How To Get And Keep Attractive Gals Of Your Type

[MoralEpitome]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro ME,

Yes, we lose money w/ most women. But TC has brought unexpected good fortune to me.

I'm going to give her 一点生活费 while she is in Fujian, amounting to abt 1/5 of what I was giving her in SG.

Cheers!

You are a kind man....I suppose sometimes to receive you need to give.....so I will learn from you and give more!

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by TigerB

Me not young lah.
Thanks for your advice and the advices of many esteem bros.

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.

[smartke]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro fallen.angel,

Ths for ur insight.

I know it's all an amazing coincidence n I'm normally not superstitious, but what had happened in the last 2 months when TC was w/ me was truly incredible.

My key long term investment in Asia has done well over the yrs. It pays a nice dividend too. It reached all time high in 2007, but took a bad beating in 2008, rebounded strongly the next yr. In 2010 it was up n down within a narrow range, but was hovering 15-20% below 2007 highs all yr. Until the day after I consummated my BY of TC, when it announced unexpected good news n took off n made new highs after new highs! It had gone up n stayed up.

When TC left SG late last wk, in the same afternoon, the stock plunged! No news really thus far, but the decline has been a lot steeper than the overall markets' decline.

No, that is only the tip of the iceberg. Being w/ her for 2 months has brought me unexpected good fortune (including but not limited to a big unexpected dividend from a private co) which I shall not disclose, hehehe. BTW, I paid her well above the normal range plus expensive gifts. Whatever I hv given her is only a very minuscule fraction of what I hv been rewarded in net profit in the last 2 months!

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro smartke,

Ths for ur insights n advice.

No, I hv no KC for TC. If I go to Fujian to be w/ her it's for the good fortune she brings me. I'll keep her (she is not that young at 22) n 2 other younger SYTs, hehehe.

If she no longer brings me good fortune, I'll discard her like any other bot meat.

sifu WB,

frm wat sifu has described, sounds like wat happened r no coincidence... now believe tat she really a 'good luck' charm.

probably do 1 final test, fly to FJ to meet her. if all/most investments have an immediate (or almost immediate) 'rebound', then its really proven tat she is sifu's 财神婆. hehe...

[warbird]

Originally Posted by TigerB

Me not young lah.
Thanks for your advice and the advices of many esteem bros.
In real life, i am very different.
I am Mr. Nice Guy and accord respect to everyone.
Even to OKTs and their wards.

Bonk bonk

Hi bro,

Don't be a Mr. Nice Guy. Be a MAN w/ formidable emotional control n self mastery.

Let's go out there n bonk all the chio SYTs!

Originally Posted by MoralEpitome

You are a kind man....I suppose sometimes to receive you need to give.....so I will learn from you and give more!

Don't be too kind n dun give more to WLs!

I hv been very generous to TC, not for her cunt, but for my unexpected good fortune.

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.

Hi esteemed bro sammyboyfor,

Ths for the English lesson.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by smartke

sifu WB,

frm wat sifu has described, sounds like wat happened r no coincidence... now believe tat she really a 'good luck' charm.

probably do 1 final test, fly to FJ to meet her. if all/most investments have an immediate (or almost immediate) 'rebound', then its really proven tat she is sifu's 财神婆. hehe...

Hi bro smartke,

I truly believe that TC is not only my "good luck charm" n 财神婆 but also my muse. The more I give her the more ( a lot more actually) I get in return, hehehe. Incredible but true.

Additionally, although she is young n not well educated, she has given me insights n revelations that hv inspired n greatly benefited me...

My key investment has stabilized after 2 days of precipitous decline. It's still a lot higher than the level 2 months ago. I hv no plan to go to Fujian at this time. I want her to come back when I'm here in late April.

My other mistress is BB, the Fujian gal in my avatar, who is 1 /2 yrs younger than TC n just as chio. I give her less bcos my fortune has been unaffected by her. She is behaving just like a wife n wants to know my daily activities n whereabouts.

Cheers!

Bro WB

[smartke]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro smartke,

I truly believe that TC is not only my "good luck charm" n 财神婆 but also my muse. The more I give her the more ( a lot more actually) I get in return, hehehe. Incredible but true.

Additionally, although she is young n not well educated, she has given me insights n revelations that hv inspired n greatly benefited me...

My key investment has stabilized after 2 days of precipitous decline. It's still a lot higher than the level 2 months ago. I hv no plan to go to Fujian at this time. I want her to come back when I'm here in late April.

My other mistress is BB, the Fujian gal in my avatar, who is 1 /2 yrs younger than TC n just as chio. I give her less bcos my fortune has been unaffected by her. She is behaving just like a wife n wants to know my daily activities n whereabouts.

Cheers!

Bro WB

ya sifu, i rem commented tat ur avatar gal is pretty & cute, but bad move frm BB on the "know my daily activities n whereabouts" part.

probably 'act' like a wife; ie.. cook & care for u; is ok, but to the extend of... maybe she needs to be reminded of the situation again b4 things got carried away. jus my humble opinion.

cheers...

[TigerB]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.

Thank you BOSS.... it is chinese new year... can give angpows with lots of points?

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro,
Don't be a Mr. Nice Guy. Be a MAN w/ formidable emotional control n self mastery. Let's go out there n bonk all the chio SYTs!
Bro WB

Yes.. I will just do that !!!!
I am going CP in late Feb !!!!
Cunts calling ... yodeleheho !!!!

[warbird]

Originally Posted by smartke

ya sifu, i rem commented tat ur avatar gal is pretty & cute, but bad move frm BB on the "know my daily activities n whereabouts" part.

probably 'act' like a wife; ie.. cook & care for u; is ok, but to the extend of... maybe she needs to be reminded of the situation again b4 things got carried away. jus my humble opinion...

Bro smartke,

If a gal gets sticky she becomes less attractive...

I'll remind her gently that she is not my wife, hehe.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by TigerB

Yes.. I will just do that !!!!
I am going CP in late Feb !!!!
Cunts calling ...

Have fun, bro.

Happy CNY to all esteemed samsters!!

[seaman6969]

I just want to say I follow this thread regularly. Not all the opinions I agree with but on the whole very educational leh. Keep up all the good work dear gurus! I not experienced in these circles but trying to improve.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by seaman6969

I just want to say I follow this thread regularly. Not all the opinions I agree with but on the whole very educational leh. Keep up all the good work dear gurus! I not experienced in these circles but trying to improve.

It is all educational and it would greatly be appreciated if all who participate here can share their opinions.
Like you mentioned u dun agree to all opinions, thus, this is when u shud share your opinions, cos, the more opinions there are avail, the more choices and book of tots there are for bros, like newbie noob me to use shud the need arises

[seaman6969]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

It is all educational and it would greatly be appreciated if all who participate here can share their opinions.
Like you mentioned u dun agree to all opinions, thus, this is when u shud share your opinions, cos, the more opinions there are avail, the more choices and book of tots there are for bros, like newbie noob me to use shud the need arises

Thanks for your encouraging words.

Sometimes too many comments the thread can becum out of control lah. So I just observe and learn. If got window of opportunity to give a bit of my 2 cents among the gurus' pearls of wisdom I will try and give my humble contribution.

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by warbird

If a gal gets sticky she becomes less attractive...

I'll remind her gently that she is not my wife, hehe.

Yeah, you should. That's the WB that we all know.

[warbird]

Originally Posted by seaman6969

I just want to say I follow this thread regularly. Not all the opinions I agree with but on the whole very educational leh.........................

Hi bro seaman6969，

It has been a good education for me as well. I like to hear ur dissenting views.

Cheers!

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

It is all educational and it would greatly be appreciated if all who participate here can share their opinions..................

Hi Mr. Chairman,

I couldn't agree w/ you more.

Originally Posted by seaman6969

Thanks for your encouraging words.

Sometimes too many comments the thread can becum out of control lah........

I dun think too many comments can cause the thread to be out of control. On the contrary it will greatly improve the value, practicality n functionality of the thread.

I like to quote Chairman Mao.

" 在科学文化工作中，实行“百花齐放，百家争鸣”的方针 or let a hundred flowers blossom and a hundred schools of thought contend."

I would therefore encourage all bros here to share their experiences, strategies, comments, opinions n criticisms of any subject related to cheonging, BY-ing, investing, trading, self mastery, sexual mastery, etc.

Originally Posted by chenzong

Yeah, you should. That's the WB that we all know.

Hi bro chenzong,

Yes, I should.

BTW, are u still in SH?

Cheers!

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Good morning!

Let's suppose u got a gal, WL or non-WL, of ur dream to fall for u. Maintaining that long-term RS w/ her will never be easy. Never take things for granted.

I hv spent more intimate time n hv fxked TC more than any other PRC gals. She has given me, albeit unwittingly, many constructive criticisms n beneficial advice n revelations. Not to mention the incredible good fortune...

TC told me she was deeply in love w/ a young man in his mid 20s in her hometown in Fujian n they were considering marriage. The RS ended after 1 1/2 yrs. Why? (I'm only hearing one side of the story which may not be the complete truth.)

1) He became more n more possessive of her n wanted to know her hourly activities n whereabouts. He deleted all ctc nos of her male friends/classmates, etc from her HP n would check her message n call logs daily. He would become very zealous n even angry if she merely stood close to any man/boy, including a complete stranger, n talked to him. She simply couldn't tolerate it.

WB's comment: Her BF was insecure, needy n desperate. She showed me his pic. He was a tall n handsome young man but a complete loser.

2) Too many arguments n quarrels. They would escalate into serious fights (non-physical). Most intolerable again.

She had left n returned to him many times. He promised to change but never did. In the end, she left him for good finally. And came to work in SG.

WB's comment: He was frustrated n had little self control n hence was perceived to hv low rating on the Male Dominance Scale, hehehe.

Interestingly, the 2 main reasons she cited were the same 2 out of the 3 described by an Ang Moh guru on "What NOT To Do When You Want A Long-Term Relationship":

Hey Bro WB,

If you've been following my advice, you're probably having an
easier time meeting women than you did before. Hopefully, you've
been taking these newsletters seriously enough to ace the dates
you've been on.

Assuming that you're putting my info to good use, you could even go
so far as getting that girl to fall for you. With enough diligence
and hard work, you've managed not to mess up your game.

You deserve a pat on the back, but you'll need a few more pointers
for your own good. Look, I'm glad that you've made it this far,
but that's not all there is to it.

Don't think for a second that you can just sit back and reap the
rewards, because getting the girl is only half the work. To
paraphrase an old sales cliché, losing a customer is a lot easier
than keeping one.

Listen, you'll need to wise up if you're serious about keeping her
for the long haul. There are a bunch of mistakes you should avoid
if you want to keep her coming back again and again.

A long-term relationship isn't going to just run smoothly by
itself. Just because she loves you now doesn't mean you can slack
off. Being a man means taking responsibility and keeping an active
role in the relationship.

You wouldn't let your finely-tuned car crumble into a pile of rust,
would you? In the same way, a relationship that was once smooth
can turn into a bumpy ride by neglecting its needs.

It might seem like a lot of work to you now, but a habit of
maintenance will pay off in the long run. Just remember to avoid
the following mistakes if you're interested at all in keeping your
woman happy:

Forgetting the "little things":

I can't stress how dangerous it is to take your woman for granted.
Any girl wants to be treated like the prize that they are. When
you get lazy, you fall into the common trap of brushing her aside.

I don't have to tell you how that makes her feel.

What usually happens is that you stop performing those small acts
of affection after you've had a bit of a reality check in your
relationship. Yes, it can be pretty disappointing to think that
she isn't the flawless girl you made her out to be.

Well guess what - nobody's 100% perfect, but that's no excuse to
stop doing the little things. Chances are, you've already revealed
some things about yourself that she's not too crazy about, either.

When the both of you see each other for what you really are, it's
hardly a reason for you to be complacent. If you abandon your
efforts to make her happy, the relationship will undoubtedly die a
slow death.

You see, the keeping the romance alive is a never-ending quest and
little acts of kindness are part of that. A woman likes the
thought of always being pursued; if she feels that you've given up
on her, then trouble follows.

If you assume that going steady marks the end of courtship, you'll
find yourself single quicker than you might think.

Surprise her by suddenly taking her out with no occasion in mind.
Go ahead and make plans in advance - just don't let her know about
it to project that sense of spontaneity.

Be creative! Send her flowers at work, treat her to a massage, or
get her that book she's been raving about. The important thing is
to maintain the spark by keeping her on her toes.

Being insecure:

There's no bigger turn-off than this. A lot of guys make the
mistake of getting worked up over their girlfriend's interests.

They tell themselves, "What it is about (name of hobby) that would
make her want to spend less time than me? Aren't I good enough for
her?"

While you may have the sense to keep those thoughts to yourself,
the insecurity shows when you DON'T support the things that are
important to her. You can either let your petty little games of
jealousy kill the relationship, or accept the fact that your woman
changes and grows like everybody else.

Being insecure gives your relationship no room to grow, because you
see her interests as a threat to her love for you. Don't assume
that she should devote all of her time to you alone.

That's just plain needy.

You shouldn't worry about the fact that she likes stuff that you
have no clue about. Don't think of it as a danger, but rather as
her own way of growing as a person.

Remember, a relationship is made up of two individuals who have
lives of their own apart from their time as a couple. If you're
always crapping your pants over her "alone time", then you'll just
come off as a paranoid jerk.

If your girl loves dogs but you're not into pets, don't dismiss it
as something childish or stupid. Never forget that it's something
important to her.

The best way to support her is by offering to go with her when she
takes them out for a walk. However, if you can't bring yourself to
do that, then the least you can do is not give her any crap about
it.

Turning arguments into huge fights:

We've all been there. Notice how a simple disagreement over
something so trivial can transform into a full-blown confrontation?
It's real easy to step out of line and start hitting below the
belt when you're pissed off.

But for your own good, DON'T. As easy as it sounds, keep your
arguments on a civil note even if you feel like your heart is
beating right under your eyelid.

Debating about the everyday things is normal and healthy. As you
start learning new things about her, it's perfectly natural to
disagree about a number of things.

It's a sign that your relationship is growing, but NOT handling
these conflicts in a constructive way will screw up the romance big
time.

If you feel bad because of something she said or did, then tell
her. Just remember that the operative word here is "feelings".

Women know that guys aren't big on talking about their feelings.
Nevertheless, you should still let her know that you felt insulted
when she made fun of your sloppy apartment. It'll be easier for
her to see where you're coming from if you talk to her this way.

Keep those flaring emotions in check and don't give in to your
anger. You might end up regretting something that you said or did
in the heat of the moment.

You may not have control over everything that happens in your life,
but you sure as hell can CHOOSE how to react to it. If you want to
keep a healthy, long-term relationship, then you already know what
choice you should make.

It takes a lot to keep that all-important attraction alive and
kicking. However, that doesn't mean it's impossible to pull off.
All it takes is a better understanding of what makes women tick............

Till next time,

Mr. XYZ

[chenzong]

Originally Posted by warbird

Hi bro chenzong,

Yes, I should.

BTW, are u still in SH?

Cheers!

I've moved to a city nearby - found a new job! Hopefully, we can get to meet this Christmas, end of the year!

[warbird]

Correction: "He would become very JEALOUS (not zealous) n even angry if she merely stood close to any man/boy, including a complete stranger, n talked to him."

Originally Posted by chenzong

I've moved to a city nearby - found a new job! Hopefully, we can get to meet this Christmas, end of the year!

I look forward to seeing u!

Happy CNY to u n all samsters!!

Bro WB

[seaman6969]

Brother WB, u share mighty pearls of wisdom. Someone also once told me, a relationship is like flying a kite. Knowing when to pull and when to let go is key. Keep them coming, such good reading.