how to get wife excited with sex again

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by bllocllo

Looking for advice..
A brief background about my wife and I.. we are in our mid-30s and we've been married for a few years and already have kids. We enjoys sex and is quite open in bed, but we have not done anything too wild. Sometimes when we make love, we'd roleplay and imagine scenarios where she's fucked by ex, friends, colleagues or daily encounters, and those fantasies spiced up our sessions. The thought of other men having a go at her made both of us extra high when we fucked although at the end she would thinks it is weird.. we also bought a few sex toys to spice up..

so in the recent few weeks we went by without having sex due to catching covid, kids getting sick, busy getting ready for the kids and time flies by.. we did try to initiate a few times but it was feeling really weird and we just went on to sleep after that.. any advice how to get us started again or options that we can try or get wild?

Try getting her a new partner. It could work wonders just like it does for men.

[Whazzzup]

If you are not excited on sex with your wife, than work on yourself first instead of her.
If you are excited enough, you will not find it hard to get her excited.
If you want to tease her, try walking around naked after a shower. Not sure how you do that with kids at home. Try to find an excuse to get naked in your bedroom. And stay naked.

Have fun.

[deltaairforce]

secert recepit

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by bllocllo

both of us are.. not just her.. does that matter ?

Sitting down whole day is very bad for libido. Worse if she also don’t do any exercise. Blood stagnant how to get horny?

[smallpigu]

Originally Posted by Angelynmarie

Ginseng tea + tabs chocolate (chocolates that makes you super horny)

Take those and try to resist each other when the effect comes in, this could lead to intense sex

How did you get tabs chocolate in singapore?

[hownow]

have some prawns or oysters with wine. should help. discuss fantasy? watch porn as prelude? ask her about her wildest dreams with regards to sex?

[victor125]

Originally Posted by smallpigu

How did you get tabs chocolate in singapore?

Wondering same thing too. Seems like international shipping not to Asia.

[bllocllo]

Yesterday night, we had one round. She was dry initially even as i massage her b cup breast and bouncy butt, swirl my tongue around her sensitive nipples and kissing all over her body. Then she initiated a role-play where she imagined having sex in our bedroom with one of her male friend AA. I played around with her and started to sneakily touched her where she playfully pushed my hands away and finally giving in when i used my tongue on her pussy.

She called out my name and asked me to fucked her. I position my cock and she was already soaking wet. I intentionally slowed down the fuck and asked if she wants AA to fuck her. She shyly nods her head and I asked her to call it out.. Ahhhh Ahhh Emmmm Emmm AA harder harder.. you so super..

[Angelynmarie]

Originally Posted by victor125

Wondering same thing too. Seems like international shipping not to Asia.

I went south africa for a business trip, and bought about 6 of it
Fairly cheaper too

[kt88_2]

Just walk over slap her n stuff Yr cock into her mouth, cup Yr hand n grab her hand ,n ram viciously n cim, then after she will tulan make u hard again n use her pussy to ram Yr cock to take revenge, so all solved.

[VoicesWithin]

Originally Posted by bllocllo

Looking for advice..
A brief background about my wife and I.. we are in our mid-30s and we've been married for a few years and already have kids. We enjoys sex and is quite open in bed, but we have not done anything too wild. Sometimes when we make love, we'd roleplay and imagine scenarios where she's fucked by ex, friends, colleagues or daily encounters, and those fantasies spiced up our sessions. The thought of other men having a go at her made both of us extra high when we fucked although at the end she would thinks it is weird.. we also bought a few sex toys to spice up..

so in the recent few weeks we went by without having sex due to catching covid, kids getting sick, busy getting ready for the kids and time flies by.. we did try to initiate a few times but it was feeling really weird and we just went on to sleep after that.. any advice how to get us started again or options that we can try or get wild?

It is a common problem. I have seen 10s of married couples struggle with this. After the kids arrive, both parents are too busy tending to the kids till they forget to connect. Usually the wife lose interest. So you are not alone.

I feel that "waiting" for sex to happen is like waiting for a shooting star. It will never happen. So the answer is not to wait; it cannot be left to mood. Or for either to initiate, randomly. It has to be "engineered". With a purpose and an action plan.

For me, I devised a solution. Every week, I set aside a day to date my wife. Get out of the house. Dump the kids at home. Get a parent to help look after them for a few hours.

Then we are off to do the things we want to do, as a couple. Watch a movie etc. My wife does not mind drinks, so we hang out at pubs. Just the two of us. Chatting.

At first it can be uncomfortable. And boring. So I spice things up by getting her to dress up sexy. No bra. Can see her pokies. Week after week, her clothes got thinner. Then it evolved to a state where I bought and chose her clothes. That's when it got wicked.

After a nite out, we would go home and have sex. It makes sense because by that time, I had become very aroused by sights of her pokies, and by the number of stares she got from random men.

This way, I get sex once a week. There is no "begging" on my part. It is not left to mood or chance. Good enough for me. I have been doing this for >10 years by now. She knows the routine. Friday nite. Go out. Come home. Have sex.

Sometimes, I vary it a bit. Sex outdoors instead of at home. Often, her clothes got real thin to really spice it up. To a point it is shocking. That's the fun bit

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by bllocllo

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Yesterday night, we had one round. She was dry initially even as i massage her b cup breast and bouncy butt, swirl my tongue around her sensitive nipples and kissing all over her body. Then she initiated a role-play where she imagined having sex in our bedroom with one of her male friend AA. I played around with her and started to sneakily touched her where she playfully pushed my hands away and finally giving in when i used my tongue on her pussy.

She called out my name and asked me to fucked her. I position my cock and she was already soaking wet. I intentionally slowed down the fuck and asked if she wants AA to fuck her. She shyly nods her head and

I asked her to call it out.. Ahhhh Ahhh Emmmm Emmm AA harder harder.. you so super..

Bro, next time ask her to try call ...ah rat....ah rat ...ah rat and see whether it works!

[Aposionge]

pull her to the toliet n fuck her hard

[smallpigu]

Originally Posted by Angelynmarie

I went south africa for a business trip, and bought about 6 of it
Fairly cheaper too

Did it work for you? Saw a lot of reviews that it's a placebo

[Kayson66]

I'm working in the industry that is looking into relaxation herb called ashwagandha. there is a study that talks about how ashwagandha can also promote boost for female sexual support. There is a gummy branded Goli. Maybe can look into it