when i'm expecting

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

I just couldn't discard the negative thoughts that are creeping into my mind.

Simply put
Dun Trouble Trouble Till Trouble Troubles U
So u hv 2 choices infront of u on the table
Look for trouble = Suspect Suspect Suspect = A lot of self induced poisoning in the mind n subconsciously poisoning ur relationship
Dun look for trouble = Hi dear, hubby comes home, how was ur day, back to the daily peaceful routine
In life, whether preggers or not, from the time we open our eyes in the morning till we sleep at nite, we're faced wif hundreds if not thousands of decisions
Which one we make, will inadvertently decide the conclusion of tat decision we made.
U hv been warned

[hamsapkwai]

Read my signature. Once he`s into the game he wont look back.

Soon you will be at the crossroads. You will have to decide what to do with the marriage.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

I just couldn't discard the negative thoughts that are creeping into my mind.

No lady wants to be in your situation, that's for sure. Unfortunately, marriage life might not be as what you might have expected. Negative thoughts aren't the worst case scenario. If you divorce him, your baby will grow up without a father. Denying the kid a father's love is a heavy decision. You will also be a young divorcee with a child. Going to be harder for new romance to blossom.

If you are worried about sexually transmitted diseases, do gently ask him if he is visiting fls. Being a guy, most likely he will deny. Then just say gently, if you visit fls, wear a condom and don't bring any diseases home. He might continue to deny but he would have gotten the message. Play outside but be safe.

How many months pregnant are you? Rather than focussing on the negatives in life, why not focus on the positive, like baby names, clothes, accessories, reading up on post-natal issues?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

If you are worried about sexually transmitted diseases, do gently ask him if he is visiting fls. Being a guy, most likely he will deny. Then just say gently, if you visit fls, wear a condom and don't bring any diseases home. He might continue to deny but he would have gotten the message. Play outside but be safe.

Very very good post especially the part that i bold in red bro.
If a man has such a wife, he wud respect & treasure her more for being so "BIG" in the heart n reverse psychology will surely apply.
These kinda women, men wud do everything never to loose.
Like I always say, got cancer, heal the prob but not kill the patient.
Solid post bro.
Have I up u b4?
If not will do so once my pts recover!

[nicole79e]

You should stay happy for a happy baby.

[Xgenre]

TS, I was thinking about this thread as I was driving. Hope you won't think we said what we said because we are guys trying to defend another guy. Imagine this scenario. A guy comes here to start a thread because his pregnant wife gets so horny during pregnancy that she begins to have sex with many men and accidentally let her husband discover that. Sort of a reverse of your scenario.

I think the advice given to this poor guy would be largely similar to what people are telling you. Look at the big picture or do you want your kid to grow up in a broken family or can you try to close 1 eye if she is still a loving mum and wife? Do you want your marriage to be another statistic? etc etc

The guy will be worse off than you as he is likely to lose custody of his child (due to the women's charter) even though it's the wife who cheats. This scenario isn't as uncommon as you might think. Those guys who are here long enough would have seen girls coming here to organise a gangbang for all sorts of reasons. Weirdest I've seen is a lady came here to organise a gangbang for herself because she is getting married.

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Have I up u b4? If not will do so once my pts recover!

I won't know and it doesn't matter. If you want to, why not up the points of the TS instead? Maybe it might cheer the poor girl a little bit yah?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

I won't know and it doesn't matter. If you want to, why not up the points of the TS instead? Maybe it might cheer the poor girl a little bit yah?

I will when time & justification permits.
Too many similar stories coming up all over the forum lately, coincidence?
I can see tat TS has already got 30 in just 2 posts n i'm sure u were generous twds her?
I'll wait a while before I decide to give "HER" my points.
Anyways, I'll know once I try to up u tmr if I had done so before.
Cheers bro

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by nicole79e

You should stay happy for a happy baby.

U Nicole78's younger sister?

[Greatking]

Do keep a man, don't have to engage in sex, right?

Like what other post suggest, can icecream or what till he cum once a while... going back to dating time... get back the feeling.... all guys love to be shower with care ad love too, not only girls.

Don't give up too easily. I have a friend, 53years who had been cheating frequently and openly and his wife knew. Once, his wife's friend loan him to D&D, and bedded. My friend went back home the next day and confessed. Her friend still asked him for D&D again and his wife still allowed. And bed again. Then his wife called her friend up and tell her to stop treating her husband as a man-whore!

She don't attack my friend, but she attacked her good friend!

[Kenny87]

babe, u know pregnant, ur hormones all over the place la.. tts why u got negative thoughts.. obsesses about other stuff and dont think about this la..

actually, men wan to cheat, will cheat one.

maybe try tie him to the bed and rock him? hahaha!!

[kittymeow]

Hmm.. I guess my hormones did play a part in amplifying all these negative thoughts.

I guess no matter how much i think, or don't. If things really happen, then i can only say i have tried. Well, the negative thoughts are still there but i'm trying.

Thanks for all the views, glad and really need to hear from all to have a clearer mind. Don't mind more(constructive ones)coming in.

And, thanks for the points, totally have no idea what 'power' it beholds though.

[Greatking]

Originally Posted by kittymeow

Hmm.. I guess my hormones did play a part in amplifying all these negative thoughts.

I guess no matter how much i think, or don't. If things really happen, then i can only say i have tried. Well, the negative thoughts are still there but i'm trying.

Thanks for all the views, glad and really need to hear from all to have a clearer mind. Don't mind more(constructive ones)coming in.

And, thanks for the points, totally have no idea what 'power' it beholds though.

Try arousing yourself before attempting to conquer your man?

[hamsapkwai]

Originally Posted by Greatking

Try arousing yourself before attempting to conquer your man?

And if she is fully aroused and her man is not interested? What`s she going to do next? Duh.....

[sane1]

Dudes, if a guy wan to visit FL. Will he go alone or Jio his frds or colls along? At a company function, 1 of my colleague, A blunt out that another colleague's hb Jio her hb to FL making her embarrassed and super pissed.

N A told me she had a big quarrel with her hb over and Duno whether to trust her hb because of this mere sentence. How could he Jio other to FL? She duno whether to trust . Her hb is those who like to joke a lot n probably joking about it but its sounds so stupid to joke about this. She really don't know whether to believe him.

He chided her for making a mountain out of a mole hole.

So she's asking, do guys really joke about all these stuff? IMO, if I want to "eat outside", I will be v v v discreet n definitely won't let any people know about it. I won't be so stupid to leave down evidence or go broadcast about it especially to those close to ur own wife. It's as good as digging your own grave.

What's ur call?

[BiRd13]

First of all, congraz on expecting

Next, ask yourself if you love your hubby? And I do agree that 'A leopard won't change its spots' If you love your hubby, just open and close one eyes ba. And hopefully he had 'protection' on...

Frankly speaking for me, my wife is expecting, but she's not that horny as in the past... During the first 6 months, we do make love regularly... Like at least 3-5 times per week... Eventually as time passes, we seldom make love right now... I should say that since after the 6 months, our sex life is about once per week, and now, is total 0... Hence I do go for those with 'special' outside, but seldom goes for FL... Probably just HJ/BJ or even FJ to release myself...