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Re: Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner
guys,
i think i am walking into some serious shit. i have been seeing this viet girl for 1 month. she was introduced to me by a friend of mine, this friend of mine dont know much about me, so money is not in the picture. she dosent know much english, im sending money for her to learn it. basically to cut the chase, i went to vietnam to see her for about 5 days. along the way i fucked up big time, i had a bunch of other girls messages on my phone which she caught me having, took photo and send to my friends for translation. but those messages she caught was backdated before i met her. she was very pissed with me and kinda broke up with me but somehow i gotten her back. so back i am in sg, things took a great leap forward. *my friend and her are cousins* i am basically being tracked by my friend of my movement, and they have been talking. my friend just dropped this on me, they have been talking in the afternoon, and my friend asked her this. do you really love him and want to marry him, and yes came the answer. i started thinking if she is just after my money, she wouldnt get pissed at me even if i had so many girlfriends, and she is genuinely pissed. and what my friend knows about me is i make about $4k sgd monthly, i consider myself quite a poor bloke if you ask me. im somewhat blinded by this situation, i need someone to show me from outside the box as this is getting frustrating as im just going around in circles my primary questions are, does she really like me? based on the unbias situation update as above i know what we think is in-reverent, but i just want to know more input before i shoot myself in the foot. and i know wanting to get married after 1 month is bloody crazy, but this is just a preliminary Q&A between the cousins. its not gonna happen for the next 2 yrs at least i think |
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I should not write this reply. Nevertheless, I feel that you need some help in your plight. Before jumping to any conclusion, ask yourself all these question.
(1) How well you know your friend? Can she be trusted? (2) Are you sure this is not puppy love from her? (3) Do you have the same feeling as her? (4) What she work as? (5) Have you sleep with her yet? |
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just a word of caution.
They might aim for your money. |
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Recieved with thanks
Will be more careful |
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my chick dun even bother to buy condom, just shoot raw.
my experience is, vb are mostly slut whore. at first she dun talk much abt money or gifts. everyday is about how she love and miss me and miss having sex with me. months down the road, all the repaying bank loan, need to buy motorbike, want new hp crap started to surface. my suggestion is, just fug and go. maintaining cost of a viet chick can be higher than our homegrown chick. my 2 cents worth. |
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I met many vietbus in singapore marry to sing husband, the vietbus still screwing around for money.
Really pity their husband still dont know thinking they have a good wife. Any update from your story? Really love it
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Lately getting a bit sick of the money issues. Not sure if her intention is to dig as much money from me as possible. haha.. |
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19M for school loan, 6M for her demised father's funneral discharge, and blackberry passport silver
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Its just 1 month, yet she's getting worked up over your girls. Why ? Because she's scared of competition. She wants to make you hers exclusively. What's she going after ? Just like all other vbs, she's looking for a life buoy to support her and her family.she's after your money and the PR. Once she got that, you're history.its quite the same old story. Read thru the past pages and you will find similar trails. Why would you want to commit so hush hush into a mere one month relationship? Just f her and let her go. Find new targets. Good girls won't sleep with you so easily.get it ? |
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