Questions.....

[huanggua]

If the person is an immediate member then I dont think the question should even be asked in the first place. Its my personal opinion.

[baimi]

Originally Posted by deptrai4u

Well, if that family member is your wife whom you have been trying to get rid of without paying alimony... then celebrate and organise a mass orgy instead!

Even so have to respect the dead,
they were once, in love.

[baimi]

Originally Posted by huanggua

If the person is an immediate member then I dont think the question should even be asked in the first place. Its my personal opinion.

The Chinese believes in mourning for 7x7=49days
and 100 days abstaining of any entertainment
and going overseas.

[Peregrine]

It's depend on how close you are to the member I guess. If really close, think you also no mood. Rite?

[CaTman]

Bro I think this depends on yourself one.

True account happen to me when I was helping my gf when her grandpa pass away was late so stay over. Got horny and finger her till wet and bang her thru the night. that was like 2 years ago. Have to pray and thank her grandpa if not her parents usually dun allow me to stay over one.

Really la depends on you. By right is not good by left you feel ok can already. Life will still have to carry on.

My 2 cents.

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by ryanlim

errrrrr............. i heard from "unreliable" sources that we got to abstain from sex with gf/wife/fling/fb/pros and even PCCing for a period of 24 months...........

WAhahahaha!! good one!!

Bro T.S,
honestly,it's really up to you. If you feel like doing it, then do it, if it's not bothering you emotionally.. then i guess it's ok.

Cheers

[ganbei]

I dont believe it would be the expectation of the deceased that you should mourn and abstain from enjoyment for a long time. The decision to mourn and abstain is yours and yours alone to decide. No one can choose for you.