Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

Can't agree more

And the 2 questions are such common and obvious ones that could only mean one thing. Such a classic.

But good lah, TS, at least you're willing to pen down all your thoughts and share here how it all unfolds. Hopefully, irregardless of how this classic tale will turn out, please continue to FR here on how it developes.

At least this thread can then serve as a good reference for any other bros thinking of traking this beaten path

I will share with I seen & heard over there, but not that soon as I need to sort out my work life at this point 1st. Everything in total chaos need to take a bit of time to do damage control and controlling the feeling of missing her.... Stressed....

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

I will share with I seen & heard over there, but not that soon as I need to sort out my work life at this point 1st. Everything in total chaos need to take a bit of time to do damage control and controlling the feeling of missing her.... Stressed....

Welcome back bro.

Hope things work out for you... Rem to keep level minded though.

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Welcome back bro.

Hope things work out for you... Rem to keep level minded though.

Thanks for the advice will keep that in mind, just hope I don't be too paranoid about too many things.

It is difficult to maintain a long distance relationship. I am just into my 2nd day and I am having weird thoughts already.

[aczeta76]

Aiyoh bro...

Rem tt regardless of a long-distance r/s or not.. u muz be ZAI.. (Steady), the r/s is not your whole life nor her whole life.

Both of you have had your separate lives till you met and will continue to have separate lives should you part (touch-wood)... this is part of life. Dun try to attain the impossible

[john99]

Bro,

From yr postings, looks like you have been cheonging here and there. Very surprised you got into this situation. There are thousands of decent, hardworking gals and very pretty over in China. I cannot understand why you are stuck with this gal who has so much "emotional baggage" with her.

Anyway to each his own, perhaps I have not met my match yet. If you are in ZH, perhaps some bros can help you check yr galfriend's true status...

[Hagrid]

I think regardless of experience, it is natural that one day, when the right one come along, even experienced bro may not be able to let go

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by john99

Bro,

There are thousands of decent, hardworking gals and very pretty over in China. I cannot understand why you are stuck with this gal who has so much "emotional baggage" with her.

A very popular reason y these ppl fall for WL,

She is different from other WL.

[asean]

Bro Naemlo, wow very good observation ... and might I say, very true ..

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by Hagrid

I think regardless of experience, it is natural that one day, when the right one come along, even experienced bro may not be able to let go

Guess that happened to me already, too deep and too tied up to let it go.

[Captain_Hook]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Guess that happened to me already, too deep and too tied up to let it go.

Not to worry once they plunder you of your wealth they will dump you faster than the speed of light.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Guess that happened to me already, too deep and too tied up to let it go.

Bro, busy still got time to reply posts ah? No need to write long composition FR lah, just some small updates here and there everytime you come here is good enuff for us to give u more advice

For eg, did you get to do her raw over there? When you say too deep (no pun intended) do u mean got discuss about marriage oredi? Don't preggy her or else u'll be in deeper...

[azzaro23]

It is only the 3th day that I am away from her and I am missing her so much. Got to find a way to stop thinking about her so much. Super destructive to my social & working life....

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

It is only the 3th day that I am away from her and I am missing her so much. Got to find a way to stop thinking about her so much. Super destructive to my social & working life....

Get a life and straighten out. Gosh.. you sound like an infatuated puppy/ teenage wimp.

If you can't even cope with your own emotions then u better wake up.

U choose your life, so if it is "DESTRUCTIVE" dun pin in on your PRC MM.

Missing someone has absolutely nothing to do with destructive, it is in your mind. Little boy,

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by naemlo

A very popular reason y these ppl fall for WL,

She is different from other WL.

Guess I'm the 3rd guy in this thread heading north again & doing this week. Wish me luck bros

Mine's really different. She doesn't sell & don't walk the streets. Well, hi-end means higher end damage

Was @ the China embassy & bloody Q for 2 days just to get a VISA entry.

Bro Azzaro, I agree with aczeta76. Don't lose your mind over love, it's always sweet but bitter as well. Your career comes first, no money no honey. This is the international law & if she's the one for you, she'll wait for you. U guys can always arrange to meet once every few weeks or months & the wait actually strengthens the relationship. I or rather we can understand the lust awaits impatiently....

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

Mine's really different. She doesn't sell & don't walk the streets. Well, hi-end means higher end damage

Was @ the China embassy & bloody Q for 2 days just to get a VISA entry.

Good luck for your trip, which part PRC you going. Me not going till after olympics because of the VISA... too damn troublesome to Q and also no time to go...and waste there. (hengz din go this time round too as I heard it is a bloody river in ZH some days.)

If time apart makes her forget me then too bad loh... I have straighten out my thoughts now it is her turn to think thru' if she wants to serious future with me.