How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[NotMyRealName]

Originally Posted by warbird

Good morning!
f these girls, abt 70% of them hv the sharp chins but there r many who look more natural n prettier. Feel like flying over there now to up a dozen of them!!

Cheers!

Bro WB

envy, bro WB.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by NotMyRealName

envy, bro WB.

Bro NotMyRealName,

Long time no see.

Hahaha, I know you hv many lobangs too. We need to meet n compare notes. And discuss stretagies...

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Good morning!

I hv new revelations n understandings on the important subject of man-woman RS. These hv come abt partly from readings n researching n partly from my personl experiences. There r not really new but I'll give a brief summary here.

The biggest mistake we men make is to think that girls r primarily attracted to the same thing as men: Good looks n sexy body.

Additionally, what many pretty SYTs say they want in a man is completely different from what their subconscious minds want. They r most attracted to a man's masculine character n emotional control/self mastery.

And if you can get them to constantly think abt YOU when you're NOT around,you can make them fall for u, regardless of ur looks, height, weight, age, financial resources, status, educational level, ethnicity, nationality, etc. To make them constantly thinking abt u, you need to be uniquely different from all the men she has ever met. And you should evoke strong emotions in her, both positive n negativs...she must be confused, uncertain, yet hopeful...flip the sexual switch n she will chase u. You will surely fail if you behave like a "nice guy" or "perfect gentleman."

There r startegies known as "The Mind Scrambler" n "Hate-Love-Switch."

Initially, all you need is a chance to meet them face to face, even if it's for only 30 seconds.

But to keep that infatuation/love going, you must establish a sexual RS w/ them n be able to give them repeated PVOs. Sorry, there is no substitute for this.

BTW, I'm now certain that a healthy n pretty woman has a stronger sexual urge n needs than an average man. She plays hard to get because she only wants to be fxxked by the right MAN, usually in the context of a long term RS. KM (the cute 21 yo Sichuan gal) actually hinted at this last week. We hv been brutally honest w/ each other. Previouly, only a GF n a mistress hv openly expressed their desires to hv more frequent n wilder sex.

Any comments?

Bro WB

[NotMyRealName]

Originally Posted by warbird

Bro NotMyRealName,

Long time no see.

Hahaha, I know you hv many lobangs too. We need to meet n compare notes. And discuss stretagies...

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I think our circumstances are different and our targets are different, no one strategy wins them all, so adapt and I also learn along the way. I've laid low for sometimes now due to many reasons but one of them is I'm bored with the types I meet in KTVs and the other non-KTV types are serious and demand commitment of the emotional and long term kind which I avoid. So back to just sing once in a while.

There r startegies known as "The Mind Scrambler" n "Hate-Love-Switch."

Me never try the hate-love-switch, they hate and I just move on to the next target loh.

BTW, I'm now certain that a healthy n pretty woman has a stronger sexual urge n needs than an average man. She plays hard to get because she only wants to be fxxked by the right MAN, usually in the context of a long term RS. KM (the cute 21 yo Sichuan gal) actually hinted at this last week. We hv been brutally honest w/ each other. Previouly, only a GF n a mistress hv openly expressed their desires to hv more frequent n wilder sex.

Any comments?

Bro WB

One type of rice feeds hundred types of people, but you are so fortunate to have a fiery and direct sichuan KM, but I think this type also turns very hateful like a switch. Enjoy but you are the sifu at these type of games anyway.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by NotMyRealName

I think our circumstances are different and our targets are different, no one strategy wins them all, so adapt and I also learn along the way. I've laid low for sometimes now due to many reasons but one of them is I'm bored with the types I meet in KTVs and the other non-KTV types are serious and demand commitment of the emotional and long term kind which I avoid. So back to just sing once in a while.

Me never try the hate-love-switch, they hate and I just move on to the next target loh.

One type of rice feeds hundred types of people, but you are so fortunate to have a fiery and direct sichuan KM, but I think this type also turns very hateful like a switch. Enjoy but you are the sifu at these type of games anyway.

Bro NotMyRealName,

Yes, every man is different n so is every woman.

No need to avoid any relationship n connection, as long as you keep a cool head n never get emotional.

If a man's wife/GF/mistress/er nai/lover doesn't hate him in some way, on some days, it's because she has very little feelings for him.

If I can get girls/women to hate me, or at least get them angry n agitated...or make them cry, I can flip the switch to make them emotionally addicted. AND If I can also give them prolonged PVOs repeatedly...then their pussies n hearts r mine.

Actually I'm no sifu, just a diligent learner. I'm learning to improve myself relentlessly everyday...

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Good morning!

A few days ago, bro PK sent me a PM:

What are the terms do you normally offer for by? Recently met a few potential targets, but dun know what is the figure to start with

I told him that I'll post the answer here as many bros hv asked the same question.

Bro PK,

Terms are always negotiable. I assume that you're referring to girls who r already in SG.

Firstly, never appear to be too eager. Secondly, before u make an offer to BY any girl, you must qualify her n state ur requirements.

A frequent question from girls: What do u look for in a 女朋友，情人？ I'll state my criteria in terms of looks n physical attributes. Then I'll stress the single most important condition: Her pussy must be mine exlusively during the BY period. If it's for more than 3 months, I expect to do her raw, after a series of tests, including an exam at KK. Last but not least, my 女朋友，情人 must be 乖顺 and have 诚信.

Next I'll outline my monthly allowance. Take it or leave it.

For non-KTV girls, monthly allowance ranges from 2K to 10K n up a month, sometimes plus rental. For KTV girls, if she doesn't work, from 5K to 20K n up. There may be rental n other fringe benefits. If she continues to work, from 2k to 10K n up...

Remember that everything is subject to negotiation.

In China, you can cut the allowance by more than half, depending on the city/province. But some models/actresses may want an arm n a leg hahaha...

Good luck!

Bro WB

[warbird]

Bro PK has a follow up question:

[QUOTE]What type of property do you normally rent for them?[QUOTE]

Dear bro PK,

If the girl continues to work in the night scene, I'll usually not change her housing arrangement. Just take her to a hotel rm or a private apt...

If the girl doesn't work, I'll find a master bedroom or a studio or a 1 bedroom condo for her. It's not cheap in the CBD. The lease is usually for at least 6 months. For those who come here for only 1-2 months, it can be a challenge to find such acommodation.

Cheers!

Bro WB

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Good morning!

I hv alluded to the fact that a man's looks matter much less to women. But physical appearance does matter, but not in the way most men think.

A man is physically most attractive if he is very fit, neat n clean. He must not be overweigth or underweigth..why? Think n you know the answer.

A male's intangible attributes such as self mastery n masculine character/personality r of paramount importance. But there is one physical attribute which is most sexually attractive to women: A V-shape male body. Broad shoulders and narrow waist n hips.

A respected Ang Moh guru just sent me the following recently:

Do Looks Matter As Much To Women? Finally, The Truth

Dear Bro Warbird,

Think that the "GQ model" type of guys who tend to
catch women's eye naturally have a better dating life than you ever
will?

Not necessarily...not by a long shot. Here's the fascinating reason why
you CAN and SHOULD do better with women than they can.

All told, I think it's perfectly natural that most of us as guys
would assume that other dudes who are "gifted" in the looks
department would have incredible success with women, without really
trying.

After all, that's how it seems to go for beautiful women, so why
not for men also?

If a woman looks great, guys will be all over her, often (to their
own potentially disastrous risk) without concern for her
personality or character.

And really, no matter how much we hear about how "looks don't
matter" to women, we can't help but overhear them talking about how
"hot" a particular guy is and/or making side comments to their
girlfriends about how they may be fantasizing about him.

Great, huh?

According to all external evidence, it would indeed seem that men
and women are a lot alike when it comes to how much looks matter,
right?

Not so fast.

What if I told you that my direct experience tells me that how good
looking a guy is has almost NOTHING TO DO with his ultimate level
of success with women?

Your first thought may by that I'm going to join the chorus who
would sell you on the trite but persistent notion that "looks don't
matter".

Well, not me.

Looks may in fact matter, but NOT in the way you might think. At
the very least, not in the SAME WAY that how a woman looks matters
to guys.

Here's how it all works.

First, let's look at the average guy.

And for the record, by "average" I mean ANY guy who doesn't see
himself as being particularly good looking. My firmly held belief
is that ALL of us can be at least an "average guy" by simply caring
enough to have self-respect.

So please don't e-mail me in an attempt to explain how you're
probably "below average", and how what I'm about to say in this
newsletter still won't help you. It's the complaining about that
itself that actually spells out "below average", believe me.

Anyway...

Since "Mr. Average" is not particularly good looking, he may think
that he has less of a chance with a beautiful woman.

This is predicated on logic, of course. Deep down, we all tend to
feel like we should get what we think we deserve.

So "Mr. Average" sees "Mr. GQ" with a beautiful woman and despairs.

But then again, it always seems like the NEXT beautiful woman he
sees is with a guy who he might think doesn't deserve her as much
as HE does. And that frustrates him.

Despair alternating with frustration. Why? Because he's assuming
the women he sees must make dating and relationship decisions the
way WE do as men.

So he sees "Mr. GQ" as deserving, and any less handsome man with a
pretty woman as simply "lucky" or something. And he resents BOTH
guys.

As a result of this poisonous mindset, his problem is that he can't
get up the nerve to ask a woman out on a first date.

But if he could just muster a bit of confidence, he may find that
his masculinity, ability to put a woman at ease in his presence and
his solid character could actually make women go crazy for him
after they meet him.

In fact, a BIG part of his frustration may even lie in knowing that
if he could just get a woman on a first date, she'd LOVE HIM.

...If only, in his mind, she could get past his underwhelming
physical appearance.

Have you ever caught yourself thinking that? I know I have.

Meanwhile, let's consider "Mr. GQ".

Women naturally smile at him when they see him. They may even
flirt a little more noticeably.

Heck, women may even approach him first.

It's not altogether out of the question that women would be
throwing slips of paper with their phone number on it at him.

As such, he likely has NO PROBLEM getting first dates.

But when you get right down to it, a first date does NOT equal
"success with women".

And if you're among the legion of "Mr. Average" guys out there, you
might not ever see the part that comes next. You may not even ever
consider the POSSIBILITY of it, frankly.

Here it is, though: I've lost count of the number of handsome
guys who can get a first date with ANY woman, but who can't get a
SECOND DATE to save their lives.

Why not?

Usually it's one of three reasons:

1) Women, ultimately can't stand to be upstaged in the looks
department. Insecurity and jealousy cause them to run away. They
literally prefer not to date someone "prettier" than they are.

(And for what it's worth, YES...this means you should feel empowered
to go after women who are better looking than you are. They'll
actually like you MORE than women who aren't.)

2) The guy falls for his own shortsighted belief that women make
dating decisions the same way men do, and therefore develops an
arrogant attitude based on his looks. Women like good-looking
guys, but they can't stand arrogant ones. Mark that.

3) It turns out the guy is either BORING or a flat-out WUSS behind
that "pretty boy" façade. Game over.

Isn't the big picture here a little bit crazy?

"Mr. Average" doesn't get a FIRST DATE...mostly due to having psyched
himself out with negative self-talk.

"Mr. GQ" can't get a SECOND DATE...for one (or all) of the reasons
listed above.

In the end BOTH GUYS FAIL with women.

And the most breathtaking part of this whole scenario? Both men
actually have the SAME PROBLEM.

Neither guy has the ability to CHOOSE the women he really wants.

Whether that means "short term fling" or "long term relationship"
is irrelevant. If ANY guy fails to create deep attraction in a
woman, he's getting nowhere with her.

And remember, this is REGARDLESS OF LOOKS.

What's the net/net of all this?

It's simple. Good looks may help a guy catch a woman's eye up
front, but really only matter as it pertains to HOW and WHEN
success or failure with women presents itself.

And yes...an "average" guy may need to take a more objective approach
to getting a woman's attention initially.

But ultimately, only the "Big Four" (Confidence/Masculinity/Inspiring Confidence/Character) matter when it comes to truly attracting her...that is, on YOUR TERMS and for as long as you'd
like her to be in your life.

And the bottom line is that ONLY guys who are in control of their
dating lives can expect to have success with women.

In the example given above, neither "Mr. Average" nor "Mr. GQ" has
CONTROL over his dating life.

They don't hold the cards when it comes to deciding which women
they want to keep around for any length of time.

So if you think about it, whether a guy feels like he has a hard
time GETTING a woman's attention or KEEPING it, the problem is
ultimately the same: He doesn't have the women in his life that he
wants.

And by the way, if you think that the good looking guy may still
have one-up over "average" guys because he can get the "quick lay"
out of the transaction before he ultimately blows it, guess again.

As I've shown you before in the past, high quality women DO NOT
make decisions regarding who to sleep with the same way guys do.

Without "Big Four" substance, ANY guy can forgett about it.

But with the "Big Four" in full effect, you essentially weed out
just about ALL of your competition in today's modern, neutered
world replete with confused men...good-looking and otherwise.

I can hear someone asking, "Yeah, but what about women who AREN'T
high quality?"

What about 'em?

If a woman has low self-esteem and the lower standards that go with
it, the irony is that a more "average" guy may have a better
chance, as it were, even with her.

I personally thank my lucky stars that I DON'T have "model looks",
but that I know what the "Big Four" are and recognize their
importance. My experience with women has been way less complicated
that way, and far more successful.

How about you? Can you adopt that mindset and take full advantage
of the power it holds?

Be Good,

Mr. YKL

[warbird]

Good morning!

No outings for almost 2 wks because many relatives from China came to visit me.

I'll organize more outings to TAM, starting this wk.

It's my civic duty to bring up an unpleasant subject.

In the last 5-6 yrs, I hv witnessed a number of bros, who were previously generous spenders at KTVs/HFJs and whom I regarded as well to do, who are now severely strapped for cash. Some r in dire finacial straits. Some may hv filed for bankrutpcy. For some, the hard times might be temporary, for others prolonged n intractable.

There r 4 main reasons: 1) they gamble, 2) they got cheated, 3) they spend more than they can afford n 4) business and/or investment failure. Usually there is a combination of two or more of the above.

There is another common thread. There is a high proportion of heavy drinkers/smokers among them. Why? Drinking n smoking impair their judgment n emotional control.

Yes, I welcome bros to have a great time at KTVs/HFJs. Do find n fxxk all the gals of your type. But never spend more than u can afford n NEVER, ever gamble. Stay cool, calm, collected. And very alert, at all times. Become physically very fit.

Have a great day!!

Bro WB

[saabking]

heard that for non-KTV - all in 4K monthly - covering expenses and rent....

Originally Posted by warbird

Next I'll outline my monthly allowance. Take it or leave it.

For non-KTV girls, monthly allowance ranges from 2K to 10K n up a month, sometimes plus rental. For KTV girls, if she doesn't work, from 5K to 20K n up. There may be rental n other fringe benefits. If she continues to work, from 2k to 10K n up...

Remember that everything is subject to negotiation.

In China, you can cut the allowance by more than half, depending on the city/province. But some models/actresses may want an arm n a leg hahaha...

Good luck!

Bro WB

[Account]

"For KTV girls, if she doesn't work, from 5K to 20K n up."

Wow brother warbird, what you can offer them is much more than what I earn. Perhaps you can dispense some tips to reach your status today?

[warbird]

Originally Posted by saabking

heard that for non-KTV - all in 4K monthly - covering expenses and rent....

Bro saabking,

Yes, can get even lower sometimes...

Originally Posted by Account

"For KTV girls, if she doesn't work, from 5K to 20K n up."

Wow brother warbird, what you can offer them is much more than what I earn. Perhaps you can dispense some tips to reach your status today?

Bro Account,

I'm only a learner n a very junior trainee in finance, despite my advanced age. I had spent decades in my profession in Gotham City, before making a career switch. I'm still making peanuts...anyone w/ average intelligence in SG or China can make much more money than I, really.

You should study the life and business/investment strategies of great gurus such as John D. Rockefeller, J. Paul Getty, Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, K.S. Li and Carl Icahn, etc. It takes time but the payoff will be huge.

If u only hv time for one guru, study J. Paul Getty.

And never, ever gamble.

Good luck,

Bro WB

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Good morning!

Recently, I hv approached scores of gals inside n outside KTVs, in shopping centres, near private schools, etc. Many hv agreed for ST n many for BY.
So far the best is KM n a tall gal DD whom I met a few days ago. KM is only 162, but DD is over 170. Both want LT BY only.

Over 5 yrs ago, I approached an Ang Moh near a taxi stand. She was very pretty, blonde, youthful, tall, very fair n slim. Wonderfully proportionate body. She was alone. A Russian, only 18. Unfortunately, she won't give me her HP no. I hv not met an Ang Moh worth approaching since.

I wonder if I hv improved enough to create a different outcome when a gal of her beauty shows up again. There is always rm for improvement.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[lawry]

Originally Posted by warbird

Do Looks Matter As Much To Women? Finally, The Truth

Very well written and benificial to all the bros here.. Anyone who is able to understand what is been written... Lawry would have to sit one corner and suck thumb.. nothing left for lawry..

WB, youre getting more and more wise.. wisdom seems to be overflowing from you..

well done..

[warbird]

Originally Posted by lawry

Very well written and benificial to all the bros here.. Anyone who is able to understand what is been written... Lawry would have to sit one corner and suck thumb.. nothing left for lawry..

WB, youre getting more and more wise.. wisdom seems to be overflowing from you..

well done..

Bro lawry,

You make my day!

If every man understands what really attracts women, we will hv a much harder time in bedding n keeping the type of women we truly desire.

Relax, we hv absolutely nothing to fear.

Judging from the posts on the thread Do most girls like "handsome" guys?, the overwhelming majority of men will never get it hahaha.

There is one other thing to remember.

If a man, who doesn't "get it" n is "not GQ handsome," has a very beautiful wife/mistress/lover, he will believe the woman is only after his money or his status. His beliefs n attitude will doom their RS eventually. It's a certainty. This will reinforce his false beliefs n those of his male friends/relatives...a vicious cycle. It will doom his future RS. He will NEVER get it. Really very sad.

Even women/girls don't understand it. Attraction occurs at the subconscious level, it's not a conscious choice.

However, in the final analysis, a man's ability to give his women intense n continuous PVOs is the single most crucial factor in determining the mutual happiness, outcome n longevity of the RS.

"[表情]很多时候 男人会让你觉得他爱上了你 [表情] 其实他没有 [表情]而女人会让你觉得她不可能会爱上你 结果她却动了心[表情]"

The above was sent by a younger singer TH yesterday. An insightful statement which reflects one of many differences between men n women.

I met TH in a small joint by chance. Saw her a few times. I refused to 定台...I told her I had two mistresses. She declined ST. She left SG over a yr ago. I told her I would BY her when she returns on a different visa. I offered X$, but she wanted 33% more. I told her not to come. She was really pissed off. She said her GF, who is not as pretty n older than she, is being kept by a SG man for more money!

Once TH asked for a loan, but I flatly declined. She was most unhappy n she implied that she would never ever become my woman. She even mocked my parsimony n my diminutive height. 你是我这一生见过最小气最吝啬的男人！I love it, what a compliment! Then she sent me a pic of a man who is 187, according to her. She didn't say that was her BF. I was unimpressed even if he was 287, because giraffe was much taller than that, I said. Hahaha...I remained unperturbed. We still keep in touch. Even if she accepts X$ now, I do not want her. I hv many prettier gals who hv agreed to BY. But TH is welcomed to intro girls to me...otherwise I would hv deleted her Wechat long ago.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[saabking]

"很多时候 男人会让你觉得他爱上了你 其实他没有 而女人会让你觉得她不可能会爱上你 结果她却动了心"

yes - this is so true..
so you must know how to read the 心动 - all the sub-conscious action..and not what you tell you in your face

[warbird]

Originally Posted by saabking

"很多时候 男人会让你觉得他爱上了你 其实他没有 而女人会让你觉得她不可能会爱上你 结果她却动了心"

yes - this is so true..
so you must know how to read the 心动 - all the sub-conscious action..and not what you tell you in your face

Bro saabking,

If we parse the above statement, we will uncover hidden secrets of the female mind.

I hv much more to say on this fascinating topic. Suffice to say that attraction is NOT a choice n a girl will become very attracted to a man's confidence/masculinity/self mastery despite his negative external attributes which could repulse her initially. BUT it usually takes some time for a girl's powerful subconscious mind to recognize n appreciate these manly characteristics. It's usually a slow process, unless...haha. Can anyone guess?

If a beautiful girl says that she can never like or love u because you're short or fat or thin or too old or too young or poor or of the wrong ethnic group or...relax, smile, as if you just hit jackpot...she will eventually fall for you, assuming you really hv awesome masculine self mastery!! She can't help herself.

Cheers!

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Good morning!

A brief FR on my outing to TAM3rd fl for HH last Fri.

There were 6 bros, 3 old ones n 3 new ones (new to the 30% leftover bttle !).

We had a medium rm which comfortably accommodated 6 of us n our gals.

Total damage $210 = $141 for rm charges + $50 for mummy + 19 for waiters

Each old bro paid $20 n new bro $50.

It's noteworthy that I had squeezed out 3 outings for this one bttle of Martell. I paid a grand total of $65 + $30 + $20 = $115 for 3 outings or average of $38.33 per outing hahaha.

A new bro canceled last minute n he was immediately deleted from my ctc.

I brought DD but also saw two other interesting prospects n got their ctc from mummy. As usual, I asked for them to add my Wechat to get a clearer look at their assets. Both hv ample boobs, one is 165, the other 172 haha. After HH, I walked around the entire joint for 15 minutes trying to find new gems. I didn't.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[saabking]

Originally Posted by warbird

Bro saabking,

If we parse the above statement, we will uncover hidden secrets of the female mind.

I hv much more to say on this fascinating topic. Suffice to say that attraction is NOT a choice n a girl will become very attracted to a man's confidence/masculinity/self mastery despite his negative external attributes which could repulse her initially. BUT it usually takes some time for a girl's powerful subconscious mind to recognize n appreciate these manly characteristics. It's usually a slow process, unless...haha. Can anyone guess?

Bro WB

Yup - no need to guess - it's PVO..this give the subconscious mind the addiction it needs.. but i also believe that emotional addiction can have an equally strong hold on the subconscious mind too

[saabking]

Bro warbird,
One of my buddy asked me - what are the signs of "动了心"?

I told him..尽在不言中

you have any good wisdom to share on this topic so as to benefit the rest of the bros here..