SB Arrangement

[tomyumgong]

I want to start a thread to get feedback from fellow SD...

How do you handle several situations.

1. If SB need a loan from you after knowing you for a month

2. If SB says can meet up for 4x, but due to some reason, only meet for 3x. Will u get offended? Do you bring this up to her? If your SB is super busy and couple with 1 week of period. Then you also super busy with lots of biz travel. How to squeeze time out to meet and have intimacy? Do you count the number of time ? or just meet up as and when both are free? Do you bother about no of time meet up for intimacy?

3. If she starts to hint you to buy things, like iphone like jewellery etc. how do you handle? how many of you guys actually pamper your SB with gift in a monthly manner?

4. How do you initiate terminating the relationship?

I am not new but i just want to know how you guys handle different situation. and are my encounters normal or not.

Thanks har....bro and sis.

i know there are both SB and SD in this forum. Pls be open and discuss ok. No fire. Discuss professionally.

[larue]

I don't know how much you're paying for 4x a week.

She doesn't sound professional at all. And it's a job, we expect professionalism

[ilikeoldchangke]

Originally Posted by tomyumgong

I want to start a thread to get feedback from fellow SD...

How do you handle several situations.

1. If SB need a loan from you after knowing you for a month

2. If SB says can meet up for 4x, but due to some reason, only meet for 3x. Will u get offended? Do you bring this up to her? If your SB is super busy and couple with 1 week of period. Then you also super busy with lots of biz travel. How to squeeze time out to meet and have intimacy? Do you count the number of time ? or just meet up as and when both are free? Do you bother about no of time meet up for intimacy?

3. If she starts to hint you to buy things, like iphone like jewellery etc. how do you handle? how many of you guys actually pamper your SB with gift in a monthly manner?

4. How do you initiate terminating the relationship?

I am not new but i just want to know how you guys handle different situation. and are my encounters normal or not.

Thanks har....bro and sis.

i know there are both SB and SD in this forum. Pls be open and discuss ok. No fire. Discuss professionally.

1) A loan is a separate matter altogether. It should be assessed as a separate contract on it's own. Whether to give her the loan should not affect your SD/SB relationship.

A bank hired you to be their CEO. If you want to borrow money from the bank, it's up to their discretion to grant you how much, for how long and at what interest rate.

Even if the bank decides not to lend you money,you still have a job with them unless you decide to terminate the relationship on your own.

Of course, you can also choose to terminate the relationship with your SB if you think your refusal of a loan affects the quality of your relationship.





2) Depending on your arrangments, if your agreement is for a monthly settlement, then 1 session shot should not matter. You can also negotiate with SB that as a goodwill gesture, she should make up for that 1 missed session.

Do note that for phone and internet contracts, if you are too busy to use your data and talktime, M1 and singtel also charge you monthly rate plus gst.



3) If one day, your mobile service provider call and hint to you they want to increase your bill, you will need to ask what do you get out of this increase.

Better services ? more talktime ? etc .

You are paying for services, if the services you receive is good and there is potential for improvement, you can weigh the odds of further investment.

Then again, SB's value depreciates over time.

Need to really do the math on this one.




4) There are many ways to terminate the relationship. Inform her with effect from next month, the monthly sessions will increase to 6x, while the subscription rate remains unchanged.

If she disagree, the relationship is over.


If she is desperate, you get 2 more session.

Another month later, tell her you got a hotter, younger and better SB. You are willing to keep her on the condition the session goes up to 8 and you are allowed to share her with a buddy.


Repeat until she gets the message.







Just my 2 cents. Don't take it too seriously.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by tomyumgong

I want to start a thread to get feedback from fellow SD...

How do you handle several situations.

1. If SB need a loan from you after knowing you for a

I am not new but i just want to know how you guys handle different situation. and are my encounters normal or not.

Thanks har....bro and sis.

i know there are both SB and SD in this forum. Pls be open and discuss ok. No fire. Discuss professionally.

You not new n you ask these questions???

Wahlan! Depends on you n your risk apetite n whether its a pros situation or true sb situation.

If you view it as a paid fuck situation, the more u pay the more expensive it is. And yr 'loan', don't expect it back hor. Maybe she pay you back in fucking.

N even when people give tuition, can make up the hours next month. so wads her problem? She so busy? If the ger refuse, then you should know the kind of deal it is.

And terminate just say bye bye or turn off phone if its a commercial deal n you don't owe her shit.

[BMW69]

Originally Posted by ilikeoldchangke

1) A loan is a separate matter altogether. It should be assessed as a separate contract on it's own. Whether to give her the loan should not affect your SD/SB relationship.

A bank hired you to be their CEO. If you want to borrow money from the bank, it's up to their discretion to grant you how much, for how long and at what interest rate.

Even if the bank decides not to lend you money,you still have a job with them unless you decide to terminate the relationship on your own.

Of course, you can also choose to terminate the relationship with your SB if you think your refusal of a loan affects the quality of your relationship.





2) Depending on your arrangments, if your agreement is for a monthly settlement, then 1 session shot should not matter. You can also negotiate with SB that as a goodwill gesture, she should make up for that 1 missed session.

Do note that for phone and internet contracts, if you are too busy to use your data and talktime, M1 and singtel also charge you monthly rate plus gst.



3) If one day, your mobile service provider call and hint to you they want to increase your bill, you will need to ask what do you get out of this increase.

Better services ? more talktime ? etc .

You are paying for services, if the services you receive is good and there is potential for improvement, you can weigh the odds of further investment.

Then again, SB's value depreciates over time.

Need to really do the math on this one.




4) There are many ways to terminate the relationship. Inform her with effect from next month, the monthly sessions will increase to 6x, while the subscription rate remains unchanged.

If she disagree, the relationship is over.


If she is desperate, you get 2 more session.

Another month later, tell her you got a hotter, younger and better SB. You are willing to keep her on the condition the session goes up to 8 and you are allowed to share her with a buddy.


Repeat until she gets the message.







Just my 2 cents. Don't take it too seriously.

This is a very good analogy.

[tomyumgong]

Originally Posted by larue

I don't know how much you're paying for 4x a week.

She doesn't sound professional at all. And it's a job, we expect professionalism

4x a month lah....4x a week is too much

[tomyumgong]

Thanks bro for your analogy. Very true and and get what you mean.

Thx

Originally Posted by ilikeoldchangke

1) A loan is a separate matter altogether. It should be assessed as a separate contract on it's own. Whether to give her the loan should not affect your SD/SB relationship.

A bank hired you to be their CEO. If you want to borrow money from the bank, it's up to their discretion to grant you how much, for how long and at what interest rate.

Even if the bank decides not to lend you money,you still have a job with them unless you decide to terminate the relationship on your own.

Of course, you can also choose to terminate the relationship with your SB if you think your refusal of a loan affects the quality of your relationship.





2) Depending on your arrangments, if your agreement is for a monthly settlement, then 1 session shot should not matter. You can also negotiate with SB that as a goodwill gesture, she should make up for that 1 missed session.

Do note that for phone and internet contracts, if you are too busy to use your data and talktime, M1 and singtel also charge you monthly rate plus gst.



3) If one day, your mobile service provider call and hint to you they want to increase your bill, you will need to ask what do you get out of this increase.

Better services ? more talktime ? etc .

You are paying for services, if the services you receive is good and there is potential for improvement, you can weigh the odds of further investment.

Then again, SB's value depreciates over time.

Need to really do the math on this one.




4) There are many ways to terminate the relationship. Inform her with effect from next month, the monthly sessions will increase to 6x, while the subscription rate remains unchanged.

If she disagree, the relationship is over.


If she is desperate, you get 2 more session.

Another month later, tell her you got a hotter, younger and better SB. You are willing to keep her on the condition the session goes up to 8 and you are allowed to share her with a buddy.


Repeat until she gets the message.







Just my 2 cents. Don't take it too seriously.

[JoeHope]

Would really like to know how much TS is willing to pay for SB ?

[tomyumgong]

Does it matter? cause when we are in the arrangement, means the allowance and the no of meet up already agreed upon.

Originally Posted by JoeHope

Would really like to know how much TS is willing to pay for SB ?

[Lucifersangel]

Instead of answering question every time u get SB, here is one solution to fix it all.

SB come in 2 type. The girlfriend type, exclusive to u and u treat her extra nice everything is flexible.

And the business type. U not comfortable with lending her money or buying present. U die die 4 time means meet 4 time one. Other tan ur meet up, highly doubt she will stay exclusive to u cuz u dun pamper her enough. Unless u some billionaire pay her a lot till she no need present or loan.

If u prefer not to lend her money, play safe, dw give present then pls la, DRAFT OUT FROM THE FIRST DATE LA. Haiyo. So easy. Tell her die die must meet 4 time or minus allowance la, remind her not flexible! She must make time meet u. MUST be firm say 4 time fixed not up to 4 time ley. Say u not comfortable with loan and gifts yet lor. Or just tell her those won't be available no matter what. Save ur trouble la.

[Johnbass]

Tiagong can do appraisal and give performance bonus.
And also give warning letter before termination.

[bengeo]

Meetings are always lovely at the beginning ,SB will start to act up once she settled her money issues. Mine ended when she join SQ but good thing she paid back by instalment the loan. If SD not comfortable with SB anymore with her excuse ( awol)just tell her to terminate the arrangement. But make sure she dont sabo your career or family.

[sundial]

If you want to drink milk only buy milk and not keep a cow that goes out and eat other grass and get fuck d by other bulls.

I dropped the idea ofa SB

[tomyumgong]

Yup.

Thx. Lesson learnt. Will state it up front. Just that these sb pattern comes after get more close to u.

Tyg
QUOTE=Lucifersangel;13855133]Instead of answering question every time u get SB, here is one solution to fix it all.

SB come in 2 type. The girlfriend type, exclusive to u and u treat her extra nice everything is flexible.

And the business type. U not comfortable with lending her money or buying present. U die die 4 time means meet 4 time one. Other tan ur meet up, highly doubt she will stay exclusive to u cuz u dun pamper her enough. Unless u some billionaire pay her a lot till she no need present or loan.

If u prefer not to lend her money, play safe, dw give present then pls la, DRAFT OUT FROM THE FIRST DATE LA. Haiyo. So easy. Tell her die die must meet 4 time or minus allowance la, remind her not flexible! She must make time meet u. MUST be firm say 4 time fixed not up to 4 time ley. Say u not comfortable with loan and gifts yet lor. Or just tell her those won't be available no matter what. Save ur trouble la.[/QUOTE]

[tomyumgong]

Originally Posted by Johnbass

Tiagong can do appraisal and give performance bonus.
And also give warning letter before termination.

I dont give warning letter. Relationship is affected much after waning letter. I hinted u n if u dun improve. I will cut once month end.

No chance fr them to create trouble too. Easier i think.

Tyg