How long did you try with your wife before she got pregnant?

[cwkfxjp]

Originally Posted by raiders

I'm trying very hard as well. Keke. Alot of people mentioned about visiting the Chinese physicians at Tong Ji Hospital. Has anyone ever tried before?

Bro, give this Traditional Chinese Medicine a try. Both of the TCM hospitals have a fertility department. The success rate is 25%, much higher than the IVF. And yet the cost is so damn cheaper compared to IVF treatment.

My 2 children is a result of TCM treatment, the doctor don't know go where already... His chinese medicine made me buay tahan, more effective than VIAGRA. Sad I cannot find him now, maybe he retired.

Tong Ji Hospital
I think it is near Outram area.

Chung Hwa Free Clinic
Toa Payoh Lor 4 (near The Storehub area). You can walk from Toa Payoh Hub or take a bus there.

Both husband and wife need to go there together. If you have body checkup reports even better.

It is very crowded on weekends. Do call them to make reservation.

But do be patient, don't expect 1 hit wonder.

[wowlau]

Originally Posted by Msdy777

Dear all bros!
I been trying with my wife about 6 mths already...Still can't get her pregnant....
Just want to know how long u guys been through?
kinda of low morale lol.......
Thanks

there is a chinese physician very good in this area at blk 202 jurong east #01-117 tel:68975655. and a gynae at gleneagle also very good (Dr Chen 64743900)

[application9999]

position does matter too....Try to shoot when you are in doggy style because your brother will be in the deepest area and the chances of scoring will increase....all my 2 kids produced in doggy style :P

[daryl76]

try once and jackpot
sianz.. 2nd one oso same, try one time and next month save on sanitary pads liao

[tymc]

Am not married, but one of my married peers (without any kids thou) shared with a group of us. She mentioned that one of her colleagues gave birth in the initial stages of the marriage rather easily when she was still staying with her in-laws.

After they gotten their own house, they tried for another and was unsuccessful for nearly half a year. She and her husband did a review and compared what was the difference and they realised that the key difference was that they had a bathroom in their own room when they had their own flat as compared to staying with his parents.

When they were staying with his parents, she did not wash up after sex due to inconvenience. After getting their own flat, she apparently washed up (private parts) immediately after doing the deed.

After the review, they proceed with what they had done when they were staying with his parents and bingo, she was pregnant within a month. So I suppose that there are some SOPs to follow to have a kid :P

[Msdy777]

Wow! Thanks all for the advice!
I guess I need to be patience...but age is catching up lol...and chiong too much... Sperm not enough to use

I have already visited Gynaecologist and a Chinese doc...both just give advice... Tell me to try at least 6 mths before they can do anything...

[Mee Pok]

I am 38 and she is 22 yo.

We tried it once and we hit jackpot!

But she is not my wife yet, of course we are going to tie the knot soon.

[atoma]

when 1st very soon, 2nd take 1 and half years, getting old lao

Try hard, it is good thing right? and refrain from cheonging outside now

[howck001]

right shoot in right moment lah... you will hit jackpot..
somtime unlucky....but chance is more get preggy... if u shoot in right time.

[pokeman71]

Both my kids are within a month.

One week about 3 times. 4weeks bingo.

[cheapthriller]

both my boys are like one shot one kill...haha...dunno who is the more fertile person.. which is the reason why i abstain from fooling around coz i dun like caps.

[Msdy777]

Originally Posted by superman67

Some tips on Getting Pregnant to share:

* Track your body's cycle closely so you can accurately predict when yr OC will ovulate, 1 week before code red & 3-4days after code green will not get pregnant..so do make sure u shoot at the right time..make sure she's ovulate .. Do predict as closely as possible when you will ovulate so that intercourse may be performed as close to this time as possible. Don't forget that lovemaking too often can reduce the virility of sperm and reduce the sperm count.
* Artificial lubricants and oils can hinder the sperm, and can lessen your chances of conceiving.
* The missionary position for sex is typically the most successful position for impregnation.
Hope this will help to all bros..

The doc I have seen, told me to try every 2 to 3 days during the ovulation period..

Does oral sex reduces the chances? I heard that it will greatly reduced the chances...

[overmars]

my fren has been trying for a really long time. Since 2004. Until now still no luck. Western medicine, TCM, IVF all also never work. He so demoralized.

Think abt his case, i tell myself i better start soon already...

[biozaogeng]

For me, all my friends with children all relac relac one.

Nobody say like ok now i'm going to try. They either just leave it up to chance/fate or accident (thats why married). Anyway, what i'm trying to say is relax. Don't stress, all my friends just married no use condom most tio within 1 month, alot tio within 1 week. must be fuck without condom for first time, everyday 3 times.

I have female colleagues (banking industry) who cannot conceive after trying for 2-3 years. They quit and went to less stressful jobs, a few months tio liao.

So advice: relax and enjoy the sex. dont think about conception, just lovemaking. If your wife, or even u is in a very stressful line, u might consider taking a break if you're really serious about having a child.

[geckoSG]

TS... relax, take things easy. It will come... Just remember to shoot inside...
Dun pull out so fast. That's my magic.. Missionary would be good cos of the
angle, this will help the sperm to flow towards the "narrow" pipe.

If you guys are stressed over having babies and not relax, the chances of
conceiving is very very low. Relax and enjoy the session!