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Thank you for being meticulous and check back the background to my story and issue. I am thankful that i gave out this cry for help and advice. I am in my early 30s. Financially stable. I have requested for her to come to visit my parents but she says that her mum will not allow her to come without my parent going over to talk about marraige first. I reckon that this is to prevent her family to lose face in the case of coming to visit me and then later on the marraige never happen. Her mum is worried that I cheat her. So it puts me in a catch 22 situation. If this is the way it is how will i ever get her to come and know my family first. But yet again i am able to understand her rationale behind her and he family thoughts. They want some sort of a promise before allow things to progress. Again, not the way we handle things here in Singapore. 6 months in indeed short. I hope that I make a wise choice. Breaking her heart if things do not fall thru, is also something that i would want to prevent too. Dilemma truly. But i need to keep my head clear. Regards |
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greener, ask her to bring her parents to an internet cafe in Vietnam with webcam. Webcam with your parents. U offer to pay all the internet expenses. How about this as a first step?
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2. Whether anot to marry this gal fast or slow is entire depends on you coz ONLY you know and undertand her. Whether she is a country side gal, city gal, GROs, WL or FL ... know YOU know she is worth marrying. Time is NO barrier , Age is NO barrier, Race / Ethnics are NO barriers. The ONLY barriers is you n her. Good Comuunications n Actions are an Important criterias n you need to set it right . 3. I have said before in my post , how open is the vn gal in Singapore does not equate that she is open in Vietnam. They are still very traditional in vn. So gal will not bring a guy back just for fun. So thanks to your posting, I guess many can now know n understand why ? So if u dun loved the gal n no intention to marry the gal, pls dun ruin her n her family. 4. Ask yourself these questions : A. How much do you know about her, her family, her place she lived in? B. How long have you into vn n how much do you understand about Vn cultures, thinking, lifestyle, habits? C. How much time can you set aside to fly there n stay there n understand item (B)? You dun learn just by learning from the thread here. D. Have she met your parents? Have she interact with your parents? E. Are you prepared to lived with a gal you have just know for 6 mths. F. R u Ready for any expected things ? G. Last but not least, ant expectations from her that she must get PR, LTVP n etc to work ? 5. All answers are within yourself, if u can sort it out, u can find your own answer. I cannot give u answers for your posting because ONLY you know ... Gals are different, their family are different, even your thinking are different ... There is not Right or Wrong decision BUT the Best Decision to counter the current situation. Rgds.
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Thanks for the words of advice. It is much appreciated. I will have to give this more time and perhaps use this as a test for the love and her patience. After hearing from you i feel more confident about my stand now. I will have to hold it out. Because it is two persons' life and future at stake. Regards, |
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Most viet countryside gals will prefer marriage with a foreigner FAST, a few months after meeting him. (of course, there are some bros who will want to state his experience is different.. hihihi) Their countryside culture is MARRY first, know each other better after marriage. This will depend on whether you want to take this risk, but the gal, being so young, will be very risky. Countryside gals consider themselves ready for marriage around 18 years old, by 24, they are considered old roi. The risk is there and whether you want to take the plunge and try it out is entirely up to you. For me, i will not dare to try as the risk factor is too high due to the tender age of the gal.
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19 year olds WL wanted to marry so soon? Zhun bor? Maybe she is not earning enough! haha never see before young WL want to marry so soon, where they can earn so much more at the prime age! heee, if she really love u why she cannot wait for you? I think soon, she will start to ask u for money every month
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Don't think he was trying to refer to WLs. He's referring to foreign brides, I think.
The girl who didn't get married in the end is quite pretty. Very SYT. Seems like top heavy too.
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So chim .... words within words ...
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not only he grew wiser but he grew never to trust WL...haha...
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I had observed that many samsters get to know Vietnam babe (VB) thru Singapore night scene...ie. those working ladies (WL) working in KTV, Pubs in JC or GL...and then later get involved with the WL...first feeling them very different from those local singapore gals and then fell in love with VB or rather small head taking over the big head...all these happened when the WL are still working and sleeping with multiple clients...
ask yourself...are the samsters being naive thinking that WL are suitable to be your wife...samsters have to face so many problems...namely, money loss, time wasting and waiting for VB to finish work, heartbreak seeing them being groped and even going short time (ST) to hotel...many of these KC techniques are being used over and over again... even the WL is willing to marry you but have you ever thought what happened if she was caught and sent back...you have to spend more money travel to Vietnam to visit and phone bills...what about LTVP, PR, HDB, etc application...what about your parents...can they accept a WL as daughter in-law... I hope all samster who get involved in WL think using the big head and not the small head...if really any samster wanted to marry a VB, please visit Vietnam often to learn their culture and find a decent VB to be gf then wife... this way will ensure you will have a happy marriage... the above are purely my observation and opinion...
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Lol i sms her i want f her
she say i talk no good. wtf??? |
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To me you will not be able to handle a vietnamese woman and will 'die' in her hand if she is not that ANGEL u are looking for.Forget about her,if she cannot wait. Dont believe me,u go and try.All this things that she do is normal for vietnamese woman,so no suprise to senior bro here. If u insist on lead by her and do what she want,then good luck to u.If u lucky,u got a good one,if not lucky then only yourself to blame |
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