Unable to maintanin erection for penetration

[Punpipi69]

Erm, me too having some issues. Not taking any pills, just sometimes need some stimulation to feel shiok again and continue the course.

Think alot of bros here actually provided good suggestion- stop dfk and exercise!
but no dfk need to find lobang liao. i hear my wallet crying

[Xgenre]

Did you try the Qigong master who is advertising in the forum? Given that she is an official advertiser, I can recommend you try. No sexual services. I don't think she's 33 as she says but given that there are no sexual services, her looks and age doesn't matter.

Go with an open mind. She will say until your health is really poor. Really 90 minutes of yak yak yak. Makes you wonder if you are about to drop dead anytime. All in the hope you will be her regular customer. But if her treatment really works for you over time, then it will be good time and money invested. Her massage is good. Real kung-fu. I just cannot stand her style of talking

[skyver86]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Did you try the Qigong master who is advertising in the forum? Given that she is an official advertiser, I can recommend you try. No sexual services. I don't think she's 33 as she says but given that there are no sexual services, her looks and age doesn't matter.

Go with an open mind. She will say until your health is really poor. Really 90 minutes of yak yak yak. Makes you wonder if you are about to drop dead anytime. All in the hope you will be her regular customer. But if her treatment really works for you over time, then it will be good time and money invested. Her massage is good. Real kung-fu. I just cannot stand her style of talking

possible to share with me the link for the Qigong master please ? would like to try every means to have good sex life moving on.

[skyver86]

Originally Posted by iampig

I found the post in the reddit quite useful : https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comment...made_sex_with/

To quote from it :

So here's what I did to fix this problem:
1.
I stopped masturbating with my hand. It just isn't the right sensation, and in my opinion it's just a totally lazy way to get off. When I used to masturbate, I would just sit in my computer chair and jerk my hand up and down at a pace that I could NEVER match with actual bodily thrusts during sex. Sex is far more physically engaging. You have to hold yourself up. You have to thrust your hips. I wanted to simulate actual sex without having to worry about anxiety issues that may come with a girl in the room, so what I did was buy a Fleshlight. I made sure to NEVER hold the Fleshlight in my hand and move it over my penis like I used to do with my hand while masturbating. Instead, I stuck it between my boxspring and mattress so that it remained stationary, and fucked it like I would have to fuck a girl. I started using the Fleshlight without a condom, but as my erection strength improved I began to use condoms every time.

2.
I stopped watching porn entirely. Simply put, if you're used to threesomes and double anal with porn stars, plain old missionary sex with a "normal" girl probably isn't going to be all that stimulating. The only visual stimulation that I allowed myself during my sessions with the Fleshlight were PICTURES OF GIRLS THAT I HAD ALREADY HOOKED UP WITH or GIRLS THAT I HAD A LEGITIMATE CHANCE OF HOOKING UP WITH. I wanted to make an effort to stop going to a mental fantasy land every time I got off, because I wouldn't be able to go there during real sex. Realistic mental and visual stimulation only.

3.
I started doing Kegel exercises. They work and I swear by them. The problem that a lot of people have with Kegels is finding a routine and sticking with it. What I did was buy a mobile app called Prostate Aerobics ($2.99). I set two alarms per day and did them 6 days per week (Sunday off). I started at level 1 and let it automatically bump me up to level 9 over the course of ~6 weeks. After I had done level 9 twice a day for a week or so, I started setting 3 alarms per day (still with one off day per week). It starts out easy but actually gets pretty difficult. One session of level 9 is over 10 minutes long. My erections got stronger and I was able to maintain them much easier. Morning wood was stronger than ever. Random boners during the day came back. I seriously cannot recommend Kegels enough.

Thanks for sharing bro. i will try out the kegel exercise as suggested. any idea how long it would be to see any effect of this exercise ?

[skyver86]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

What's your height and weight? Better go see a doctor to do a proper check up. Is your wife pretty? Sometimes we marry nice ladies whom we are not sexually attractive to. Don't masterbate so often because your wife will never be as tight as your five fingers.

Come, let me help you distress with a suitable song. Just have a laugh and slowly solve the problem.

hahaha. thanks for the video bro. my wife and i are both bui buis. while beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, she is still pretty and sexy to me when she dress up. might want to buy some sexy dresses for her to enhance her sexual attraction.

[iampig]

Originally Posted by skyver86

Thanks for sharing bro. i will try out the kegel exercise as suggested. any idea how long it would be to see any effect of this exercise ?

Other than the kegel exericse, there are many different factors at play like the "dont use hand to masturabate" or the "don't masturabate to fetish", so it is hard to pinpoint which factors affect the most.

[skyver86]

Originally Posted by iampig

Other than the kegel exericse, there are many different factors at play like the "dont use hand to masturabate" or the "don't masturabate to fetish", so it is hard to pinpoint which factors affect the most.

will do my best on this. thanks for the advice bro!

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by skyver86

possible to share with me the link for the Qigong master please ? would like to try every means to have good sex life moving on.

https://sammy.services/showthread...063&highlight=

Good luck and speedy recovery. Both you and your wife are bui bui? Good to measure your blood pressure, cholesterol and blood sugar level.

Some of us will want to know... when you pee, you can see your kuku jiao or not?

[skyver86]

Originally Posted by Punpipi69

Erm, me too having some issues. Not taking any pills, just sometimes need some stimulation to feel shiok again and continue the course.

Think alot of bros here actually provided good suggestion- stop dfk and exercise!
but no dfk need to find lobang liao. i hear my wallet crying

sorry bro, what is dfk ?

[skyver86]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

https://sammy.services/showthread...063&highlight=

Good luck and speedy recovery. Both you and your wife are bui bui? Good to measure your blood pressure, cholesterol and blood sugar level.

Some of us will want to know... when you pee, you can see your kuku jiao or not?

of coz can see my kkj when i pee bro. lol!

yes we did measure. my blood pressure is slightly high, around 136 / 80. wife's is normal from what was told during her last check up.

[brucelim1976]

Dude when you masterbating please stand up and not laying on the bed .. because when you fuck your wife you stand up or half knee and that’s use a lot of leg energy and initially bring all energy down and affect your cock stand.

[Punpipi69]

Originally Posted by skyver86

sorry bro, what is dfk ?

Typo, should be dfk (da fei kei) or dfj (da fei ji), means masturbate lo

[peeboy75]

Originally Posted by Punpipi69

Typo, should be dfk (da fei kei) or dfj (da fei ji), means masturbate lo

Don't anyhow use acronym la... Everyone knows dfk is deep French kissing.. How the fuck did it turn to masturbation...

[skyver86]

Originally Posted by brucelim1976

Dude when you masterbating please stand up and not laying on the bed .. because when you fuck your wife you stand up or half knee and that’s use a lot of leg energy and initially bring all energy down and affect your cock stand.

sounds legit. thanks for the suggestion bro!

[skyver86]

Originally Posted by peeboy75

Don't anyhow use acronym la... Everyone knows dfk is deep French kissing.. How the fuck did it turn to masturbation...

chill chill. guess we just have to interchange the words based on the context then. cheers!