Lonely SAD and ForeverAlone

[ilikeoldchangke]

Originally Posted by Alex20

Hi Bros and Sis
I would like to seek your Advice on this matter please bear with my long winded story if you dont mind Thanks =)
It all started when I was 15 Im all alone always Seeing my friends have girlfriends I also wanted to try to find 1 gf. But no matter how hard I tried its impossible to find All I got was those super fat ones and those tomboys. I could never get a girl to even love me. I am now 27 yrs old and My job pays me only 1.6k a month. Everywhere I go people said im Ugly but im only average looking and abit fat.May I ask you all When you go find a GF you go for looks first right? People telling me not to go for looks but it is really terrible I always kena tomboy and super fat ones.Even I cant get myself an Average girl to love me.
In my whole life I have not held a girls hand or even know what love feels like. Many of my friends who got GF have left me and Now I only have 3 close friend. Life is currently a misery for me. I was wondering anyone here have the same problem?

And Lastly I seen many threads asking will they kena Aids or Hiv when go Geylang to have sex. Same for me I tried so hard to get a girl but all rejects me.My hope to find love is somewhat dying and now have the urge to go geylang to release my stress. I really hope someone here can give me hope.
I normally go to KTV and find those girls there they give me the GF treatment but not true love. I hope someone can organise an outing that I can join so that I wont be so Alone.

Thank you for reading my Story and Sorry for writing too long
Waiting for Advices soon

Don't push the blame around, be it bad family background or bad childhood. You yourself hold the key to change.

If you say you are average looking and fat, do something about it. Go an work out, invest in a pair of shoes, go and run, shed some weight.

Get a haircut, change your image.

1.6k salary, i really think you should give up on seeking the gf feeling at ktv, why bother with giving out the tips for only a few hours of GFE when you know they will flutter away to other rooms after spending barefly a few minutes with you ?

Won't those money be better spent on personal grooming and upgrading ?
Forget the drinking, ditch the fags as well.


Not being good in your studies is not an excuse, keep trying. upgrade yourself.


Your friends who got attached did not leave you, they have a commitment to their gfs as well. You cannot expect them to be by your side all the time


Get yourself a new hobby, prefebly something outdoors. I suggest volunteering your time as well so you don;t keep thinking about a gf. Pet shelters often need volunteers to walk their dogs, old folks home always have a need for a strong pair of arms.

You just need motivation.

What will be will be.

[dOiOb]

Whining about your problems will not help you in any way. Identify and think of solution one by one. One problem at a time, you will see improvements in your life and hopefully a girlfriend. If all else fail, work your butts off and buy a Viet bride back. Simple as that.

[see see only]

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

You this type sure kenna KC big time

Ture ture ... .... sorry been blunt TS ... you sound like those who will waste every single cent even you suddenly have a big amount of money maybe by luckily strike 4D or ToTo


TS,

After reading a few more of ur posts .... (thks to Bro IK for his works) ... i sincerely reckon you stop whatever upgrading you are into first ...

Get your mental right first and review your set of principal again ...... you dont sound like a guy who understands yourself enough ....

Stop blaming and start reviewing yourself first ....

[Attenzione]

First of all, get a grip of yourself, and wake up!

You need to know what is REAL..

You must be a dreamer..
All this wanting a (beautiful) GF and visiting all those KTVs.. You must have lost in this dreamland of yours.

Get real.. You are living in this real world.

KTVs GFe doens't come cheap.. and seriousely, with S$1.6k.. (i hope this is a take home figure..).. you CAN'T afford it!

Focus on your job now.. make a carreer out of it..
Since you are a sales.. and if you are on commission base.. then, there' should be no limits to your income!

Also, don't push the blame around. You may be from a not so perfect family or background.. but, there's no stopping you from making a good one ahead.

Bro, we all choose and walk our own path..

[DYBJ]

Originally Posted by see see only

They say .... (which i really agree almost 100%) ...

There is no ugly woman in the world ... only LAZY woman

Fat woman? then go on diet lor
Born super ugly? then work hard to get enough $$$$$ for plastic surgery lah
Look normal? then go learn how to make up lah
Too stupid? then go upgrade the brain lor
ETC ETC ....


So TS,

Same goes with the man .......

Anyway it is a good start to complain here .... at least you knew about the problem does exist ... nevertheless stop blaming everything in the world that created you .... start to look for a good solution and create a better "yourself" ...

Very well said bro SSO, this reminds me of something that just happened last weekend.
I patronise this 5star hotel very often for makn & their rooms, n there's this foreign tat nvr really caught my eye.
Well, the last time i was there for dinner, i was served by this super chio waitress.
She addressed me by name, which is not uncommon cos almost everyone there knows who I am, but wat surprised me the most was, I dunno n hv nvr met this chio babe before.
Start small talk & asked her how long she's been working there, she said over a year.
Told her I never saw her before
Her reply was i see you all the time
Wah lan, how cud I miss such a babe????????
The nite passed n the very next day, I called their GM.
Who's tat chio boo?
Who her BF?
Got BF bo?
If not gv her my number ask her to call me.
I tot for sure, dun deal till the GM replied me
She's XXXX.
I was like ....WAT?
She used to be plump n pimple faced, now slim n super desirable
He replied, the power of modern medicine
Wow, I was so shocked to see a transformation living example in my face!
Wif tat said, I dropped the whole idea of this target.
Guess last thing to go under the knife wud be the boobs liao

[DYBJ]

Originally Posted by Apocalypse

here is a normal looking cai that cheated many people's feelings with makeup



and tomboys are CUTE!!!!

when you hunt, you have think of how to hunt when u have no fancy hunting tools. but its ok, you can remain pathetic so there are more for the rest of us to hunt.

Tat's Y always insist they meet u without makeup else kenna con bigtime!
N, tomboys r the best, tested n proven, once u break them, they become even gentler n better than most women!

Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

The environment does not make a man, the man has to make his environment.

Wise works from an Alpha Male

[DYBJ]

Dear TS, look around u on the street, ah beng hv ah lian in arms, matt hv mina in arm, slim guy got fat gal in arms.(No racial tension intended)
Dun be too eager to point ur finger outwards n blame this that factor tat lead u to where u r today.
U r the captain of ur ship, no one but u urself can steer it to the direction u wan it to go!
If u want someone to love u, u must 1st learn to love urself.
Ur posts clearly indicates u hv a severe complex issue.
Learn to luv urself, be confident.
Sales is a line tat required a gift of the gap.
Also the best line to pick up chicks....awe........how i miss those yrs when i just came out to work.........
Ok back to topic
Women like confident men, a sense of security, of cos earning power does play a part but not always.
Learn to luv urself more, maybe go for grooming classes, learn to talk, walk act more confidently & i bet ya, they'll start dropping on ur lap soon

[HCKing]

dont dream lah TS, having gf will also give u tons of nightmares. life isnt fairy tale lah ok. who knows u will start missing the gd old lonely days.

better spend time n energy to increase yr 1.6k bread lah, inflation keep going up girls expectations also up but salary never go up how to win girls heart leh?

[Apocalypse]

Originally Posted by HCKing

dont dream lah TS, having gf will also give u tons of nightmares. life isnt fairy tale lah ok. who knows u will start missing the gd old lonely days.

better spend time n energy to increase yr 1.6k bread lah, inflation keep going up girls expectations also up but salary never go up how to win girls heart leh?

Best is hook tio those PRC worked 15 yrs in KTV going to retire liao, feel lonely, then see him honest and innocent and ugly, then bring him back with her to China. He get a $1.4k sales job there, 27 yrs old work until 50 can retire in China comfortably. Dun need to come out and wash plates.

Sadly, that usually almost never happen.

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by Apocalypse

Best is hook tio those PRC worked 15 yrs in KTV going to retire liao, feel lonely, then see him honest and innocent and ugly, then bring him back with her to China. He get a $1.4k sales job there, 27 yrs old work until 50 can retire in China comfortably. Dun need to come out and wash plates.

Sadly, that usually almost never happen.

lonely, honest, innocent and ugly = SALESMAN???

wat sales job u doing ah TS?

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by DYBJ

Wise works from an Alpha Male

hmmm.....yr frank lampard writing style looks familiar....

[-SBF-]

Originally Posted by Alex20

I am now 27 yrs old and My job pays me only 1.6k a month.

If you born poor is not ya mistake, if you die poor it ya mistake.

[DYBJ]

Originally Posted by HCKing

hmmm.....yr frank lampard writing style looks familiar....

Of coz my good old kawan, its me, the most hated guy in the forum

[Stimsia]

27 still young la
i 30 den go chiong hc
dun tok about holding hand, hold abalone also can

1600 * 80% = 1280

can go bonk gl 25 times (cat 50)

if you are overweight, go for weight loss
if you are average looking, go studio grooming can do wonders

[Alex20]

Hi Bros I sincerly thank you guys for the comments
If I just forget bout getting a gf since I cant and Just go to Ktv to chill with girls
Got any bros here can meet up and go together? I just feel very lonely right here.
By the way Sometimes outside I see those girls just so chio I feel like having sex at geylang
But alwaays afraid of aids and Hiv I know my standards in life sucks. So maybe I just forget the whole gf thing and just have fun is that more better? Cause With my pay Im screwed