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u2 man, lets not be ATM machine!!!, i hope i dont break with her lah, but if she so despo for money, bo pian let her go to find a better guy, but for sure she will regret coz she could have led a simpler and happier life with me(not haolian lah LOL..)
PS: who here learning tieng viet? any economical way to learn tieng viet? i know can hug vb but sometimes the vb give u sala info on tieng viet and waste money? any better way? LOL
You can't get a vb if you don't be a ATM. Lky said there is no free lunch. The vb wants moto, gold ring at least, i phone 6, vong tay, house, monthly allowance .... if don't have the above , then go for other nationality better, may be local girl.
Aiyoh, don't say people cai tow experience la. Yours coming soon . Although you have cheong for 8 years, cheonging and getting married to a VB is totally different. There are more and more Sinkie man divorcing their VB spouse. Most of the Sinkie man got to know their VB spouse through cheonging too. You are still green to Viet culture, don't be too overly confident. I have seen many Sinkie man who married VB, no stable career and just in a year of 2, their marriage ends in divorce. So if you want all of us to accept your story, there is no need to come in here. You ask question, we share our views. If cannot accept, then stop your story. Come in again after you marry her, i will be very sure your experience will be very different than now.
Sorry Shifu, not going against ppl's view here, just trying to brush aside the negative vibes that i am receiving as i dont want to give up on this r/s for the time being...
Wow my post consider rant to u, haha, think u cant really take this kind of negative comment of vb, think u have a long way to go to know them more, btw I have never been a cai tao of viet wl before, I give what I willing to.Anyway good luck to u on this special vb that u think she is to u
bro golden, my apologies for being sarcastic towards you, of cos there is no free lunch in this world, but i am not letting up on this r/s and i dont want to give her more money than my stipulated budget. Nothing to lose imo but if she keep asking for vitamin M and give me a change of attitude towards me when i dont, thats the time where i can tell her to go away from my life. I done it once to her previously, she never back down, so lets see wad happens this time.....
You can't get a vb if you don't be a ATM. Lky said there is no free lunch. The vb wants moto, gold ring at least, i phone 6, vong tay, house, monthly allowance .... if don't have the above , then go for other nationality better, may be local girl.
LOL of cos no freebie one, but its a lot less money than getting married with local girl.....its how u spend on her leh..... local girl expectations also higher and cant provide u tender loving care more than viet girl(IMO la). If not why this forum so popular? got reason de mah lol..... why are we not toking about china girl better sg girl? its not the case mah, but thai girls and viet girls not so materialistic, it goes down to the place u bring her go makan u can see liao lol....
Oh ya i also came across this documentary, watching it now. Its about Viet girls marry to singapore, interview type documentary.... dunno nice anot, check it out....
PS: IMO highly recommended to watch for bros like me who want to knoe more about viet culture, then u have viet guys who are lazy bums, useless ones haizz......
NOT FOR THE WEAK heart, i watch liao i abit emo after watching the living conditions, worst than thailand.....
1. gives all your salary to bx
2. bx will give ox daily expenses
3. cannot go anywhere without bx permission
4. bx call and msg the moment you finished work or go meet friends
5. cannot oogle another VB when bx around
6. help with looking after babies
7. must come home to eat
8. <any others I forgot>
the above is my own observations...not to anger anyone...
Wakaka.. my first post here.. this one i like.. hihi... 1 more mth to go hcm liao... VBs, VBs all come to me... haha
haha...you think become Viet husband so simple...let me share and you tell how many men willingly do...is nobody fault if the wife before married is lovey dovey...
1. gives all your salary to bx
2. bx will give ox daily expenses
3. cannot go anywhere without bx permission
4. bx call and msg the moment you finished work or go meet friends
5. cannot oogle another VB when bx around
6. help with looking after babies
7. must come home to eat
8. <any others I forgot>
the above is my own observations...not to anger anyone...
got one more jialat point
help settle bx or her family debt
If u using smartphone, u can use app like whatsapp, wechat, viber, etc to talk to her.... only monthly 3G/wifi subscription only.
her kampong got no wifi lol..... when i call her her siblings ask her to take money from me, i say no, she say she fan(vexed) , dun want tok, wait she go back hcm or come back to johor then we tok she say, so my new phone put on table to rot wif my prepaid card lol....