Your thoughts on paid sex services (whether it's FJ or non-FJ)

[quaintatmospher]

Actually went through the entire 8 pages here looking for discussions on this and only interesting thought I could find was this.

Just curious what you guys think about such services.

I'm fairly religious and was raised in a conservative family (no sex before marriage, etc etc). However, my thoughts are that engaging in such activities are a normal part of our sexuality and is in line with normal sexual exploration. We literally evolved to be highly sexual, so that we could reproduce. Men (most of us, anyway) in particular evolved to be sexually-charged in the hopes of spreading our genes.

I understand where I'm asking this and the likely bias that will occur.

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A little bit about myself for those who're interested why I asked such a question.

I'm 24/M/C and I've never had sex before. However, over the past 2 years, I have amassed a small collection of sex toys. I was fine with that because I felt that was just exploration. Better that I have them than go look for prostitutes right? I think I have a fairly high libido, and it's very hard for me to go a few days before I feel the need to fap. On most days I fap about 2-3 times in 3 days.

A few years ago, I went on a family trip to Bali and got a legit massage, but ever since then, deep down I've always thought that happy endings were very hot, because I found out I was wet from the massage. It's probably just the body's reaction to so much physical interaction (even if non-sexual in nature), but I think the seed has been planted.

Last week, I went for an impromptu massage after an interview. The naughty guy in me went for some prostate care therapy, which was basically a massage + some hot stones on my pelvic region and some touching by the masseuse (I popped the GQ because she was touching me so sensually. At one point she was playing with my nipples and fondling my balls. Still got rejected in the end).

Now another seed has been planted. The past few days, I've been seriously thinking about going to get a massage with a happy ending. Was very conflicted because I was guilty of it, like I'm disappointing the people around me, but I've come to terms with it, so I no longer feel bad about it. Now I'm just curious to see what the people on here think.

[strikeback4]

Don't think so much

You want just do it, don't want than don't do it

Its just a transaction why you think so much? Instead of worrying, you should enjoy it

[siamkia49]

Originally Posted by quaintatmospher

... Now I'm just curious to see what the people on here think.

I think its fine as long as u know your limits and how the game is played...

This is a sex forum so what do u think about what the people here thinks?

[caoputt]

Originally Posted by quaintatmospher

Actually went through the entire 8 pages here looking for discussions on this and only interesting thought I could find was this.

Just curious what you guys think about such services.

I'm fairly religious and was raised in a conservative family (no sex before marriage, etc etc). However, my thoughts are that engaging in such activities are a normal part of our sexuality and is in line with normal sexual exploration. We literally evolved to be highly sexual, so that we could reproduce. Men (most of us, anyway) in particular evolved to be sexually-charged in the hopes of spreading our genes.

I understand where I'm asking this and the likely bias that will occur.

************************************************** *****************************************

A little bit about myself for those who're interested why I asked such a question.

I'm 24/M/C and I've never had sex before. However, over the past 2 years, I have amassed a small collection of sex toys. I was fine with that because I felt that was just exploration. Better that I have them than go look for prostitutes right? I think I have a fairly high libido, and it's very hard for me to go a few days before I feel the need to fap. On most days I fap about 2-3 times in 3 days.

A few years ago, I went on a family trip to Bali and got a legit massage, but ever since then, deep down I've always thought that happy endings were very hot, because I found out I was wet from the massage. It's probably just the body's reaction to so much physical interaction (even if non-sexual in nature), but I think the seed has been planted.

Last week, I went for an impromptu massage after an interview. The naughty guy in me went for some prostate care therapy, which was basically a massage + some hot stones on my pelvic region and some touching by the masseuse (I popped the GQ because she was touching me so sensually. At one point she was playing with my nipples and fondling my balls. Still got rejected in the end).

Now another seed has been planted. The past few days, I've been seriously thinking about going to get a massage with a happy ending. Was very conflicted because I was guilty of it, like I'm disappointing the people around me, but I've come to terms with it, so I no longer feel bad about it. Now I'm just curious to see what the people on here think.

I agree with you, I do believe that indulging in these services is fine, it's just simply enjoying the spoils of life.

I've only got one piece of advice for you TS, try not to take any negative backlash you may receive to heart.

Many brothers here are tired of just having a fuck job where it's more taxing on their energy pool, they enjoy being serviced by the girls and prefer to just have a relaxing massage with an added sexual benefit at the end.

[rtlfy]

Do what makes you happy, paid sex helped me improve my confidence a lot, and now I am not as shy when talking to regular girls or even in my day to day life. You'll eventually realize it's not a big deal, sex becomes just like any other activity you enjoy doing.

[vanness]

don't do it. its a slippery slope of no return.

[18BronzeMen]

Originally Posted by vanness

don't do it. its a slippery slope of no return.

Agree with you on this

[siamkia49]

Originally Posted by vanness

don't do it. its a slippery slope of no return.

Originally Posted by 18BronzeMen

Agree with you on this

Why are u surfing sbf then?

[quaintatmospher]

Originally Posted by siamkia49

I think its fine as long as u know your limits and how the game is played...

This is a sex forum so what do u think about what the people here thinks?

Haha exactly! That's why I left this in the opening post:

I understand where I'm asking this and the likely bias that will occur.

Just interested to see what the people who have done it think.

[strikeback4]

Originally Posted by siamkia49

Why are u surfing sbf then?

I am thinking the same thing...

Come sex forum ask to do or not to do

[Hanazono]

Originally Posted by siamkia49

Why are u surfing sbf then?

Surfing sbf means must do everything in every section, from local to overseas to outerspace to the next universe? Did you do that?

[siamkia49]

Originally Posted by Hanazono

Surfing sbf means must do everything in every section, from local to overseas to outerspace to the next universe? Did you do that?

I didn't know there is a astronomy section in sbf and I don't fuck aliens...
But I did local and overseas.

[quaintatmospher]

Originally Posted by 18BronzeMen

Agree with you on this

Originally Posted by vanness

don't do it. its a slippery slope of no return.

Are you guys speaking from experience? That was one of my initial concern as well, but I figured if I end up not being able to get out of the rabbit hole, then so be it. I already rationalized it to be healthy exploration anyway.

What I was concerned with is that, over the years, I can see my tastes getting a little more eclectic. From normal fapping, to dabbling with ballbusting (it's now almost a routine part of my sessions ) to vibrators and prostate vibrators. But, eh, who knows if it's really a slippery slope or just the nature of exploration where one slowly tests one's limits.

[theDarkness]

once u go down this path, there's no turning back. u will definitely wanna go again and again.

[strikeback4]

Originally Posted by theDarkness

once u go down this path, there's no turning back. u will definitely wanna go again and again.

Unless he have self control

Or 1st time tio KC than small head take over