Chao Cac Anh Cac Chi, Chuc Cac Anh Cac Chi Mung Giang Sinh Va Chuc Mung Nam Moi
Where have you been? I didn't see u on yahoo for sometime. Was thinking of calling you to check if you are alright. See u here now means u should be alright. Merry Christmas
My latest beau happen to un-do all the Vietnamisation experiments that was conducted in the past and brings me into a new dimension in this topic.
I got to know her on 3 Dec cos I went to see one of ger whom is leaving the next day. She came over and ask if I wan her friend and I said no cos I wanna know her. We talk a bit and I gave her my number. lets call her P.
The next day she called me and we met up and that night we slept next to each other and became inseparable since.
A curious oddity to vn ger profile. She dun really want to work, for the last 20-odd days, she spend less than 5 days working and spend most of the time out with me. She left on the 27 still owing her friend her air-ticket money and @170 in her wallet.
Whenever I ask her to work, she would pop down and bring her less than good-looking friends to work and would call me to pick her up and then she end her night. She never ask me for any money. She had no phone and so I pass her an old 8210 which I had and she is contented with it.
She accept the fact that I am married and encourage to be on good terms with my wife. I hence started a new experiment to bring the 2 half together. With my wife still largely in the dark till this morning, she ask me if i am seeing someone. The best part is that P is 3 days my wife junior and they are very much alike in temperament.
I said yes and I want the 2 to be like sisters and good friends. My wife ask for a divorce unless I leave P. So now my marriage on the rocks and I still want both of them to be by my side. my wife on my left and P on the right.
My latest beau happen to un-do all the Vietnamisation experiments that was conducted in the past and brings me into a new dimension in this topic.
I got to know her on 3 Dec cos I went to see one of ger whom is leaving the next day. She came over and ask if I wan her friend and I said no cos I wanna know her. We talk a bit and I gave her my number. lets call her P.
The next day she called me and we met up and that night we slept next to each other and became inseparable since.
A curious oddity to vn ger profile. She dun really want to work, for the last 20-odd days, she spend less than 5 days working and spend most of the time out with me. She left on the 27 still owing her friend her air-ticket money and @170 in her wallet.
Whenever I ask her to work, she would pop down and bring her less than good-looking friends to work and would call me to pick her up and then she end her night. She never ask me for any money. She had no phone and so I pass her an old 8210 which I had and she is contented with it.
She accept the fact that I am married and encourage to be on good terms with my wife. I hence started a new experiment to bring the 2 half together. With my wife still largely in the dark till this morning, she ask me if i am seeing someone. The best part is that P is 3 days my wife junior and they are very much alike in temperament.
I said yes and I want the 2 to be like sisters and good friends. My wife ask for a divorce unless I leave P. So now my marriage on the rocks and I still want both of them to be by my side. my wife on my left and P on the right.
Is this a failed experiment???????????
Once bitten, twice not shy... here it goes again. That's why the vietnamese gals think that singapore man are stupid
Guess my assimilation experiment has failed. been thru a lengthy war with my wife. seems she cannot accept this fact that i split my heart between the 2.
my relationship with P will go underground from now on cos too many spies spread out in jc area.
Guess my assimilation experiment has failed. been thru a lengthy war with my wife. seems she cannot accept this fact that i split my heart between the 2.
my relationship with P will go underground from now on cos too many spies spread out in jc area.
Guess my assimilation experiment has failed. been thru a lengthy war with my wife. seems she cannot accept this fact that i split my heart between the 2.
my relationship with P will go underground from now on cos too many spies spread out in jc area.
Aiyoh, why always get tied up here and there in JC? Go to the source of gals la.. go to Vietnam and have fun. Maybe u don't know vietnamese gals well enuff... want to be with another vietnamese lady while u are married? Watch out for your dickie when u sleep. These gals are capable of anything
After being married to a vietnamese lady for the past few years, i will have these little observations to share and share:
(1) Vietnamese man are useless
Very much often, the vietnamese man are useless fellows. (i mean those in the village) They are brought up with the idea that either the elder or younger sister will be feeding the family and all they need to do is to stay home to wait for money. They gamble, drink and womanise with the income brought back home by their female siblings
(2) Useless parents
Actually vietnamese parents in the village are pretty much useless too. They don't work and depend solely on their daughters. They so call `retire' at age 45 or even younger. often they will fake illness. They love to have daughters as these daughters prove to be `Income' to them. Basically, they make use of their daughters to bring in income to the family.
(3) Filial Daughter
The vietnamese daughter is often pitiful. They are not given education , or just little education, when they are young. When they reach the age of 11 or 12, they are sent to saigon to work as domestic maids. Their parents will continue to pressure them to bring every cent they earn home to feed the rest. When these ladies reach 16 and above, they will be so pressured by the family's financial woes that they will choose to work in bars in saigon. To have sex with different man every night is nothing new. Even with this, most of their income goes back to their family in the village.
If any of these ladies are lucky enough, they will be able to meet a nice foreigner man that loves them. They will get married. Things doesn't change even when they get married. Their family continue to pressure them for money as they think that we foreigners are rich and can feed their whole family easily. Don't be surprised that your vietnamese wife ask you to give S$500 to their family monthly. This is not the end. They will come up with different reasons to ask for more money. If you cannot support them, the vietnamese wife will resort to divorce and go back to her old trade.
These are just some observations i had with the few years in Vietnam and coming in contact with the numerous singapore man who have vietnamese wife.
Actually I plan to have a vietnamese wife from the marriage agency! After hearing ur story, i have to think twice! scare sia!
Actually I plan to have a vietnamese wife from the marriage agency! After hearing ur story, i have to think twice! scare sia!
Bro,
Should i try to comfort you? i am not too sure. Not all vietnamese gals are working gals so you need not worry too much. But the part about giving to the family is quite certain, so you got to strike an understanding with your wife on this. For the normal non-working vietnamese gal, they are nice and make good wives.
Let me relate my experience. I used to know a working gal in HCMC. She is around 26 years old and nice looking. From the time i got to know her, i also got to know that she was divorced and have a 3 year old daughter. Not so long ago, i heard from her that she is going to get married to singapore. A match maker have match made her with a singapore man. She told the man that she is SINGLE and still a VIRGIN. She even has a doctor certification to prove that she is VIRGIN. For singaporeans that don't know vietnam well, you can get anything done with $$$$. How will the agency care? These agencies also go thru middle man in Vietnam. If the middle man lie to the agency, the singapore agency will not know too.
On the other hand, i also got to know a beautiful and nice province gal who married a singaporean. This province gal is those quiet and good gal type.
Should i try to comfort you? i am not too sure. Not all vietnamese gals are working gals so you need not worry too much. But the part about giving to the family is quite certain, so you got to strike an understanding with your wife on this. For the normal non-working vietnamese gal, they are nice and make good wives.
Let me relate my experience. I used to know a working gal in HCMC. She is around 26 years old and nice looking. From the time i got to know her, i also got to know that she was divorced and have a 3 year old daughter. Not so long ago, i heard from her that she is going to get married to singapore. A match maker have match made her with a singapore man. She told the man that she is SINGLE and still a VIRGIN. She even has a doctor certification to prove that she is VIRGIN. For singaporeans that don't know vietnam well, you can get anything done with $$$$. How will the agency care? These agencies also go thru middle man in Vietnam. If the middle man lie to the agency, the singapore agency will not know too.
On the other hand, i also got to know a beautiful and nice province gal who married a singaporean. This province gal is those quiet and good gal type.
So it depends on your luck
Bro,
thanks for your advice. How about those from marriage agency such as Mr. cupid international, they claimed that they are case certified company!
Bro,
thanks for your advice. How about those from marriage agency such as Mr. cupid international, they claimed that they are case certified company!
Bro,
All these certification are really quite useless. CaseTrust is just another certification system that companies pay to CASE to adopt. When u really face problem, CASE also cannot be TRUSTED...
All these certification are really quite useless. CaseTrust is just another certification system that companies pay to CASE to adopt. When u really face problem, CASE also cannot be TRUSTED...