Bro, some things are too sensitive to be shared. You can ask your ML, i'm sure she will share with you.
I am getting sick of knowing ML life.... I think I should start to join all the norm brother here.... find and enjoy massage.... and hack care the story liao........
I am getting sick of knowing ML life.... I think I should start to join all the norm brother here.... find and enjoy massage.... and hack care the story liao........
After telling bros about not expecting much, i really dont expect much already. But however, things overturned a little today.
I booked her for 90mins. All was well. From the corridor before entering the room, i told her i want to do something. She thought i want to go toilet. But no, i actually carried her in my arms and walked her into the room. I placed her on the bed and she requested a kiss from me. I kissed her lips. I requested her to kiss my cheeks but she dont want.
Then she brought 2 small durian mooncakes and we eat inside the room. Apparently we both 偷吃. haha... it was very sweet and nice of her. She cut the cake, fed me with it and i did the same to her. So lovey dovey.
It may sound like a good start. But today is my very first time that i want to leave the MP straight away even though my session has not ended.
So she gave me a nice oiled B2B massage, both for my back and front. Used to enjoyed the pussy rub but not today. Maybe not anymore. Because when we were chatting, she suddenly brought up the topic. Topic of my confession of my feelings to her. She knows that she has not been messaging me for the whole week and she feels that i expected her to do so. Well, i did not expect any more already.
Its used to be that i expected her to message me any time like she used to do. Then slowly, its once every few days, became once a week... became... never message me anymore. Only reply me in short, when i message her. I dont expect anything from her anymore. But she still bring up this topic.
She bluntly told me that she will not get close to married man. She will not automatically message married man, including me. She is doing all these because she dont want to spoil my marriage. She has been a 小三 before and she understand how a woman feels. In my heart, i'm thinking, dont you even regard me and message me as a friend? As a regular customer? Do you think i only go to you to fuck you?
Yes, they are whores. But i dont want to see them as one. Because as humans, i repect them. Services got to be paid but i dont go around fucking any new girls. I just want to spend good time with someone whom i'm close to, even though i need to pay her. Sometimes, i just want to spend a bit of time with her, cuddle her and spend a good weekend afternoon. Sex is not always on my mind.
Upon hearing that topic, i already sian half. I told her that maybe next time i wont date you again. She hesitate for a while but said that its not about not dating her next time. Her reply was kinda confusing. I understand that she still wants me to see her, cos she still wants to earn my money. But her topic sounds very rejecting. Sounds like she rejected me. But i told her that i've already confessed to her that i just want to spend good time with her and nothing much. I do like her but i dont need her to reciprocate.
She was massaging my bro and she noticed that it did not gets hard. I told her that i no mood already. So she tried to change topic, saying that such topic hurts feelings. However, the new topic still goes back to this. She told me alot on how a man must treat their wife. I told her that i'm saddened by her words. I'm not happy. I'm here to enjoy, not to get lectured by you. Of course i wont leave my wife for you. She also dont know what to say. She asked me why i like her. I told her all the blah blah.
When the session ended, she asked me what am i going to do next. I told her i'm buying dinner for my wife. She jokingly say why i never buy for her. And i told her sadly that she dont even bother to message me. She did not say much, gave me 2 nice kisses on my cheeks, and lead me out. She even try to dare me on giving me kisses with red lipsticks. But no, she did not. In the end, she gave me sweets by transferring it from her mouth to mine. I naughtily receive the sweets with my mouth but sticking my tongue to hers. I left then.
When i reached my car, turned it on, just so nice that the radio played 陈小春-我爱的人. Truly describe my feelings then. I recorded the video of my car with the song and i wechat her. She replied not on the song but on my car. Haha... She just avoiding...
The whole session left me a sad man. Why need to bring up such topic? Not that i'm really going after you. Im not expecting anymore already. But why does she not even send me a simple message? Does it mean that only when i want to have sex and i message her then she will reply? I've other ML whom i did not visit her that frequent, but she pays good attention to me. She never keep calling me to go visit her. When she got nice video, she will share it with me. And if she sees me post negative moments on wechat, she will respond to it. Thats all the attention i need, from a ML, from a friend. Nothing more already. But why my favourite ML is so different?
Lastly, apologise to TS for hijacking your thread. Just wanna share some real happenings to bros here. And also want to share to my virtual friends. In real life, i got no one to share to.
One word..... if you can do it.....
Get out of all these.... back to norm life.....
For the sake of wife........ As my friend told me..... don't be a 负心汉 ......
Just join all the expert here..... 3F..... Find Fuck Forget ....
Leave the SPA door ...all forget..
One word..... if you can do it.....
Get out of all these.... back to norm life.....
For the sake of wife........ As my friend told me..... don't be a 负心汉 ......
Just join all the expert here..... 3F..... Find Fuck Forget ....
Leave the SPA door ...all forget..
There are no fixed alternatives. But its more on how you reason with your heart. As i've said, dont expect too much. So ask yourself what are the chances of hooking her? And after you hooked her, what are the chances of it lasting? And are you going to marry her? Most probably not since they are here to make money, not to find BF.
So i've reasoned with my heart and knows that it wont come to a good ending. I did confessed to my ML that i've fallen for her but i dont need her to reciprocate. I just want to continue visiting her and making her my favourite ML. She accepted that we should continue the same. If i dont sort out with her, she will even reject my future booking. Of course you may think that she also dont want to reject a customer, thus agreed to let me continue visiting her. Well, to me, services still need to be paid. But at least everytime i visit her, i got special treatments.
So my win-win situation is that after sorted out with myself, i dont dont have the feeling of keep wanting her but at the same time, i can continue to visit her without any emotional burdens. I can also see other girls and not get tied to her only. Of course, this applies to me.
For other bros who get to go out with your favourite ML, continue to do so and enjoy the time together. Eventually she will need to RTC and it will not come to a good ending also. Why not just enjoy what you have now, and dont expect too much?
Unless you are single and is capable to marry a foreign bride, i will support you to go and chase after her! If your CPF does not even have enough to buy a HDB flat, then good luck to you. If you are already married, then i got no comment.
Actually bro, you know the answer why she’s treating u like this... understand it can be hard to accept especially if it happens to u...
Life goes on bro... don’t waste ur feelings anymore...
I know it is difficult.. just like this hour she still working...u imaging her doing the same thing to the man on bed now.. the man is fingering her now..
It feels bad... right?
If u agree... Then u get trap liao...
Bite the bullet.. get away the feeling..
You will be grateful that you did
..
Bro. i share the pain that u are feeling right now. Time will heal eveything. I was like u, felt in love with a massage lady.Did a lot of stuff for her.Eventually, when u are no longer needed anymore, she just gave an excuse and end this relationship. These ladies only love money and you will be surprise what they can do. Now i lead a normal life., spent my time with my kids and i realised how important family is.
Actually bro, you know the answer why she’s treating u like this... understand it can be hard to accept especially if it happens to u...
Life goes on bro... don’t waste ur feelings anymore...
Don’t make life difficult for urself
Thanks bro! Yes, its hard to accept initially. But her quick-paced attitude forces me to accept it faster. Merely weeks ago, it was good. A few weeks later, it turned bad. Too fast already....
I know it is difficult.. just like this hour she still working...u imaging her doing the same thing to the man on bed now.. the man is fingering her now..
It feels bad... right?
If u agree... Then u get trap liao...
Bite the bullet.. get away the feeling..
You will be grateful that you did
..
There was once when i looked for her during one weekday lunch. I did not book her but want to give her a surprise. But came to know that she already booked for that hour. She asked if i can wait for her, she very fast one. Ok, so i waited in a room which is only a few rooms away from her other customer. She ask me not to mind if she moan too loud. I did not think much, i dont want to think much... its her job anyway... i accepted it.
So she returned after 30mins. She settled the customer with a HJ and the customer did not stay for the full 1 hr.
Bro. i share the pain that u are feeling right now. Time will heal eveything. I was like u, felt in love with a massage lady.Did a lot of stuff for her.Eventually, when u are no longer needed anymore, she just gave an excuse and end this relationship. These ladies only love money and you will be surprise what they can do. Now i lead a normal life., spent my time with my kids and i realised how important family is.
Bro, thanks for sharing! How to convince yourself from leaving her? Did she do any drastic thing to make you leave her?
There was once when i looked for her during one weekday lunch. I did not book her but want to give her a surprise. But came to know that she already booked for that hour. She asked if i can wait for her, she very fast one. Ok, so i waited in a room which is only a few rooms away from her other customer. She ask me not to mind if she moan too loud. I did not think much, i dont want to think much... its her job anyway... i accepted it.
So she returned after 30mins. She settled the customer with a HJ and the customer did not stay for the full 1 hr.
Yes bro. Her massage skills is below standard and shes not willing to learn new skills. This is also one of the reason i go back to her. Cos she allows me to do more than what other ML allows.
01-10-2017, 01:04 AM
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