Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SingViet

It is good to set credit limit to the supplementary card that you give to your viet wife, this is especially so if they are very much concerned about their viet family's financial situation and they go back Vn often. At the same time, do not give them the PIN number. You will not them to withdraw all from the credit card to give to their parents when they are in Vn.

actually that time,my wife also ask me about credit card cos i think her friend got debit card with the visa logo.at first i intend to apply for her a supp card but after consideration and also due to that stupid bank ask this ask that for document and for just a supp card,i did not apply for her.

but to be honest,i think she dont really need one as cash is still king and is best she stick to cash rather than sign sign sign,then sign my life away hahaha

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SureScore

Sure fully withdrawn if knew PIN.

ho seh liao,use credit card to draw out cash from atm machine and prepare that bank will charge u a withdrawal fees and the interest will start to count immediately and if use oversea,lagi ho seh,both local and oversea bank will charge you fees and not forget the conversation rate hahaha

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...this matter I knew the story and wrote forum...nope he didn't marry Jap but instead got another Vn baxa...now a father to a boy more than 1 year old liao...also no longer selling newspaper...sold their 4 room flat and down graded...also moved away...

http://sammy.services/showpos...postcount=5084
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thanks for sharing bro,i only read before the first part.some time i dont understand why some people so heartless to not even give her own parents to bring her back.

now her parents have to take care of her for the rest of her life and some more they are poor and this idiot is enjoying his life here with a kid

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Golden question

than sign sign sign,then sign my life away hahaha

haha good one

[batty]

Thank you bros. Your answers are from your personal experiences which are priceless. You have saved bros reading this thread and may be even me. Bro lament, I feel sorry for your friend.

There is method in that newspaper boy's madness.

One day soon we might see China, Vietnamese, Filipino, Myanmarese, Indian, Korean and Japanese marching contingents in our Chingay and National Day Parades. They will be dressed in their respective ethnic costumes. This is not far fetched. The Singapore Soka Association already has done so, and they are a small group.

[Honey Boon]

ya ya, must always remember this. thanks for reminding

Originally Posted by Golden question

ho seh liao,use credit card to draw out cash from atm machine and prepare that bank will charge u a withdrawal fees and the interest will start to count immediately and if use oversea,lagi ho seh,both local and oversea bank will charge you fees and not forget the conversation rate hahaha

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by Golden question

thanks for sharing bro,i only read before the first part.some time i dont understand why some people so heartless to not even give her own parents to bring her back.

now her parents have to take care of her for the rest of her life and some more they are poor and this idiot is enjoying his life here with a kid

we are only observers to this matter...only those involved knew more...the newspaper men spent quite a bit of money on the VB who met with accident...also paid the 1st installment of the hospital bill...but the VB was already working for them and have to take care of the handicap mother together with a dirty old father...always take the liberty to hug her...

the current wife is not as pretty but also very hard working...got pregnant very fast...also have to work daily...at fast has a Indo maid to take care of the handicap mother but later also no more...

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by batty

Thank you bros. Your answers are from your personal experiences which are priceless. You have saved bros reading this thread and may be even me. Bro lament, I feel sorry for your friend.

There is method in that newspaper boy's madness.

One day soon we might see China, Vietnamese, Filipino, Myanmarese, Indian, Korean and Japanese marching contingents in our Chingay and National Day Parades. They will be dressed in their respective ethnic costumes. This is not far fetched. The Singapore Soka Association already has done so, and they are a small group.

yah,quite common.nowdays u can even see many ang mo take public bus to work and squeeze with us.one bus u can hear ang mo speak english,filipino speak theirs,china ppl speak chinese,indian speak theirs with china bus driver.

viet at ntuc or shopping mall,viet student hanging around,china and filipino serving u at kfc

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Golden question

yah,quite common.nowdays u can even see many ang mo take public bus to work and squeeze with us.one bus u can hear ang mo speak english,filipino speak theirs,china ppl speak chinese,indian speak theirs with china bus driver.

viet at ntuc or shopping mall,viet student hanging around,china and filipino serving u at kfc

Foreigners are everywhere in Singapore now. From coffeeshop to Post office to executives, foreigners are taking up almost every position in Singapore. Sometimes i feel unjust for Singaporeans, who need to fight for survival with foreigners, but when i look at how some singaporeans work, their attitude etc, i thought stiff competition may just be better. Vietnamese are still minority in Singapore, mostly being spouses of Singaporeans.

[Honey Boon]

and some Marlboro men at GL

Originally Posted by SingViet

Vietnamese are still minority in Singapore, mostly being spouses of Singaporeans.

[miua55555]

Now having a sqaubble with my 2yr r/s viet gf roi ... over a hp issue. sigh ..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by miua55555

Now having a sqaubble with my 2yr r/s viet gf roi ... over a hp issue. sigh ..

dun buy expensive phone for her...sure sold next time and tell you lost...tell her to buy using her own money...

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by miua55555

Now having a sqaubble with my 2yr r/s viet gf roi ... over a hp issue. sigh ..

Its normal la. They have too many committments to their family. Till now, my wife and i still have issues over her watches. I think i mentioned before in the forum. My wife change watches every few months, max 6 months with 1 watch. Although the watches i buy for her are not too expensive, around $200 to $400 for one, but she will find reasons to change watch every 6 months or so. After she change watch, her `old' watch will be given to her sister when we meet her in Saigon, and she does all these behind my back. I will only realise when i see her sister wearing her watch. Initially i will question her, and it will always lead to arguments. Nowadays, i just keep quiet but try my best to prevent her from changing watches so often.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by SingViet

Its normal la. They have too many committments to their family. Till now, my wife and i still have issues over her watches. I think i mentioned before in the forum. My wife change watches every few months, max 6 months with 1 watch. Although the watches i buy for her are not too expensive, around $200 to $400 for one, but she will find reasons to change watch every 6 months or so. After she change watch, her `old' watch will be given to her sister when we meet her in Saigon, and she does all these behind my back. I will only realise when i see her sister wearing her watch. Initially i will question her, and it will always lead to arguments. Nowadays, i just keep quiet but try my best to prevent her from changing watches so often.

correct bro,my wife use to like to change hp then after few months,bring back to give her mother or sis use.now is shoes,bag and clothes.she only use her things few time then bring back when she is back.i dont know is it because of face issue or their habit?but she did tell me before that she have to buy things back as a gift to family and friends cos always they will ask why no give them any gift from singapore for them when she see them when she go back.thats why now she also dont like to go back. anyway now like u,i also sometime close one eye as long is not expensive.

still remember when she is still my girlfriend,i bring her to mustafa to buy lots of chocolate to bring back to give to her family member and friends cos she say singapore chocolate taste better

i did told her that whatever u buy to give them,u must never give your family an impression that u are well off here.or else if they start to borrow from u money,u have to face it if they start to ask from u money cos u create all this in the first place to let them know that u can afford to borrow them.

[Golden question]

btw any bro know whether is it best to change viet dong to sg dollars at hcm or come back sg to change back.i know that i will get back lesser when change a foreign currency back to sg dollars but just want to know whether change there is better or sg?