Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

waste the tax payer money!!!

paying tax doesnt mean u are no.1 ...... civil servants pay tax too

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Vietnamese tried hard to get into USA for the past 30 years without much success. Most normal vietnamese are still stuck in Vietnam. With Singapore now opening its door to foreigners, Vietnamese find it easier to reside in singapore thru different means. USA and Singapore are similar in many ways more than one. Singapore is also First World country which is same as USA. Couple with the fact that Singapore Dollar is strong and the difference between SGD and USD is getting smaller. Talk to the cab driver or any other normal vietnamese on the street of Vietnam now, they will tell you Singapore is No. 1. And almost every other normal vietnamese is thinking of shifting to Singapore. I got 3 proposals from 2 different vietnamese entrepreneurs this year to date. all of them have son or daughters studying in Singapore and they want me to start a company with my name and let their son/daughter work in this company. They are not willing to pay for office rental as they want to use my office and they are also not willing to pay for others. Only willing to pay a small sum each month to me for helping. I think they have under-estimated the intelligence of singaporean.

S'pore looks good only from the outside. Inside, ordinary folks are struggling.
S'pore is only good for rich foreigners or penniless & jobless 3rd-World foreigners.

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by qwerty78

Hi guys,

i am a regular reader of the forum here and this is my first time posting as i really require some advice for the experience bros here. I would really appreciate any sound advice

Here is my problem................

I intend to marry a vietnamese woman here as well but the problem is,

1) she is involve in the case where the CID obtain the fake social visit pass extension for them for a sum of money. As a result, her passport kena hold back by CPIB to help CPIB assist in their investigaion (been here for almost 2 years liao) Once the case is over, she can go back (which is soon) Most likely she will be banned for 1-3 years (i asked the IO but he gave me vague answers)

2) During her almost 2 years stay here, kana caught twice by AV but release due to her status for assisting CPIB, So i do not know her status in immgration.

My question is, if i ROM with her while she is still in singapore, what are the chances for her to come back within the banned period or how can i speed things up (cause my family still in the dark. thought she is normal viet girl here for study)

Do i need to speak to a lawyer or immgration or CPIB (vague answers neither here nor there again?)

for me, personal status is stable job. CPF and income tax regularly for the past 5 years

i thank you bros here for any advice in advance

How come always end up with Viet WLs as g/fs or wives? 85 million people in Vietnam. You're spoil for choice. For such an important thing as looking for a life partner - at least invest time, effort and spend some $$$$ to look for one
in Vietnam; i.e. if you're serious about it.

[hochiminhgal]

just wonder, Why you guys like to marry vietnamese gal nowsaday???

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

but most of them I saw, I guess they are WL cos they only appear around 7-8 pm, and the way they dress, I am pretty sure they were heading to JC or GL for work...........

Maybe some use student visas as a covert method to work as hostesses in Singapore. Same as the PRCs. Haha.

Originally Posted by technofreak

I suggest to play along with them, devise a scheme, lead them to a trap and a bottomless pit...In monetary terms of course. Well, I'm not evil by nature. Just reciprocating...

Sly businessman eh? No money pay back can ask them to give their daughters to you as sex slaves.

[Tony Stark]

Originally Posted by papillon30

How come always end up with Viet WLs as g/fs or wives? 85 million people in Vietnam. You're spoil for choice. For such an important thing as looking for a life partner - at least invest time, effort and spend some $$$$ to look for one
in Vietnam; i.e. if you're serious about it.

Fully agreed. WLs for the most part are good as mistresses or kept woman only. Once they try to pull a fast one just dump them and look for another one. For marriage it does not just involve yourself but your whole family as well.

Planning a reece trip to HCM soon.

[Honey Boon]

I assume you just registered recently (may be today or yesterday) and your first post is this question?

I also wonder why?

btw, I am yet to marry a vnam girl today ........

Originally Posted by hochiminhgal

just wonder, Why you guys like to marry vietnamese gal nowsaday???

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by hochiminhgal

just wonder, Why you guys like to marry vietnamese gal nowsaday???

maybe u can ask yr singaporean husband.

[Kualalumpur]

Originally Posted by qwerty78

Hi guys,

i am a regular reader of the forum here and this is my first time posting as i really require some advice for the experience bros here. I would really appreciate any sound advice

Here is my problem................

I intend to marry a vietnamese woman here as well but the problem is,
1) she is involve in the case where the CID obtain the fake social visit pass extension for them for a sum of money. As a result, her passport kena hold back by CPIB to help CPIB assist in their investigaion (been here for almost 2 years liao) Once the case is over, she can go back (which is soon) Most likely she will be banned for 1-3 years (i asked the IO but he gave me vague answers)

I happens to have met another girl ( do not tell me she was from Hanoi by chance ) who had the same problem with herself and her mother in Singapore, and I have quite a lot of experience about that kind of woman from Vietnam, unfortunately first hand, and through the grapevine.

They are like the shrimps, the body is OK, but the head is ROTTEN !!! I am sorry to say that, I tried to help one girl like that ( no sex involved) some time ago, before I learned that there are plenty. The fake visa networks are very powerful, and they do not deal only in that...

They are rotten and corrupt once they touch the "Dark Side", prostitution network, hidden boyfriends/"sponsors" and the like. You cannot, reasonably, marry such a girl.

That network who did that in Singapore ( about a year/year and a half ago many were arrested) and allow such people to go out of Viet Nam and enter SIngapore is powerful, and does touch EVERYTHING. I will not enter into details, but I know. All the people who use that kind of mafia services know what they are doing as well, and the price to pay for that, not only money, most of the time not only working as WLs. All the people who are willing to use those networks are spoiled to the bones.

WLs are good to have fun with, but they are rotten, rotten, rotten, ROTTEN !!! If you bring that inside your family, maybe one of your nephew will be captured against a ransom one day, in 10 years or later. Or worse, you marry, and like that wealthy Australian in Saigon, you have a strange sickness that kills you over a few months. Be careful, very careful...

And do not forget, good Vietnameses are very good, but bad Vietnameses can be really freakingly bad ! ( but good actors to push people to believe them !!!).

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by qwerty78

I intend to marry a vietnamese woman here as well but the problem is,

1) she is involve in the case where the CID obtain the fake social visit pass extension for them for a sum of money. As a result, her passport kena hold back by CPIB to help CPIB assist in their investigaion (been here for almost 2 years liao) Once the case is over, she can go back (which is soon) Most likely she will be banned for 1-3 years (i asked the IO but he gave me vague answers)

2) During her almost 2 years stay here, kana caught twice by AV but release due to her status for assisting CPIB, So i do not know her status in immgration.

Seems that she complicate the immigration issues by faking extension.
1-3 years is your guess. Any outcome on the number of years being banned?

Originally Posted by qwerty78

i willing to wait 3years for her provided she can come back. any other avenue to seek help?

if i just hack care and marry her first, later will it be slightly more easier or will have more problem?

3 years is a long wait and you will need alot of effort to maintain the relation. You have to ask yourself whether are you serious about this relationship?

You will not know what she is doing in VN. You have to be able to visit her few times a year, communicate with her, brainwash her. You will have to be able to tolerate what she is doing in VN and her request for money... etc. At the end, you will need to gamble to see if she can come back sg.

Marrying her 1st is a bad choice. I dunno much about marrying in vn, but i think that there is no such thing as 'paper work' for prove. even have, also bo-pa-ke. Even worst if just go through a traditional marriage in VN with just her family aknowledgement. It means you are the official ATM for the family members.

Originally Posted by qwerty78

she told me someone in her situation actually got married first and managed to come back. i dunno true or not

I don't know if its true either. My gf also tells me that her friend was caught when working in JC. but got married and stayed in SG. I meet this lady once a month to remit $ to vn for my bx.

My gf was also banned for 3 years. I went through alot of emotional battle during the early stage. I am only 1/2 way there. 1 year 3 mths to go.

[qwerty78]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Seems that she complicate the immigration issues by faking extension.
1-3 years is your guess. Any outcome on the number of years being banned?

No idea on outcome as case not close yet. will only know once cpib submit to AG chamber and after they make the necessary recommendations

Originally Posted by KangTuo

3 years is a long wait and you will need alot of effort to maintain the relation. You have to ask yourself whether are you serious about this relationship?

You will not know what she is doing in VN. You have to be able to visit her few times a year, communicate with her, brainwash her. You will have to be able to tolerate what she is doing in VN and her request for money... etc. At the end, you will need to gamble to see if she can come back sg.

i fully understand your point. i already brainwash her i not much money liao. so money request will be kept to a minimum.

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Marrying her 1st is a bad choice. I dunno much about marrying in vn, but i think that there is no such thing as 'paper work' for prove. even have, also bo-pa-ke. Even worst if just go through a traditional marriage in VN with just her family aknowledgement. It means you are the official ATM for the family members.

i told her i need to reconsider. now she tell me she want to die...

also tell her i not ATM to her family liao. we can only help abit.
because i think whatever you give them, they will spend all and ask for more. so no point giving more
they have no concept about financial planning at all. trying to drill that into her head now

Originally Posted by KangTuo

I don't know if its true either. My gf also tells me that her friend was caught when working in JC. but got married and stayed in SG. I meet this lady once a month to remit $ to vn for my bx.

My gf was also banned for 3 years. I went through alot of emotional battle during the early stage. I am only 1/2 way there. 1 year 3 mths to go.

i hear alot of stories about this. maybe some bros can verify. but i guess base on case by case basis
some are lucky some are not

Bro i wish you luck too. i am at your early stage now. very emotional straining not knowing what will happen in the future for both of us

but i too kind hearted liao... i guess someone else might already kick her down the drain liao. dunno is i stupid or she lucky.

but what i believe is, if given a opportunity to lead a normal life, "work and family" they will be wonderful wives. ( i think mine is) haha

[Torres_Mok]

Originally Posted by hochiminhgal

just wonder, Why you guys like to marry vietnamese gal nowsaday???

Becos kena reject by SG gals.

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Torres_Mok

Becos kena reject by SG gals.

Bro, i don't fully agree with your statement le. I am sure many bros have experiences with local gals and find them unsuitable as life partners

[papillon30]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Bro, i don't fully agree with your statement le. I am sure many bros have experiences with local gals and find them unsuitable as life partners

What's so special about S'pore gals? If you have travelled widely, you'll
understand my question.

[Honey Boon]

when I dump my 2nd viet gal, she told me the same thing. So I told her, if she die, I also die. Later, after few months, we became friend again, just friend becos I have found another gem. then i asked her, i tot you want to die when we broke off, she just laughed.

Originally Posted by qwerty78

i told her i need to reconsider. now she tell me she want to die...