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its difficult to tie me or should say my little bro down as long as little bro still function. i dun go out xnn / kc vb roi. just occasionally drop by gl to look for bonk. if more kids means frequency of dropping by gl is lesser. |
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With all due respect to senior bros.
Can advise me? am 33 single no love life n time. Planning to marry viet .... via match maker .... promises young n good home maker .... Can or not ..... pls advise |
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Sorry q again ....
Am ok to do initial payment ..... But not regular payment to girls family after marriage .... not so rich liao.... |
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usually viet family prefer payment by instalment |
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In this case, installment = pay monthly and pay forever and ever. When u marries a Viet, u marry her family, and relatives and in some cases, even the whole fucking kampong!
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Check with e agency on these matters better.. then have a talk with e one u intending to get wed to... |
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The viet gals that come here for marriage thru agency main purpose is to relieve their family's poverty. The viet families believe that if their daughters marry foreigners, there will be a constant flow of income. Its not quite possible that you don't make `regular payment' to the gal's family. Be it a big or small amount, surely there will be monthly payments. This is also the reason why ICA wants to see that the singaporean guy's career is stable with a certain amount of minimum income before they will grant PR to the viet gal. Some viet gals request $200 a month, while others request $500 or even more. It will depend on your communication and understanding with the gal. Besides the monthly payments, sometimes the family will request for other things like buying a motorbike, build house etc. Whether or not you need to pay so much will depend on how well you communicate with your wife and make her realise that life in Singapore is not easy.
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BTW, u think marriage is so simple? U think marry liao then dun care about her family? Even u married a singaporean gal u also need to give $$ to yur in-laws in one way or another. U need to know more about vietnamese culture, beliefs, their way of life, their history n their way of thinking if u really want to marry a viet. Marriage is not so simple. If u think so, then like KT said, u may wanna as well also plan divorce. |
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but u ared right to say u need to know the viet culture and accept the culture otherwise u are doomed to failure...haha...for me i may have married and divorced every 6 months if i dun go vietnam regularly....
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haha...u frighten him away..but this is the blatant truth if u dun know viet culture...anyway for me, i need to think and behave more vietnamese than the local vb...still trying to graduate from therer...never seem to do so...
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i think they prefer both mode
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