Can anyone help to explain and advices

SaBadBoy · #1 01-06-2013, 02:04 PM

Hi I find out my wife was dating with older guy and had sex too , the guy is 13 old than my wife . I don't understand why , Can anyone give me advices or I just dirovce with her cos it not the first time. Thk

Snickyb · #2 01-06-2013, 02:25 PM

U got the same case just like my friend wife bad Stories....
Different is just the guy is younger then is wife omg....

Better cure before it get worst... Have a nice talk with her.

poor · #3 01-06-2013, 03:18 PM

If its not the first time , then you should let go , a cheating wife is equal to not having one at all .

Timestopper · #4 01-06-2013, 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by SaBadBoy

Hi I find out my wife was dating with older guy and had sex too , the guy is 13 old than my wife . I don't understand why , Can anyone give me advices or I just dirovce with her cos it not the first time. Thk

Bro I can't give u advise on what to do is all up to you what u wan!!!
I encounter same problem as u and I choose to divorce..

Campione1980 · #5 01-06-2013, 03:44 PM

Bro SaBadBoy,

It's sad to hear a fellow bro in such a predicament. But you must understand that what we can offer is just based on our own personal opinions. What you wanna do is ultimately your own choice.

But before you make any hasty decisions you gotta ask yourself these questions:

1) Do you still love your wife?
2) Issit due to certain issues on ur part that resulted in ur wife doing what she did? Certain issues may mean u neglected her due to work etc...

Best is to come clean with ur wife that u know of her deeds and talk it over with her what is the reason behind her doing what she did. (Hopefully she has a reason for it?)

Campione1980 · #6 01-06-2013, 03:47 PM

If things are still within means of mending ur relationship, then perhaps u 2 can seek professional help somewhere? But the most important thing is that if u still wish to mend things with her, u must NEVER use this past deed against her in the future.

Think over things carefully bro, dun be in a rush to make hasty decisions. These are all i can offer as my personal opinions bro.

yang punk · #7 01-06-2013, 05:54 PM

Unless you are into cuckolded swinging and wife-swapping lifestyle your marriage is as good as over. Obviously she has no feelings or respect for you if she is repeatedly dating and getting screwed by other men.

Get evidence of her infidelity and get her out of your life as soon as possible unless you yourself have also been screwing around behind her back...

chucky69 · #8 02-06-2013, 12:08 AM

Divorce here. She has found a new fish in the ocean.
So u go find yourself as many as u can ....

sleepygordon · #9 02-06-2013, 12:50 AM

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Originally Posted by SaBadBoy

Hi I find out my wife was dating with older guy and had sex too , the guy is 13 old than my wife . I don't understand why , Can anyone give me advices or I just dirovce with her cos it not the first time. Thk

First of all, do you have evidence? Yes, then your case is clear. Adultery as reason for divorce. If you do not act on this knowledge within 6 months (i think) then you cannot use it as reason for divorce, though you can still put it as unreasonable behaviour.

All that said, you dun seem to want to divorce her, then what else is there? You want her back? You should tell us what you think and not what we think.

alan0338 · #10 02-06-2013, 11:35 AM

Wa lao eh, repeated cheating means u are nothing to her, and its time to fuck around also if u havent do tat...

SaBadBoy · #11 02-06-2013, 05:26 PM

Thk to all , I had two kid so I need think careful before I do anything by can anyone tell why she like that . We normal sex 3time a week and going out on sat n sun it just like other . Thk all give advices

Lauhuu · #12 03-06-2013, 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by SaBadBoy

Thk to all , I had two kid so I need think careful before I do anything by can anyone tell why she like that . We normal sex 3time a week and going out on sat n sun it just like other . Thk all give advices

How you knw she sex older man? Got proof?

justl00king · #13 03-06-2013, 12:22 AM

TS bro,

Are you being overly suspicious or got proof? If you have gathered evidence that there is adultery, best to have a heart to heart talk with her. For the sake of both you and your kids, hope you able resolve your issue.

Lauhuu · #14 03-06-2013, 12:32 AM

TS, you might just be overly suspicious. However, if confirm got solid proof, let her go. It might be the best solution in the long run. I been there...

Longitude · #15 03-06-2013, 06:58 AM

Do you seriously want to give up and let this guy continue to have it with your wife?