Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by bkklover

Cool it bro...bro SC is wellknown to give his advice and theories here,,,

yo bro bkklover

phom jai yen yen. mai pen rai. lol i know, been hearing about him alot from the bros here.

i just hate pple behaving as if they know everything. i too use to give advice to pple and even come out talk to them when they get into relationship problem with WL and even a Decent thai.

but i never impose or said something nasty to them. i just let them understand. also i dont pretend to be very a sai as if i know everything.

anyway i ignoring his posting n the other so holy cheater using girls to earn money.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

No one needs to accept what I say, but if one is offended by what I said, it just shows that his love for his girl cannot withstand the eyes and views of others. In simple layman terms, he is not fit to be with a WL.
SC

lol forget to add this. dont need to put this sentence lar. u trying to use that post to make pple piss of n then let them post and let u prove u are right.

dont be stupid bro. i dont even give a damn how other see my girl. if i mind, i wouldnt have gone down to ICA, CID to AV and MOM to ask them about this information n telling them my problem. if i not fit, are u fit? do u have the courage to go down and ask about ur girl problem, do u have the courage to tell ur friend she use to be a WL.

Originally Posted by bkklover

U wont be able to keep ur itchy mouth shut too...likewise,we all here to make merry.So does my presence affects u?ekekekekke...still buey song i never up u??

want to up me or not , up to you. you think i so hardup for that one point? *lol* really regret giving you one point loh. if you dont mind. i take back the point hor.

your prescence defintely affects me, cos without you here, come sammyboy also no meaning

[bkklover]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

dont be stupid bro. i dont even give a damn how other see my girl.

I also do not give a damn...kekeke...

[bkklover]

Originally Posted by bangkoktonight

want to up me or not , up to you. you think i so hardup for that one point? *lol* really regret giving you one point loh. if you dont mind. i take back the point hor.

your prescence defintely affects me, cos without you here, come sammyboy also no meaning

kekeke...if u not hard up for it,i would not be reminded by u over and over again.I think duno how many times already...kekeke..Aiyoh,i also up u before with my previous nick mah...take back lah...anyway this nick is for TCSS one...*LOL

"Presence definitely " ,not prescence defintely.kekekkee...too agitated over the points until cannot type properrrrrlllyyyy...kekekkekeke

Aiyah,i was not ard last year for some period of time.I could see u enjoying urself with the rest mah...

[bkklover]

Originally Posted by bkklover

kekeke...if u not hard up for it,i would not be reminded by u over and over again.I think duno how many times already...kekeke..Aiyoh,i also up u before with my previous nick mah...take back lah...anyway this nick is for TCSS one...*LOL

Confirm plus chop u got clone liao...kekekee....u upped me and then zap me only seconds away...kekeke...U have once proven that u are a clone...kekekekee...no guts to use ur own nick kekeke...

[Rof|maoxz]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

lol forget to add this. dont need to put this sentence lar. u trying to use that post to make pple piss of n then let them post and let u prove u are right.

dont be stupid bro. i dont even give a damn how other see my girl. if i mind, i wouldnt have gone down to ICA, CID to AV and MOM to ask them about this information n telling them my problem. if i not fit, are u fit? do u have the courage to go down and ask about ur girl problem, do u have the courage to tell ur friend she use to be a WL.

SC is just being straight to the point, no offence, just treat his advice as a pinch of salt.

Ya, it's really a rare incident to happen when a man have the courage to bring up his partner's past sexual occupation. On the other hand, we need to think of the girl's position, being outfront on her past doesn't benefit both of them. Just my POV.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

SC

do u know my bros well? do u know us well? do u know how we play our games in thailand. =) go find out about us then u come n coment about us.

1st of all, Did I personally insult each and every of your bro?

2nd thing is you mentioned you have your bros' advice to fall back on if you are in trouble.
There are people who tell me this, sometimes in tirakship with WL, you tell them so much advice also no use because nothing will go through their head. So its best to leave them to do what they want and learn out of it. And most of the time, they will learn the most when they get burned.
(Does this sound familiar)
Is this kind of no-advice the best form of advice?

I already told you earlier, I am not going to be diplomatic. This is a forum.

3rd thing to mention is, u want to ask me how your bros play the game in Thailand?
I tell you, not only your bros. Every cheongster who play USE $$$ and play.

If not use what?
Their Looks?

All also use money and play plus a bit of sweet mouth.

Originally Posted by pussyman72

2nd whether ica allow or not also u not incharge of it. stop behaving u know everything. now i know why u said bro dont like u cos u talk alot of shit n think u know all. tell u frankly there are bros who are currently on sideline and is reading this post who is more old bird then u. so dont behave as if u si bei a sai.

If you want to talk like a hooligan, I make sure I answer you in a hooligan manner
Yes, you are correct, whether ICA allow or not, also not I in charge, so in the 1st place why you post here? Is the ICA commissioner here in Sammyboyforum?

Paiseh, I don't know everything. So since you and your bros know everything, why should you still be asking here? Old bird, young bird simi bird also no use. U never see newspapers ah laus in 60s kenna con of all their money? They can say how lau the bird is, in the end how, also kenna conned. Why? You trying to say more lau bird people wouldn't get caught out cold? The only way you wouldn't get caught is when you don't play and never believe what the girls say.

U want to bring old bird here and talk that carrys weight? So does it mean if I can bring an old bird who cheong Thailand for 60yrs, you will listen to what he says?

Originally Posted by pussyman72

ur english si bei good but does not mean u si bei a sai in thailand n know how thai pple think

also dont need to teach me what to do bro what u have been saying from the first post till now is of no help cos u are bring the same old answer that i have already known long time ago. so save it

Thank you for your compliment on my English, but I still have a lot to learn.
I never say I sibei a sai in Thailand. It's only people who think like you make me out in this way.

Originally Posted by pussyman72

"I am very straightforward and I don't beat around the bush trying to act diplomatic."

u not straightforward u just trying to flame.

This is your perception only because my comments and views don't grow on you.

Originally Posted by pussyman72

For ur info when i came to know my girl use to be ex GL i already prepare for the worst for our sgp system may not accept her. i did not blame the system, i just trying to work my way out and hope for the best. so no need to tell me that i curse the gov whatsoever. when i decide i even tell my girl just prepare for the worst.

If you are not blaming the sgp system, why are you here saying that you are pushed around like a toy among the various depts. Go check your earlier postings. U feel frustrated getting pushed around, but this is the way life is.

http://forum.sammyboy.com/showpost.p...5&postcount=12

Originally Posted by pussyman72

Thanks for the support bros. haiz i always tell pple mai kanna GL girl knn i myself finally kanna what to do maybe this is my faith......

Btw, if you read at the last line that you posted in that link, you said, you always advise bros not to fall in love with WLs, but in the end now you still kenna.
Previously, why are you advising bros not to fall in love with WLs. It's the same as what I am doing to you now. My approach may be different from yours, but my intention is no lesser than yours.

To be very frank, when I have my problems in tirakship, I also seen and hear many harsh comments. I felt like how you are feeling now, thinking that others will not understand. But I appreciated each and everyone's intention whether it is good or bad.

Originally Posted by pussyman72

Since u do not know my girl dont said all WL are all like this. as if u know the whole world WL behave like this
also dont said ah ya this guy gone leow he using his dick head to think. let me tell u i know perfectly well what im doing.
no offence to u bro. just my own view.

It's your view, I cannot force my view down your throat, but you cannot force me to post my views (the kind that you like to read)

And by the way, which post did I post about your girl. Did I say your girl is a bad girl or not.

Originally Posted by pussyman72

lol forget to add this. dont need to put this sentence lar. u trying to use that post to make pple piss of n then let them post and let u prove u are right.

dont be stupid bro. i dont even give a damn how other see my girl. if i mind, i wouldnt have gone down to ICA, CID to AV and MOM to ask them about this information n telling them my problem. if i not fit, are u fit? do u have the courage to go down and ask about ur girl problem, do u have the courage to tell ur friend she use to be a WL

You go down to ICA, CID, AV, MOM and ask them for information. They are not even fucking bothered to tell you how they feel. If you as said, you don't mind how others see, you don't mind how others say, you wouldn't have replied me in this manner.
From Day 1, you should have known this path is harder to walk than others, you want to know, you know what are the perils and hardships that come with it.

I treat you as a friend, I treat you as a sawadee Bro, I tell you something straightforward. I don't pull back on my comments.

If you are offended by my comments, its because the Truth hurts.

So if any of you out there think that which part I said is not the TRUTH here, kindly point it out to me that its FALSE.


SC

[shutterbugstar]

Bro Pussyman,

I seldom post lah... but i see your thread so i post abit of my previous experience to share lah.

I am now happily settled dowm in msia with an ex cat 150.

last time b4 i took that step, i also come here ask for ppl to share experience... as usual there are some nice folks who share and encourage.. and also some who just like to pour scorn and cold water and act all so self righteous...and like what u say...as if know everything like that lah...

but that is the world lah....have all sorts of ppl....

anyway after i settled down... found out that actually most important thing is the effort u put into making the relationship work... and i respect u for that.

wish u all the best.

[bkklover]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

So if any of you out there think that which part I said is not the TRUTH here, kindly point it out to me that its FALSE.

U also forever got alot to say here to justify everything...kekekeke

But i like the part u say "love her but cannot be with her." Very enlightening...At least u dare to admit u ever loved a WL.Not like someone...kekekeke

[bkklover]

Originally Posted by shutterbugstar

anyway after i settled down... found out that actually most important thing is the effort u put into making the relationship work... and i respect u for that.

wish u all the best.

This is so far the best advice for those in the tirakship.Not as in to encourage,but the real truth in succeeding what u want to do.

[The_Unrepentant]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

dont be stupid bro. i dont even give a damn how other see my girl. if i mind, i wouldnt have gone down to ICA, CID to AV and MOM to ask them about this information n telling them my problem.

i think u do mind. after all she is ur wife to be. if ppl say bad things abt my loved one, i will mind.

everyone say they don mind but i think they are just trying to lie to themsleves. maybe only bkklover really don mind though.

[The_Unrepentant]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

What if your grp of bros chose to let you learn it the hard way and decided that only by letting you go through it again, only then one will learn.

Then this kind of bro seng ki lai lol. if i got friend like this , i will tell him what i think. The issue is not whether he is willing to listen to my advice but it is my duty as his friend to warn him and tell him what i really feel abt it.

[bkklover]

Originally Posted by The_Unrepentant

i think u do mind. after all she is ur wife to be. if ppl say bad things abt my loved one, i will mind.

everyone say they don mind but i think they are just trying to lie to themsleves. maybe only bkklover really don mind though.

Mind for what?Mind a bunch of strangers who cheong WLs talking bad about tirak? If i want to mind,i would really mind people "around" me.And not those who are here everyday to laugh at all tirak wannabes.kekekekee...

One thing i learn lah,u cant please the whole world. Even the most popular person/or whatever also got people anti him/her one.

So what for i go mind people who perhap for the rest of my life,i aint going to see them in person?Furthermore all these people is never even see before one.Or like some,see one time machiam can tell Jun's fortune and life.Everything he knows...kekeke...*LOL

To me,its more like entertainment lah.I think likewise for ST since he been chak over and over again.Yet he comes entertains SC and the rest.

For some,its entertainment to chak others.

For some,its entertainment to see people chaking at the wrong issues...

P.S. Do u mind the when u walked passed a beggar/stranger,and he/she starts whispering and giggling behind ur back after u walked away? kekekeke...If like that,i think life will be very chiam and miserable to care about everyone's opinion of himself.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by bkklover

U also forever got alot to say here to justify everything...kekekeke

But i like the part u say "love her but cannot be with her." Very enlightening...At least u dare to admit u ever loved a WL.Not like someone...kekekeke

What is there to be ashamed of loving someone?

If Sammy wants to say I am a moronic idiot who falls in love with a WL, I let him say.

I can say I love a WL, but I know nothing will turn out well. Even if it does, it is a path that is full of hardships.

People can say I am a coward not to go on, or others can say what they want.

I just need to answer to myself that I love her, keep my love for her in my heart. I move on with my life and she move on with hers. Even if she don't love me, doesn't mean anything.

I just need to be honest with myself if not it will be the worst injustice I am doing on myself.

Now I still cheong, one day I may fall in love with another WL. Who knows? My good friend see me last time love WL, always Fucked me sibei many lan jiao wey. But the truth is, I wasn't angry with him and instead I appreciate all the friends that gave me advice. Harsh or diplomatic ones. Because I know what my friends did are all for my own good. I will never be pissed with my friends or quarrel with them over a WL. Because I think it is simply not worth the effort.

If I kenna one day again, I hope I have good friends around to give me a good harsh advice.

SC