Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 945

Hurricane88 · #**14161** 03-06-2012, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

why u worry so much about whether to see your grandchildren or not?how old are u?Dont because of wanted to see your children or your grandchildren then u sign.ask yourself,how much u know her.since u start your posting here means u still have some doubt

most vietnamese girl will ask u to marry them fast.really up to u cos vietnamese girl is not really what u will expect the same as sg girl.Learn more about their thinking and way of doing things before u decide.

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Originally Posted by darkburn

bro vietboy is right..
am currently with a viet gal..1st time having a viet gf..
have thai gfs in the past..
she currently living at district 8..renting an apartment..she not a kampong gal..
am thinking should i take the plunge to settle down with her..
am 33yrs btw..

just cut and paste for you...

Hurricane88 · #**14162** 03-06-2012, 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Quite true, in SG 1 vios, Thailand can buy about 5

yes...dun come back...here is crazy...so expensive...just can't wait to get out...

Kim91 · #**14163** 03-06-2012, 09:37 PM

Hi Ong/Anh,

Finally can find a forum for all Husband of Vietnamese... have been reading over the wkends still at 200+pg...Thanks all for contributing...

Ngu ngon

naemlo · #**14164** 03-06-2012, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

yes...dun come back...here is crazy...so expensive...just can't wait to get out...

A survey by UBS Aug 2011, SG is the top 10th most expensive city yet our salary is ranked at 42nd out of about 70 cities.

It is pitiful to stay in SG. Something is wrong somewhere.

darkburn · #**14165** 03-06-2012, 09:56 PM

Thanks bro 88 for the kind response..
I know her for 6mths+..
Thou e time is not long, but m planning ahead what lies for us..
She half Taiwan n half Vietnam btw..
My knowledge of Vietnam is not strong,so hopefully I can gather more infor from u bros

naemlo · #**14166** 03-06-2012, 10:00 PM

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Originally Posted by darkburn

My knowledge of Vietnam is not strong,so hopefully I can gather more infor from u bros

Dun gather, go and experience it. Social university is always better than any top universities u can name them. Furthermore, marriage with Viet

Gathering information thru internet????

Every individual ger, family is different....

darkburn · #**14167** 03-06-2012, 10:08 PM

Hiak.. Bro naemio,isn't the topic "understanding Vietnamese life partner"?
So I have been reading thru this post n gathering information of what to expect if I marry a Vietnam lady..
I really do want to settle down with her but at the moment due to my work,I can only fly every fortnight to see her for 2days..
Like I mentioned earlier, I hope I can learn from u bros out there who already married..

asdfghjkl · #**14168** 03-06-2012, 10:12 PM

my viet bff lives in seascape.. always like to pay her a visit.. damn posh.. whole night party also can, hehe

superhuman · #**14169** 03-06-2012, 11:51 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

Central HCM districts like 1, 3 and 5 are the most expensive when it comes to rental. Next in line will be Phu My Hung in District 7. District 4 is between District 1 and District 7. There are many apartment buildings there now and also a lot of offices. Between District Binh Chanh and District 5 is District 8. There's where rental is cheaper. The other side of the city with cheaper rent is District Binh Thanh. But seriously speaking, rental in HCM itself is not cheap anymore.

Thx bro. It helps alot

vietboy · #**14170** 04-06-2012, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by darkburn

bro vietboy is right..
am currently with a viet gal..1st time having a viet gf..
have thai gfs in the past..
she currently living at district 8..renting an apartment..she not a kampong gal..
am thinking should i take the plunge to settle down with her..
am 33yrs btw..

She is YOUR girlfriend only u know her best. If u think the 2 of u r ready to settle down then go ahead. If u think u still need more time to think, then go ahead take more time think carefully n thoroughly. Cos like i said before: once yur 4th finger go into the metal hole, no turning back. U also dun wanna make decisions that u regret. Moreover, marriage is involved 2 families. U have to think of yur parents, her parents n most importantly the future for the 2 of u.
BTW 33 yrs old is not old lah. Its still prime age.

vietboy · #**14171** 04-06-2012, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by darkburn

bro singviet,
thanks for your concern, she used to be not financially not bad in the past..but currently due to her family business,she need to moved to district 8.is kinda far away from the busy area and the area is pretty quiet..is a new condo.. i been to her apartment already..and i saw her 'id card' before..she used to stay at district 5..

bro naemio,
thanks for your concern as well..i know i am with her n is whether i want to settle with her..but i m pretty concern about the 'liabilities' if i need to face if i marry her..i been discussing with her about this recently..about the 'jia yong' n etc..

Dun quite understand. If she is able to afford to stay in a condo, why u still need to support her. She cant work ha? Havent marry wanna be tai-tai already?

vietboy · #**14172** 04-06-2012, 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...just be with her first la...after 2 yrs then decide if your r/s can last so long...2yrs all the lies or white lies will be out...

agreed with u on this. Take more time to know the gal well. No matter wat she still of different country, different culture. Unlike those sg gals.

vietboy · #**14173** 04-06-2012, 12:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

because of u disturb her,she have to change her face to hide from u

Wa liao, i sincerely talking to her leh, i ask her proper questions but she no reply.

vietboy · #**14174** 04-06-2012, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Golden question

just now took my wife see doctor,finally found one cos most Gp open half day on sunday.

3 medicine with consultation fees come up to $40.normally i see my GP,an old doctor charge a reasonable rate of around $20 for this kind of sickness.

now everywhere also 'hang money sign' ,no such things as whether patient can afford or not,maybe left my old GP only but hope he can live as long as possible

Ya, nowadays its not cheap to fall sick. I think the clinic u went to is a 24hrs clinic so it will charge higher than normal clinic.

darkburn · #**14175** 04-06-2012, 12:54 AM

Bro vietboy,like I mentioned earlier,she used to be quite finacially ok in e past but because of some failed business her family suffered recently, things turned otherwise..
And because of her sudden family downfall or downturn, she asked me for some help n because the word 'marriage' did pop up before things turned bad,she did ask me to consider whether do I want to take up e extra 'resposibilities' or I can just choose to walk away..
She did not work before and she did mention going to work in a resturant to help out the family expenses recently bcoz of the things that happened..