All you need to know about "Marriage/Divorce" under the SG Law

[Big Sexy]

no problem mate.
Do it for your daughter!
She deserve to have a complete family!

Originally Posted by Davidtoh

Thanks Bro Big Sexy

your reply has woken me up somehow, still got problems, but willing to try other options for the sake of daughter. Only thing is, the road ahead is tough, but willing to try to reconcile after reading your words. Thanks again bro.

[cereal-killer]

dear DavidTOH
maybe you're the same person i know... 4years diff bed, 7 year old daughter.

RECONCILE. There are ways to spice up your love life and rekindle the love again - If You Want To.

My friend's problem is VERY similar to yours but he says He has tried all means, and its his wife thats sort of rejecting him. I recalled her mentioned one time that She asked for a massage down her back and he took 5mins of it, massaged and walked out of room.

To me, THAT was a clear signal that we 'wants' it. If i was him, I would have given her a proper massage down her back to her waist, and bum.. the rest you have to imagine yourself

[cereal-killer]

Originally Posted by netrot

hi big sexy

Need ur advice, i marry at 2000 .. 2002 marriage broke down.. Wife apply ppo against me.. after that she moved back to her mom house... i never contact her since then.. cos of PPO
Now 2009 .. its been 6 -7 yrs .. i need to divorce her.. but she has a kid but its not mine... we owe a flat..i paid the HDB maintence solely..

Any good lawyer to recomend cos want to get it done & over...

thank you in advance...

This one is interesting ...
Seperated 7years, child not yours, Flat you pay.

In my opinion, you can divorce but as for HDB, it has to be 50-50. Whatever you've paid goes back to your account. If you have proof child is not yours, then no need to pay child maintenance. Regarding alimony to wife, you MIGHT have to pay if she's nasty

[sean009113]

hi now do we still need to go court 4 our divorce cos i now having a divorce wif my wife n i have no child my flat has sold n she dun need me to pay her anything

[Big Sexy]

mate.. read the thread..
http://sammy.services/adult-d...ml#post1098568

Originally Posted by sean009113

hi now do we still need to go court 4 our divorce cos i now having a divorce wif my wife n i have no child my flat has sold n she dun need me to pay her anything

[dowjones_01]

Get some free legal advice from CC if really needed.

[crashalot]

Originally Posted by sean009113

hi now do we still need to go court 4 our divorce cos i now having a divorce wif my wife n i have no child my flat has sold n she dun need me to pay her anything

Divorce is to end the legal status. You can don't do the divorce process but it may have implications for your CPF, will etc. Also later you may meet someone and want to re-marry, so better get a divorce and end it cleanly.

Hope that this help.

[sidewinder2007]

I am in the midst of negotiating the divorce settlement terms. my wife is not asking for alimony but only child maintenance. However i feel the amount she is asking for is too much and is effectively contributing to her "alimony" indirectly. I would like to ask any bros or sis here who have gone thru this what amount u r paying for child maintenance. Both my wife and me are high income earner but we live in HDB which I have agreed to transfer to her but she will return my share already paid based on original buy price.Pls PM me as i am unable to share more specific details openly just in case. many many thanks in advance.

[Big Sexy]

mate... read page 6 and 7 in this thread.

Originally Posted by sidewinder2007

However i feel the amount she is asking for is too much and is effectively contributing to her "alimony" indirectly. I would like to ask any bros or sis here who have gone thru this what amount u r paying for child maintenance.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by sidewinder2007

I am in the midst of negotiating the divorce settlement terms. my wife is not asking for alimony but only child maintenance. However i feel the amount she is asking for is too much and is effectively contributing to her "alimony" indirectly. I would like to ask any bros or sis here who have gone thru this what amount u r paying for child maintenance. Both my wife and me are high income earner but we live in HDB which I have agreed to transfer to her but she will return my share already paid based on original buy price.Pls PM me as i am unable to share more specific details openly just in case. many many thanks in advance.

Bro child maintenance you pay until child is of working age where as alimony is life time until either she remarries or dies...make sure she put it down in affidavit she dun want a single cents and i mean not even one cents cos if she put down a nominal sum of $1...one day she can still turn round and ask the "cock" to vary the order and increase the sum especially if she becomes jobless or sick etc..fyi i am paying nearly 1k for one child and alimony...frankly i think i got screwed..

[alvin79]

i got a question.is there any way not to pay my child maintanence $$ anymore?beside until she become 21 years old or she can work b4 her 21 years old?wat other ways can i stop paying?she is 9 years old,btw.can i disown her thru legal means and cease all maint.$$ after it is approve?in another words,''TUO LI FU NU GUAN XI.''

[nottituck]

one WARNING to share with all the guys here... and this is VERY IMPORTANT cos it happened to my friend's brother.

when he was in the process of divorcing his wife, the understanding was that she will not ask for ANY money, but suddenly her lawyer asked if he is ok to pay alimmony of just $1 a month as maintanence. As like most men who want to be gentlemanly, he did not say no, and happily agreed to it. ONLY $12 what!?!?

That was before he became successful in his trading business. Then he got letters from her lawyers 9 months after the divorced was finalized asking for 10% of his income from his business. Of course he bay-dik, go court and challenged.

In the end, the bit*h won cos her lawyer argued that when he gave her that $1, it signalled his intention to give more but at that time he was broke (got laid off, no income), so they did not ask for more. Now that he is 'rich' he should give her more money... and guess what, the court ruled in her favor.

Now he so damned pissed but cannot do anything about it. I am not kidding you. He says his income from business is about $28000 a month and then he suddenly got to give a monthly cheque of $2,800 (at least) to her for NOTHING, and it is because of that stupid $1

If you do not intent to give your soon-to-be-ex-wife any money make sure you dont give at all. Then cut all relations, change mobile, address, etc and make sure ex-wife dont get in on any information as to how you are doing...

please let your guy friends know about this trick the woman's lawyer will use to get back to you later when you made it. i am very serious about this.

if you or anyone is gonna get divorced, feel free to PM me. I am not a lawyer but I have seen at least 5 divorces and learnt alot from what they been through. There are just some things EVEN your lawyers wont (or couldnt) tell you one. Trust me.

[SamsungTay]

Does that mean that if you are a woman in divorce, it will be good to ask for at least a $1 alimony even if he is not rich now. Who know you can ask for more in future??

[adra]

Bro Big Sexy,
I'm sorry cause this is out of topic here, but i already PM you regarding my problem.

My account been blocked without any reason and this is first time since 9 years ago. Again, please look after this problem as I found it HARD to move around with so many limitation.

Or, enlight me how this happen. BIG THANKS.

[loster]

Hi all, i m thinking about a divorce with my current wife. Reason being she said we dun match. I tried all means and ways to be with her but she rejected. We have been married for 3+ yrs with no kids. However, we just gotten our new home less than 1 yr ago. What will happen to the house in this case?