How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[Jamesleejamesle]

Bros,
I am wondering how to do all the above if u are married?
Anyone got caught before by relatives and friends?
I find that singapore is so small that wherever I go, I may bump into someone whom I may know and vice versa. Worse still, I have a bit of bad memory, so sometimes I don't recognize them but they recognize me!
Of course, if I am overseas, then it's a different story.

[luciferpain]

there is no true love in this line. they have many terruk so what make you different from other

[korean]

Originally Posted by luciferpain

there is no true love in this line. they have many terruk so what make you different from other

that is a general statement with exceptions, human is complex especially woman

[korean]

Originally Posted by Jamesleejamesle

Bros,
I am wondering how to do all the above if u are married?
Anyone got caught before by relatives and friends?
I find that singapore is so small that wherever I go, I may bump into someone whom I may know and vice versa. Worse still, I have a bit of bad memory, so sometimes I don't recognize them but they recognize me!
Of course, if I am overseas, then it's a different story.

there is risk of coz. So try to avoid crowded and popular places. I get caught 3 times. One time bump into ex colleague during lunch, second time bump into friend in orchards, third time on the phone call with her bump into wife's friend.

[19thhole]

Originally Posted by Keith2

Bro, seems like you and your gal has real feelings for each other...I mean you 2 really do carefor each other. But I assume she has other men also and you have your partner in sg too ? What I want to ask is how to you maintain this without you or her wanting to be exclusive to each other ? Was she a WL in sg and went back to China ?

Hi Keith, Yes. We do have feeling for each other. The fact is she is not young, neither is she extremely pretty. But for me she is good enough. I am pretty sure she has no one in China. Because I stayed in her rented place when I visit her, and I can visit as and when I like. I can WeChat her on video as and when I like also, anytime of the day. She don't work at night, so working as a KTV gal is not possible.

I am not attached in SGP but I do have friends that I go out with, no string, no sex (yet, or will never have). The formula is simple, she is thousands of miles away. Just do what you like. I met her in a KTV, but after that she spend most of the weekend with me to tour SGP. Weekdays, some times we meet, sometimes she works.

I think the trust part is very individual. Generally, I too choose not to believe these gals. But time is a powerful tool, after much time, you will be able to tell whats the truth.

[19thhole]

Originally Posted by Jamesleejamesle

Bros,
I am wondering how to do all the above if u are married?
Anyone got caught before by relatives and friends?
I find that singapore is so small that wherever I go, I may bump into someone whom I may know and vice versa. Worse still, I have a bit of bad memory, so sometimes I don't recognize them but they recognize me!
Of course, if I am overseas, then it's a different story.

That's actually pretty tricky and scary too. Still I would suggest no KC if you are married. Attached, if you can get distracted by the PRC until you want to breakup with your current GF. Then, this will only prove how much she meant to you. You might just as well change GF.

Anyways, juz dun hold hands or show intimacy in public. Go to ulu places for makan if u need to eat. When I say ULU I meant it. Places that is not accessible by public transport easily will be good. Place like CCK Farm Mart. Sembawang Bottle Tree. Fort Canning Hotel Cafe. Labardour Park. Jurong Bird Park area. If you wan to watch movie. Kallang Leisure Mall is quite a discrete area.

There are no gurantees that these places you would see anyone. But at least less possibilities.

[Nato17]

Originally Posted by luciferpain

there is no true love in this line. they have many terruk so what make you different from other

I concur with you. To find true love with a WL, FL or working girl, you have to wait long long.
I have had a few working girls sacrifice a lot for me, that much I know, but I will say that is because they know I am a good catch and trying to go for my heart. Oh well.

[Nato17]

Originally Posted by 19thhole

Hi Keith, Yes. We do have feeling for each other. The fact is she is not young, neither is she extremely pretty. But for me she is good enough. I am pretty sure she has no one in China. Because I stayed in her rented place when I visit her, and I can visit as and when I like. I can WeChat her on video as and when I like also, anytime of the day. She don't work at night, so working as a KTV gal is not possible.

Bro, I think you are totally being naïve! Being older and not extremely pretty does not mean she will not screw behind your back. It just means she has more experience in dealing with guys. Staying at her rented place also means jack really.

Let me share with you my story about someone I used to be with. She was more mature than a lot of SYTs found here. She was like you said not extremely pretty and she had her on place even because I purchased the place.

Now, does that mean she wasn't screwing behind my back. At the end of the day, I realized she was screwing other people and she cried until the cows came home when I went into details.

Don't be naïve to think that she would not. She can sleep with you for money at the drop of a hat; she can sleep with others also.

[korean]

I really hope she is not the one I know. Good sharing bro

Originally Posted by Nato17

Bro, I think you are totally being naïve! Being older and not extremely pretty does not mean she will not screw behind your back. It just means she has more experience in dealing with guys. Staying at her rented place also means jack really.

Let me share with you my story about someone I used to be with. She was more mature than a lot of SYTs found here. She was like you said not extremely pretty and she had her on place even because I purchased the place.

Now, does that mean she wasn't screwing behind my back. At the end of the day, I realized she was screwing other people and she cried until the cows came home when I went into details.

Don't be naïve to think that she would not. She can sleep with you for money at the drop of a hat; she can sleep with others also.

[loneyheart]

Originally Posted by korean

I really hope she is not the one I know. Good sharing bro

thxs bro for yr pts .. appreciated ... ps give me time to return fav ... cheers

[Keith2]

Originally Posted by Nato17

Bro, I think you are totally being naïve! Being older and not extremely pretty does not mean she will not screw behind your back. It just means she has more experience in dealing with guys. Staying at her rented place also means jack really.

Let me share with you my story about someone I used to be with. She was more mature than a lot of SYTs found here. She was like you said not extremely pretty and she had her on place even because I purchased the place.

Now, does that mean she wasn't screwing behind my back. At the end of the day, I realized she was screwing other people and she cried until the cows came home when I went into details.

Don't be naïve to think that she would not. She can sleep with you for money at the drop of a hat; she can sleep with others also.

Bro, you must be really experienced to have a heart of steel. Can I ask if those girls younmention sacrifice for you took any money from you or even buy gifts for you ? And how much time they spent on you to let u think they are just extending their fishing rod for you?.

[korean]

If wanna play kc game, be prepared to get hurt, hurt her or both if the objective of both parties is not for long term in mind.

[korean]

Originally Posted by Keith2

A friend has been having a relationship with a PRC WL for 3 months but still no sad stories and asking of momey from.her. Somemore she has quit the line and gone back home. Friend went over and found out she is a middle class girl with proper background. Even rejected expensive gifts from my friend. Do you guys believe there is such thing as real true love with an ex-wl with her client ?

Hi bro, seems like u r interested to know more abt other bros kc cases with wl. R u trying to confirm something to relate to your own case? A year back I have same doubt and as around like u too

[wonderfix]

Deleted my post.

Perhaps I had said too much. I had no intentions to offend. Nor do I want to cause any rift between the gal and the boyfriend.

To the boyfriend: I have no intentions or any ill will. If me relating what I saw offended you, I apologise. I will not visit her anymore. I wish you two all the best.

[Keith2]

Originally Posted by wonderfix

Hi bros,

Just to share. Witness a kc case just last night. Witnessing it first hand really gave me a wake up call. Here's what happened.

Last night when I reached home, I wechat my regular FL gal. She told me that her boyfriend was with her (yes she has a singaporean boyfriend). I didn't felt comfortable going over as I know her boyfriend was the jealous type so I told her to let me know if her boyfriend is going home. After all, I didn't want to interrupt their time together just because of me.

Around 12 midnight, she wechat me to say her boyfriend has gone home. So I told her to wait for me and 1/2 later, I was there with her.

A little bit about the boyfriend. I know he's singaporean. Young chap, younger than her actually. Working but not earning much. But deeply I loved with her. I know he was a previous client from what she told me. And from what I can observed, she seems genuinely in loved with her too.

Anyway, after shower and just before we started, her phone kept ringing. Non-stop. I told her I won't mind if she answered and it was her boyfriend. Voices was raised and she told him that she has to work and asked him to be reasonable, promising to call him back.

So through out the entire session, her phone kept vibrating non-stop again. For a good 30 minutes. After we were done and showered, I told her again to answer the phone. And specifically told her to try and control herself and not quarrel with the boyfriend. She did try, until the part where he demanded her to open the gates and let him up.

At this point, I was thinking what the fuck. I'm still around and have no desire to have any confrontation with the boyfriend. After all, what did I do wrong? Nothing! FL or not, I have came to treat this gal as a friend due to her super gfe and service. And she is not those type who ask for gifts or more $$. When I tip her, it's always because I wanted to and the amount is alway up to me.

In the end, I had to leave by the backgate. As I stood downstairs a distance away, I saw him came down, walking away, with her chasing behind. I really don't know what to think. I know they always quarrel but to put themselves through such pain, was it worth it? She can't work much as he kept camping at her place. He is spending so much booking her for overnight every week.

Is it true love? I don't know. But I do know that he is hopelessly kc. The only consolation is that she seems to really love him.

This serves as a stark reminded to myself. It is indeed a dangerous game...

She loves him ? Seriously and yet he has to pay her for overnight ? Real KC means no momey involve. At least to me