Did I kena the KC Trap?

[Unbelieveable]

U are married man. What good thing will come out of it.Save your. hard earned money.

[trichard]

Originally Posted by Unbelieveable

U are married man. What good thing will come out of it.Save your. hard earned money.

Agree... And for sure end of the day...伤心的一定是你和我。。。

[leonleonli]

Originally Posted by trichard

Agree... And for sure end of the day...伤心的一定是你和我。。。

Everyone is waiting for miracles happened. the fact is no miracle. Be realistic! F and F. We have seen enough!

[trichard]

But 话说回来..... Also have ML that truly sad life and earning a honest living .. and have to hj to keep return customer..

Aiya ... Both side play a part lah.. if you only go massage and leave you won't get into this trap.

[INXS]

NB.... just shared in another post about this...

Are there any success stories between customer and ML.... then become lovers and got married and happily ever after that kind of shit?

All the sad man.... KCed and dumped .....but PRC Woman more hard hearted ...

[palvin]

Originally Posted by trichard

But 话说回来..... Also have ML that truly sad life and earning a honest living .. and have to hj to keep return customer..

Aiya ... Both side play a part lah.. if you only go massage and leave you won't get into this trap.

I agree with you bro!

Some ML shared with me their reasons for doing this trade. For some, i take it with a pint of salt. But for some, i believe them. Because i experienced what they experienced. I understand how they feel.

People might say that i'm dumb to believe them. Well, i guess theres no harm. Not as if they paint a sad picture to borrow money from me or want to chop carrot. No, they continue to work as usual. They wont date me. Only myself as a willing party date them.

[trichard]

Originally Posted by palvin

I agree with you bro!

Some ML shared with me their reasons for doing this trade. For some, i take it with a pint of salt. But for some, i believe them. Because i experienced what they experienced. I understand how they feel.

People might say that i'm dumb to believe them. Well, i guess theres no harm. Not as if they paint a sad picture to borrow money from me or want to chop carrot. No, they continue to work as usual. They wont date me. Only myself as a willing party date them.

Exactly... we are same shoes in some way ...

[Thelostone188]

I finally ended my KC relationship with my ML, after 5 long months, albeit on a sour note.

We went through a lot together, msg each other everyday, broke up but get back together each time. but 我身不由己, I can't give her what she wants(not $$$) and she's too possessive despite the nature of her job. She's truly one of the rare few MLs that are not $$$$ oriented (I know cos of the things she did for me)

Now she have broken all contacts, all memories erased. Am totally devastated and living in guilt. but I must say I'm actually feeling a big burden of my back now. Free to do what I want and though I still visit MLs or FLs and chat them up, I no longer expect any special treatment from them. Even if they don't reply, I don't feel much now. Finding other meaningful things in life to do.

Truly learnt my lesson. Turning back while I still have the chance. Just sharing my true experience. Rem the MLs are here for $$$$ not to console you, her advice to me ironically.

[ianrush]

Originally Posted by Thelostone188

I finally ended my KC relationship with my ML, after 5 long months, albeit on a sour note.

We went through a lot together, msg each other everyday, broke up but get back together each time. but 我身不由己, I can't give her what she wants(not $$$) and she's too possessive despite the nature of her job. She's truly one of the rare few MLs that are not $$$$ oriented (I know cos of the things she did for me)

Now she have broken all contacts, all memories erased. Am totally devastated and living in guilt. but I must say I'm actually feeling a big burden of my back now. Free to do what I want and though I still visit MLs or FLs and chat them up, I no longer expect any special treatment from them. Even if they don't reply, I don't feel much now. Finding other meaningful things in life to do.

Truly learnt my lesson. Turning back while I still have the chance. Just sharing my true experience. Rem the MLs are here for $$$$ not to console you, her advice to me ironically.

Good to hear that bro. 理智一点是好的。It is often to my thoughts that sex draws a couple closer together that’s why maybe guys get KCed by MLs. But I wonder why they can have sex with different men each day, and put their emotions aside and not feel attached or can prevent themselves from falling in love.

[PaladinofSola]

Originally Posted by Thelostone188

I finally ended my KC relationship with my ML, after 5 long months, albeit on a sour note.

We went through a lot together, msg each other everyday, broke up but get back together each time. but 我身不由己, I can't give her what she wants(not $$$) and she's too possessive despite the nature of her job. She's truly one of the rare few MLs that are not $$$$ oriented (I know cos of the things she did for me)

Now she have broken all contacts, all memories erased. Am totally devastated and living in guilt. but I must say I'm actually feeling a big burden of my back now. Free to do what I want and though I still visit MLs or FLs and chat them up, I no longer expect any special treatment from them. Even if they don't reply, I don't feel much now. Finding other meaningful things in life to do.

Truly learnt my lesson. Turning back while I still have the chance. Just sharing my true experience. Rem the MLs are here for $$$$ not to console you, her advice to me ironically.

True, she is doing this only for money.
When she picked a bf, is to fill the emptiness and loneliness.
Everyday opportunities await for someone liking her as you do.
Once your relationship is over, she can easily clings to another guy and the cycle continues if things don't work out.
The longer she is in this line, the more experiences she acquire.
There always be someone to help healing her broken heart while you are out of the picture.

Your situation might be still addicted to her pussy and cannot handle the withdrawal symptoms.

[trichard]

If I recall previously I think thelostone also share his story with me... I don't think any brother here will have the same situation as me..

It was since june that I discovered that I like a ML. She told me we not possible thru wechat.

After I confess my feeling to her in june.. I never visit her anymore ..only wechat .. and keep contact as a daily habit of asking her day. Sometime she also text me.

We do not have sex. Not even handjob no kiss no hug .. I just stop visiting ..

Months pass by.. we build a different type of bonding.. when she is sad..she will miss me ..

And I like this relationship... Just a heart to heart chat friendship.

Hope this will last .....

[PaladinofSola]

Originally Posted by ianrush

Good to hear that bro. 理智一点是好的。It is often to my thoughts that sex draws a couple closer together that’s why maybe guys get KCed by MLs. But I wonder why they can have sex with different men each day, and put their emotions aside and not feel attached or can prevent themselves from falling in love.

They will fall in love if you are their cup of tea.
The different men often don't appeals to them or miss the right place, right time where Cupid lends a hand.

[Thelostone188]

I do agree it's all about the chemistry between you and the MLs.
We need to trust our gut feel if they are sincere to make friends with you ie if they make an effort to talk to chat with you (which most of them doesn't, either they don't bother to reply or short 1-2 words reply)

It just hard to be that only special one in the few thousands contacts.
What makes you think they will rem you? They are tons of people out there who are nicer to them than you are.

I'm contented that I was once the only one in my ML heart (I believe so). Nice memories, and with the experience gained, I won't make the same mistake again. Can be friends but definitely not lovers.

[MarlboroKen]

Originally Posted by trichard

Actually some common sense can help a lot..

Imagine... Wife know... Then all your parents will know.. kids will know...

Colleagues will know..

划算吗...

The price we pay is high ... She do not lose much...

We will become forever 负心汉....

Well say. Think about the family. F and forget without string attached.

[palvin]

Originally Posted by Thelostone188

I do agree it's all about the chemistry between you and the MLs.
We need to trust our gut feel if they are sincere to make friends with you ie if they make an effort to talk to chat with you (which most of them doesn't, either they don't bother to reply or short 1-2 words reply)

It just hard to be that only special one in the few thousands contacts.
What makes you think they will rem you? They are tons of people out there who are nicer to them than you are.

I'm contented that I was once the only one in my ML heart (I believe so). Nice memories, and with the experience gained, I won't make the same mistake again. Can be friends but definitely not lovers.

Thanks bro for sharing your story! I felt the same too. Its either my ML dont want to reply my message. Or she reply one or two words only. Its not meaningful at all. Making me loss interest in her. Only when i want to meet her up, she then call me 宝贝 （used to call me 亲爱的）. Else she dont show interest in chatting with me.