Convincing a ML to move in with you

[AnnieYJL]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

I live alone and have an extra room. What are the chances of you bros who manage to convince the ML to stay with you by offering not to charge for staying and give her a fixed token sum for her company and sex? What's the minimum sum you got her to accept? I don’t mind a relationship either but I know of someone who gave 2k per month to his ML. I think that's too much .

I have a ML who now offers herself to me. I want to negotiate with her to stay with me. She doesn't need to pay rent, I just want to offer a reasonable token sum to her since I don’t have to head to the spa (can skip the entrance fee ).

You can ask any decent girl to move in with you, based on what I've read. Why masseuse? Because she offered herself to you?

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by cestycesty

or you can rent your room out to a proper student or worker then use that money and fund your visit. you wont have to stick to a certain ML and get stuck with her living with you and not wanting to move out later.

you get the money and the freedom of choice on who and what to spend that money on.

I did that for my FWB previously until she RTC.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by oxeso

Msia ol sure fuck ah? Yup.. those tenants fucked by landlord porn r nice.

Ts needs a partner more la.. who the fuck wants to keep calling the same chicken pls raise ur hand.. i clap for u.

Of course having a partner is better. But now is don't have. Even you go to GL, you still go back to your regular to get your deprives fixed when you get shit experience from another WL.

Building chemistry and maintaining another ML when you already have a good one is a waste of resources and the new one may not offer as much as your current one, end up wasting even more resources to try another one.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by AnnieYJL

You can ask any decent girl to move in with you, based on what I've read. Why masseuse? Because she offered herself to you?

I haven't met the decent girl which I want to bring back. Local girls are NOT my type. I've been hunting overseas, until I found my target, this ML will need to fix my needs. Also, it is possible to get the ML to offer herself to me without bringing her back.

Why bring back the ML? To further reduce cost by omitting the spa fee and minimise the risk of being caught in raids during the time I don't have a partner lol. I've saved a lot ever since I had weekly overnight sessions with my other ML compared to heading to Geylang every week for a potentially lousy session. I don't give her a lot, I get an entire night (about 10 hrs) for less than a 90 min session at Geylang Cat200 without the need to head out lol.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by AaronLeeKwok

Agreed with Bro Angmolover!

Asking MLs to live with you under rental free conditions is bad idea! MLs are money faced and untrustworthy in disguise! Who knows you will be financially ruined by her one day?

The main objective is to reduce cost and yet getting more. I will not give her more. I will not take her if the conditions are not to my advantage. If she's not willing to accept it, I'll just keep it at the spa or let her go eventually and move on.

Of course, the risk of having her around is there, it's a gamble. I believe there are many bros around doing it already.

[superstiffy]

u tell her free all her defence will be up... unless she already ur gf then dun say...

i think u step by step better la... tell her u got room want to rent out but dunno whats market rate.. ask her how much she paying... after she tell u say 哇酱好赚 then ask her discount 20% rent to u want a not? make it like a joke la... u tiko also dun show u tiko mah...

After she move in liao then u slowly 发挥

u immediate give pple indecent proposal... wait u like pervert sex how? knn dun scare her away la.. ah boh next time u go massage there also cannot...

singapore lang really sibei impatient... simi sai also want fast fast.. go carousell jitao ask mei mei sell u her panties... end up tio ban then come here ask for advice.. nia mah...

[AUDIFANSG]

Originally Posted by superstiffy

u tell her free all her defence will be up... unless she already ur gf then dun say...

i think u step by step better la... tell her u got room want to rent out but dunno whats market rate.. ask her how much she paying... after she tell u say 哇酱好赚 then ask her discount 20% rent to u want a not? make it like a joke la... u tiko also dun show u tiko mah...

After she move in liao then u slowly 发挥

u immediate give pple indecent proposal... wait u like pervert sex how? knn dun scare her away la.. ah boh next time u go massage there also cannot...

singapore lang really sibei impatient... simi sai also want fast fast.. go carousell jitao ask mei mei sell u her panties... end up tio ban then come here ask for advice.. nia mah...

He is a pervert sexual deviant lol….and from the start alrdy offer free and even offer to pay her transport service. This guy prob never been at the negotiation table before. U don show ur hands from the start, u open them slowly while getting the best possible deal for urself. And some bros mention getting in easy getting out nightmare. U better get a legal professional to do the contract for u also lol. She can wreck havoc on ur place if things go sour. Imagine she spray paint ur place, flood the bathroom, bring her clients back?

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by superstiffy

u tell her free all her defence will be up... unless she already ur gf then dun say...

After she move in liao then u slowly 发挥

u immediate give pple indecent proposal... wait u like pervert sex how? knn dun scare her away la.. ah boh next time u go massage there also cannot...

singapore lang really sibei impatient... simi sai also want fast fast.. go carousell jitao ask mei mei sell u her panties... end up tio ban then come here ask for advice.. nia mah...

Nothing more to be pervert about lol. We are already doing it raw at the spa after (or before) the massage. It took time, so it is not fast either to build up the chemistry after quite a number of visits ... Besides, she still accepts the same 1B tips which I gave her from the beginning when I got only HJ + roam. It's probably less then many guys giving for full service or just a BJ / full roam with their ML.

I'm just looking at what's the best option to further reduce cost and have a longer time in a private space.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by AUDIFANSG

He is a pervert sexual deviant lol….and from the start alrdy offer free and even offer to pay her transport service. This guy prob never been at the negotiation table before. U don show ur hands from the start, u open them slowly while getting the best possible deal for urself. And some bros mention getting in easy getting out nightmare. U better get a legal professional to do the contract for u also lol. She can wreck havoc on ur place if things go sour. Imagine she spray paint ur place, flood the bathroom, bring her clients back?

Lol, I don't have to pay for her transport fee. My previous post should already show the current stage we are in. I will consider about the part able wrecking havoc when it goes sour. At this time I only have a ML who comes occasionally for overnight only and leave in the morning.

[donut88]

You already giving her rent free. And you still want to pay her??

U v big carrot head ah?! No wonder FTs always think SG men are easiest to be conned.

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

I live alone and have an extra room. What are the chances of you bros who manage to convince the ML to stay with you by offering not to charge for staying and give her a fixed token sum for her company and sex? What's the minimum sum you got her to accept? I don’t mind a relationship either but I know of someone who gave 2k per month to his ML. I think that's too much .

I have a ML who now offers herself to me. I want to negotiate with her to stay with me. She doesn't need to pay rent, I just want to offer a reasonable token sum to her since I don’t have to head to the spa (can skip the entrance fee ).

[Angmolover]

Originally Posted by AUDIFANSG

He is a pervert sexual deviant lol….and from the start alrdy offer free and even offer to pay her transport service. This guy prob never been at the negotiation table before. U don show ur hands from the start, u open them slowly while getting the best possible deal for urself. And some bros mention getting in easy getting out nightmare. U better get a legal professional to do the contract for u also lol. She can wreck havoc on ur place if things go sour. Imagine she spray paint ur place, flood the bathroom, bring her clients back?

Let the idiot TS do his thing lah. SO many people already tell him not to do it. But he lan lan want to do it. Let him do it and get burned.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by donut88

You already giving her rent free. And you still want to pay her??

U v big carrot head ah?! No wonder FTs always think SG men are easiest to be conned.

It's not I want to pay her, of course if is free I'm more than happy. Previously I didn't pay my FWB, but this one is ML, so I don't know. I already said, I want to lower the costs, working towards to pay her nothing is of course the best.

How others think, who con who, seriously, I don't care.

[Wally]

Haiz Bro, don't better.

Even the ML also feel better not to move in.

[Westing]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

I have a ML who now offers herself to me. I want to negotiate with her to stay with me.

Offer herself to you ? No need pay ?
Why want her stay with you full time, maybe 2-3 days per week ok.
Can see if have problem that way.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Wally

Haiz Bro, don't better.

Even the ML also feel better not to move in.

I prefer overnight sessions and private place than at the spa.