Curious about life, culture and women in LOS

[mackewell]

Hi bros,

aside from my usual xxx tours to pattaya,

I have yet to experience decent living in LOS.

Just wondering,

for senior bros who appreciated and lived the life of thais within the past decade, how is it like to live and work in thailand and master the thai language? Of course bros who brought their thai OC here can share their experience also lah, it may help me out when i look for a thai OC in the future lol.... pom diao nii rian puut thai nii noi, mai jing ngaai. I am interested in the thai culture as a beginner lah.

Most importantly aside from bar girls in LOS or working girls u met in sillypore,

How is it like courting thai puyings and getting wed eventually in LOS?

It suppose there was ups and downs due to the culture difference?

Just curious here, hee...

[Javanoob]

google stickmanbangkok.

how old are you.
my advise is just fuck the girls in thai and spend your time in more useful things.

would you learn Africa language and culture ?

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by Javanoob

google stickmanbangkok.

how old are you.
my advise is just fuck the girls in thai and spend your time in more useful things.

would you learn Africa language and culture ?

Bro,

Being in my late 20's, i have fuck more than enuff thai girls within the last decade. Of cos, its not a proud thing but time for me to enjoy some decent life outside that, its my preference to appreciate the thai culture, nothing wrong ma. Toking abt african culture is way out of proportion lah.... Morever, there are lots of senior bros who have been thru this and can advice me on this matter lol....

[ErnestK]

I will be interested to this too. Currently am trying to pick up Thai through movies and some iPhone apps but its slow moving. Am in my late 30s by the way.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by ErnestK

I will be interested to this too. Currently am trying to pick up Thai through movies and some iPhone apps but its slow moving. Am in my late 30s by the way.

Bro, at the moment before we receive more insight from senior bros, why not try social networking sites that can pick up thai girls if you have extra funds? i recommend thai love links and thaifriendly. cheers...

Oh ya, about learning thai, i simply went to kinokuniya to buy some language books. It really helped by reading them for up to an hour daily, u will get the hang of it. Thai movie wise, cos they speak advanced thai sometimes, so u need time to find the dictionaries and so on.
Rian puut thai mai jing ngaai tae kap wehlaa, rao dai tham man!( learn speak thai not really easy but with time, we can make it!)
Anyway, chok dii( gd luck) na! wait, of cos not forgetting thai music, my fav song now lol....

[flowbow]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Bro, at the moment before we receive more insight from senior bros, why not try social networking sites that can pick up thai girls if you have extra funds? i recommend thai love links and thaifriendly. cheers...

Oh ya, about learning thai, i simply went to kinokuniya to buy some language books. It really helped by reading them for up to an hour daily, u will get the hang of it. Thai movie wise, cos they speak advanced thai sometimes, so u need time to find the dictionaries and so on.
Rian puut thai mai jing ngaai tae kap wehlaa, rao dai tham man!( learn speak thai not really easy but with time, we can make it!)
Anyway, chok dii( gd luck) na! wait, of cos not forgetting thai music, my fav song now lol....

Omg, I love this song too

[Big Sexy]

why do u want to court a thai girl and wed her when they are best at fucx and forget..???

Originally Posted by mackewell

How is it like courting thai puyings and getting wed eventually in LOS?

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by flowbow

Omg, I love this song too

Hahaha i am glad that we share the same taste, a nice subtle song there...

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

why do u want to court a thai girl and wed her when they are best at fucx and forget..???

Being a single singaporean chinese male who is not handsome and fit and lack women's luck, i have already been thru tt phase of F & F umpteen times. But for once, i guess i need to take a break away from this vicious cycle and lead a normal life. Of course getting married is a major thing which i cant decide. Fate decides for u sometimes and the timing must be right also. Of course finance do plae a part but i hope its not the focal point in all.

For a change, enough of all the materialism that a potential chinese girlfriend or wife from sg, china or taiwan or hong kong or elsewhere will expect / demand/ set as a basic criteria(no offense/ hard feelings here and you can call me biase in this instance but i think we do value 5cs and ego more than other country ppl).

Call me an MCP lah but sometimes having a typical sg girlfriend who is more smarter, capable or even equal towards you at times( as she is more qualified intellectually or even equal, she demands more things from you in the relationship which to me sometimes benefits her only. On the other hand, the simply things she can do for me possibly(like cooking, sewing, simply window shopping and so on) are all gone out of the window cos life is modernised and so fast pace that you just get sucked by this society and her mentality will also be like that due to external influence.

Living in a country like sg which is driven by capitalism makes you lose yourself sometimes and succumb to luxury which i am not keen to fall on). Once again call me biase but i have seen / heard and encounter sometimes that so many chinese gals from asia choosing their life partners based on their financial statue solely at times. I know it is important but for once in my case i think there are other impt things than 5cs lah.. Being realistic and having money is important in life but inducing luxury in your life is another issue altogether.(please do not get me wrong, i am not stingy or cheapskate here, of course u spend when its neccessary but if you choose to prosper and revel in a high spending lifestyle, then its another issue altogether...)

Example, if my gf look down on me cos i dun drive and dun have car, what can i say(if i dun wan drive and i wanna be myself, there is nothing wrong i suppose). For once , being not stereotypical is good but it is highly unlikely to occur in sg.... Being voted the number 1 emotionaless country by an international survey i believe recently, personally i feel SG really lack culture and empathy at times.( simply put, we work and work and work and work to clear our debts for house, car and so on and we dont really mingle together and have specialized holidays like thailand and vietnam.) however , cant be blame, our system and lifestyle is like that...

There is no community. Some ppl who are chinese dun even celebrate CNY already. Once again, no hard feelings, just being honest in what i am expressing. Thus, in my case, i have a good feeling towards thailand and vietnam. Of course u will say there are bad eggs in the basket in any country. However, being firm followers of buddhism and filled with rich traditional culture, i prefer to lead my life in countries like thailand and vietnam in the future if i have that opportunity.

For once i just really wanna move away from this capitalism lifestyle which is filled wif materialism and statue. However, being not a rich fella, i may need to work like a bull for the next 20 years and plan ahead....However lets talk about LOS in this instance as we already have a popular VN thread in the matters of the heart....

[Big Sexy]

mate.. what i was suggesting is for you to get a gf (thai or whatever nationality). however there is no need to get into a marriage with one ..you could still live the life you want in LOS with a GF..

Originally Posted by mackewell

For once i just really wanna move away from this capitalism lifestyle which is filled wif materialism and statue. However, being not a rich fella, i may need to work like a bull for the next 20 years and plan ahead....However lets talk about LOS in this instance as we already have a popular VN thread in the matters of the heart....

[hamsapkwai]

Originally Posted by mackewell

For once i just really wanna move away from this capitalism lifestyle which is filled wif materialism and statue. However, being not a rich fella, i may need to work like a bull for the next 20 years and plan ahead....However lets talk about LOS in this instance as we already have a popular VN thread in the matters of the heart....

And you think Thais and Viets are not materialistic and statue conscious? You born yesterday or this morning ?

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

mate.. what i was suggesting is for you to get a gf (thai or whatever nationality). however there is no need to get into a marriage with one ..you could still live the life you want in LOS with a GF..

Bro,

Definitely thats my plan in de initial stages, u cant rush into marriage but u can never sae no in the option of marriage later, fate plays a part in it. Of cos i cant sae no to tt, u never knoe wad will happen in de future...

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by hamsapkwai

And you think Thais and Viets are not materialistic and statue conscious? You born yesterday or this morning ?

Bro b4 u get sarcastic lah, i alreadi mentioned removing the bad eggs in the baskets for all countries, statistically , u need to ask urself, when u have sg , a island wif almost no culture and taken over by capitalism and u compare it wif at least neighbors who have a cultural background and not filled wif capitalism completely, how high are ur chances in finding a better half which has her mindset not driven by materialism caused by capitalism eventually in sg?

I understand that u need to put ur heart and soul and make decisions in a relationship but in this modern society unfortunately, u need to use ur big head to determine also if a relationshop can work? Why die die want find in sg de simple gal u want when u knoe the numbers are against u? Ppl look for foreign spouse in this instance, simply put.... I am not saying foreign spouse is de way to go but at least chances of finding a better half is overseas in this instance...

[Javanoob]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Bro,

Being in my late 20's, i have fuck more than enuff thai girls within the last decade. Of cos, its not a proud thing but time for me to enjoy some decent life outside that, its my preference to appreciate the thai culture, nothing wrong ma. Toking abt african culture is way out of proportion lah.... Morever, there are lots of senior bros who have been thru this and can advice me on this matter lol....

Bro, if you take the thai girls out of the story, will you still be interest in the thai culture ? answer me honestly.

I think there are enough seniors bro around here giving you advice not to waste too much time on this things esp if you are in your late 20s.

I am married with a thai wife and my kids are inter. during that time i am 23 and just ord. now i am near 30 and i had asked and thought the same things like you.

saturday and sunday was golden mile and gl. (during that time, no similanjiao neverland, v4,v5 watever) you listen thai, pple say you obiang piece of shit.

i guess oldtimers will know what i meant.
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If you really so interested to know more of their culture, prepare this realistic items and also, you must understand thai have different society levels, just like everywhere on earth, which type of culture you want to know more ?

prepare yourself this

1) learn thai
2) get a thai close friend or gf
3) prepare enough $ so that you can fly here and there and stay there to absorb their culture.

dont dig too deep. we are already near 30s, leave these for the youngers one with time to spare.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by Javanoob

Bro, if you take the thai girls out of the story, will you still be interest in the thai culture ? answer me honestly.

I think there are enough seniors bro around here giving you advice not to waste too much time on this things esp if you are in your late 20s.

I am married with a thai wife and my kids are inter. during that time i am 23 and just ord. now i am near 30 and i had asked and thought the same things like you.

saturday and sunday was golden mile and gl. (during that time, no similanjiao neverland, v4,v5 watever) you listen thai, pple say you obiang piece of shit.

i guess oldtimers will know what i meant.
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If you really so interested to know more of their culture, prepare this realistic items and also, you must understand thai have different society levels, just like everywhere on earth, which type of culture you want to know more ?

prepare yourself this

1) learn thai
2) get a thai close friend or gf
3) prepare enough $ so that you can fly here and there and stay there to absorb their culture.

dont dig too deep. we are already near 30s, leave these for the youngers one with time to spare.

Bro, unlike sillypore where the lower class and de upper class compete and face each other regularly on this small island, i think los could provide a different alternative to tt. After more than 8 years in the comm xxx scene, i am aware of the danger of digging deep when u have foreign gf as some will plot to slowly take vita m out of u. Of cos , i place vita m in front of women but i cant simply bank on transactional relationship all de while.

Kc trap is deadly even outside the comm xxx scene as it may take a long time to understand someone frm a different country and culture. For point 1 and 2 u mentioned, i guess i may work to tt eventually. Lets see how thing goes and how fate runs out. For point 3 its really in de later stages or it may not happen and bgr do come and go easily sometimes.

But i was wondering, did u regret settling down early? Or i suppose there are more pros in return. I feel la in this day and age, having children is preferential as i am really not keen not having one and i dont see the need to stereotypically do this to prolong my family tree. I guess i am never father material, kudos to u fathers out there as it takes loads of balls and patience to become a gd dad.

However getting married really depends la, if shes worthy and the time is right why not. I am so glad i dun have the pressure frm my parents. Of cos in sg, there is only golden mile tt has thai culture. To a certain xtent, i feel golden mile does not symbolise los la. Los is so different, i am learning thai and its tough but fulfiling as days go by. I guess maybe i shld stay for a gd one year in los and then i see how things go, maybe i like it being single there initially.

Btw i think long and hard and i am able to ans ur qn well. Even if women is out of this topic, i am a very un-chinese fella who do not njoy a cultureless country like sg. to me, i just be myself , i dun use the 5cs to prove my worth. Tts also why my frens find me unsingaporean also lol... If i am rich, i probably move to another country in asean but thailand and vietnam are two top destination in my mind bah....

I think its not waste of time to learn a new culture when u are able to. Luckily i am frm a well to do family so i dont have a lot of financial constraints. If not, better not waste my time on this lah. I started this thread wif an open mind, i am not tt young, i maybe naive and immature, but no one has correct ans and are perfect here.

There are no definite ans in life but its always good to hear and experience and feel frm different side of stories and learn frm them. Lastly, of cos i need to experience it myself. Life is short, of cos not being overconfident here but when u wanna try something i think u need to put aside ur frail mentality and stick to ur plan. This would be a bumpy road but who noes? It could prove to be fulfilling path in an unpredictable society of today.