars and NO SENSE.

2) True Love needs TIME to develop and grow; Illusionary Love only needs to water $$$... and lots of it... to keep feeding the weed.

3) True Love is SELFLESS in nature; Illusionary Love always has a hidden (and selfish) agenda.

4) True Love conserves its life force for her one and only; Illusionary Love sucks the life force out from him who thinks he is her "one and only".

5) True Love amplifies FAITH and DIGNITY (in spite of obstacles and hardship); Illusionary Love wears a mask of DECEIT and conceals SHAME (of the hidden skeletons in the closet).

6) True Love has to be given away willingly; Illusionary Love can be bought and traded like commodities.

7) True Love is forged and strengthened in ADVERSITIES; Illusionary Love blossoms only in good times.

8) True Love grows your strengths and improves your weaknesses; Illusionary Love inflates your EGO and sinks your wallet.

9) True Love stands the test of TIME; Illusionary Love writhes away in REALITY.

10) True Love never fails; Illusionary Love always fails to deliver what really MATTERS in life.

applause your views and a bit lost when I notice "To be continued" has been missed at the end of this post.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by Harvest

Agree with that, bro Warbird. The KC game is always a numbers game. Those who ever falls into your KC trap will be far and few between. So u are still sticking with your Fujian girl or hunting or a new replacement?

May be an addition rather than a replacement, hehe. My KC for the Fujian gal is close to zero now. If she chooses to leave it's OK w/ me. But I'll keep all my promises made to her. She can take it or leave it. I dun need her, both sexually n emotionally. There are always prettier n sexier glas out there.

Originally Posted by Harvest

The Quick KC Newbie's Guide To:

Differentiating Between True Love and Illusionary Love

Very good, bro Harvest.

"Love" is mostly illusionary w/ these PRC MMs who are good illusionists, hahaha.

Cheers!

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by scoobyhoo

applause your views and a bit lost when I notice "To be continued" has been missed at the end of this post.

You are observant, bro. I've left that phase out because I'm running out of ideas of what to write next. Thanks for your suggestion in your PM... Some other bros who have also PM-ed me have given me some inspiration/direction too. Thank you so much... pls keep your PMs coming in. I'd love to hear your stories and sharing/struggles. And I promise to keep them confidential.

Originally Posted by warbird

May be an addition rather than a replacement, hehe. My KC for the Fujian gal is close to zero now. If she chooses to leave it's OK w/ me. But I'll keep all my promises made to her. She can take it or leave it. I dun need her, both sexually n emotionally. There are always prettier n sexier glas out there.

Well said, bro Warbird. I've noticed that you have been pretty active in the high-end KTV segment and organising gatherings here and there. Would loved to join you someday but I'm not at that high-end league yet.

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by Chengdu dog

Our 老江湖 speak leow hi bro slider72 long time didn't see you posting.

Did you travel to 重庆 for holiday ?

Holiday? Oh no. I went there to buy house, land, car and preparing to migrate there for good.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Holiday? Oh no. I went there to buy house, land, car and preparing to migrate there for good.

Oh good good so office up & running liao bro?
Holiday trip there wif the bros in AUG and accom at your place still onz??????

[Chengdu dog]

Originally Posted by slider_72

Holiday? Oh no. I went there to buy house, land, car and preparing to migrate there for good.

Oh so sad Singapore is going to lose their favourite son to China leow

[Panamera]

Originally Posted by Chengdu dog

Oh so sad Singapore is going to lose their favourite son to China leow

Why? You gonna to miss him?

If you read closely to Bro Slider_72 posting, he still missing something...

[Chengdu dog]

Originally Posted by Panamera

Why? You gonna to miss him?

If you read closely to Bro Slider_72 posting, he still missing something...

Ya ..Singapore health centres & HFJ nightclubs lose a good customer

Hmm ..what do he miss ??

[slider_72]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Oh good good so office up & running liao bro?
Holiday trip there wif the bros in AUG and accom at your place still onz??????

Sure thing bro. Just remember, no dogs allowed ok?

We do a number count before the expedition to see how many bitches we need to be on standby there. Also, must make reservations at the famous dog meat restaurant there for stewed dog meat in claypot.