just gave my first ever fuck to June today, having major Aids phobia now.....

Haha, dunno what the hell spider rocker means, but thanks for all the replies guys. As for me and my GF, she's really not interested in this kind of stuff, either she's not physically attracted to me, or she has some psychological problems, or its because of her religion (catholic), and i really don't want to force her, although it really affects me cause we all have our needs. I don't even kiss her much, no frenching, no petting below the waist (and even then, we only get intimate like once every few months). And when we do, she just lies there, dosn't want to touch me even though i ask her to etc etc, it really is no fun at all....

To be honest, i have sorta given up trying to do anything about having anything sexual with my gal, i guess i'm just horny. Basically, i just wanted to try it once, and since there really is no way except to visit a WL, i just tried the Cat30 just for the sake of it, the experience of it. Wasn't looking for a particular good time as i think i should leave that to my gal, if we ever get round to it. For the guy who flamed me for being a loser, if i force myself on the gal, or if i dump her just because she's "impotent" in her own way, then i'm really a loser. but i admit it really gets on my nerves, and i'm sure the rest of you will understand.

As for the AIDs thingy, its forever on my mind, so i'm going for the DSC test in another three months odd. Wish me luck.

Actually, don't worry too much lar. I was like that also after my 1st time visiting a pro at GL. Back then was young still, called a Cat150, experience was disappointing ... then had this massive panic attack afterwards, constantly worrying about catching STDs, HIV etc. etc.

Ai ya ... later part of your life, once you Cheong enough. You will think back your 1st time and you will laugh about it, very silly.

Want to play, don't be scare ... if scare, don't play.

[Desmond]

Hi Frenz,
Sad to hear the story from u, cos my ex-gf also a catholic. I guess all men have needs, but really the pt is panic attacks after cheonging can really affect ur work or studies. So really if u've wore protection, ur really quite safe. Dont worry excessively...like i said, if u wanna cheong , dont be scared, or if not, get another gf.
Anyway, cannot believe someone actually deducted my points for posting a reply to u. haha. I thought this only happen when bros here engage in quarrels in the other threads and flamed each other...Too helpful maybe?^^ hehe..But anyway..do go for the DSC tests, the thorough one soon.....but really avoid one doc there, cant rem the name though.....Super bochup attitude, cant be bothered with answering ur queries when u told him ure worried abt STDs after wearing a condom. Good docs shld not only be able to heals STDs, but also think abt the psychological fears of his patients too.This particular doc, very jiat lat~......If not, other than that, the other docs are very nice & helpful though....Cheers. ^

[viewsonic]

[QUOTE=s3xm4niac]Haha, dunno what the hell spider rocker means, but thanks for all the replies guys. As for me and my GF, she's really not interested in this kind of stuff, either she's not physically attracted to me, or she has some psychological problems, or its because of her religion (catholic), ........

I always believe that religious girls are "Wild Animal".
Since young, they were taught that sex is not good blah blah......
But once they hv a taste of it. They will demand more from u....
That's always the case.

hey man,

I sent a pm to u..hope it helps..dun worry too much..

[bananass]

Agreed!

Basically 2 of my ex fuck buddies are shy catholics gals outside, but when in the bedroom, woah! They will do anything you ask them to.

Maybe what the girl needs is a first time.


[QUOTE=viewsonic]

Originally Posted by s3xm4niac

Haha, dunno what the hell spider rocker means, but thanks for all the replies guys. As for me and my GF, she's really not interested in this kind of stuff, either she's not physically attracted to me, or she has some psychological problems, or its because of her religion (catholic), ........

I always believe that religious girls are "Wild Animal".
Since young, they were taught that sex is not good blah blah......
But once they hv a taste of it. They will demand more from u....
That's always the case.

[justme]

whats wrong leh, some people boyfriend girlfriend for years also no sex, only hold hand, little kiss kiss...so whats the big deal ?

Originally Posted by SgtPepper

damn , I know i be throwing stones to a drowning guy but can't help after reading yr frs . you are such a loser . You got a GF for 4yrs and you haven't screw her yet(*@#)



Are you a spider rocker?

[batugajah]

think the bros here is advisable to post the charges for testing AIDS or HIV at Kelantan Lane just in case anyone here can go for a test. play safe, check safe.