Stephen Leather's Private Dancer

[Darkstorm]

Originally posted by siamcutey
U don't understand the theory. Trusting 50% means you do not get uptight or edgy whenever she is not around you and tells you something that you cannot verify cos you can't see it.

SC

I believe I understand your point...that 50% of their "explanations" is true.....but what I mean is, knowing that Thai girls are like that (applying your theory), isn't unwise to even contemplate entering into a genuine boy-girl relationship with a Thai girl in the 1st place? I don't think most guys like their girl to be honest only 50% of the time. It doesn't make sense to be in a relationship with a girl who has a tendency to be untrustworthy.

And yet, many still fall for this type of girl it seems.

Darkstorm

[delifrance]

because it's not a normal relationship, it's like a roller coaster ride, the thrill is there.

there's also another point: the mind says 'let go', the heart pines and says 'forgive and start again, no one is perfect, more so for this kind of girl...training a turtle to fly like an eagle?...maybe", the dick says "shiok man, try to have another go when you are ready", the spirit says: "hey man, i'm too lazy to hunt better quality stuff, let's just swim around in this toxic pond and enjoy, anyway I can quit anytime I want"

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Darkstorm

I believe I understand your point...that 50% of their "explanations" is true.....but what I mean is, knowing that Thai girls are like that (applying your theory), isn't unwise to even contemplate entering into a genuine boy-girl relationship with a Thai girl in the 1st place? I don't think most guys like their girl to be honest only 50% of the time. It doesn't make sense to be in a relationship with a girl who has a tendency to be untrustworthy.

And yet, many still fall for this type of girl it seems.

Darkstorm

To me, I see an SG girl can trust 85% while a Thai girl can trust 50%. The difference in culture, learning curve from young is the main reason. Just like why do WLs feel that being in the prostitution biz can be a career for them while to SG girls, they have a whole different view if they hear the word prostitution.

Being in one widens your own eyes and knowledge, and this is something which your school don't teach you. Though not advisable for everyone to take up the course too.

SC

[thaigers]

Originally Posted by delifrance

because it's not a normal relationship, it's like a roller coaster ride, the thrill is there.

there's also another point: the mind says 'let go', the heart pines and says 'forgive and start again, no one is perfect, more so for this kind of girl...training a turtle to fly like an eagle?...maybe", the dick says "shiok man, try to have another go when you are ready", the spirit says: "hey man, i'm too lazy to hunt better quality stuff, let's just swim around in this toxic pond and enjoy, anyway I can quit anytime I want"

that's right delifrance. this is exactly how i feel recently when i unkowingly got involved with a WL.......

[tirak69]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

U don't understand the theory. Trusting 50% means you do not get uptight or edgy whenever she is not around you and tells you something that you cannot verify cos you can't see it.

SC

as i said before. as long as it is a long distanance relationship and wif a TG, my advice is to accept what they tell u and dun dig into it. everyone will be happier this way.

as much as u may/may not trust her, its also the same for her. dats why sometimes they call late at night or afternoons of weekends. they will also test u if they really like u... at the end of the day it cuts both ways.

[Mr.romance]

Just spoke to my TG today. She told me she is currently working
at a new restaurant cum pub at Radchada. Any bros heard of any new
restaurant cum pub that just opened there few days back?. She is smart enough to sense my distrust in her...So she questioned me:" You dont trust me ah?".
Although deep inside my heart I only trust her 48.9%..I still answered her
promptly:"OF Coz I Do..."Later I add on " Pom Rak kun mak mak"
I told her I heard many TGs in Thailand easily slept with men for $..She replied:"It depends on the gal itself"..Haha I just laughed it off..I will see wat game she gonna play when I see her in my upcoming trip to BK...

Cheers

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Mr.romance

Just spoke to my TG today. She told me she is currently working
at a new restaurant cum pub at Radchada. Any bros heard of any new
restaurant cum pub that just opened there few days back?. She is smart enough to sense my distrust in her...So she questioned me:" You dont trust me ah?".
Although deep inside my heart I only trust her 48.9%..I still answered her
promptly:"OF Coz I Do..."Later I add on " Pom Rak kun mak mak"
I told her I heard many TGs in Thailand easily slept with men for $..She replied:"It depends on the gal itself"..Haha I just laughed it off..I will see wat game she gonna play when I see her in my upcoming trip to BK...

Cheers

Don't tell me its the place that once infamously plays the Hula Hoop, with the girls on the bartop following by the dj mix Puad Jai?

SC

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Mr.romance

Just spoke to my TG today. She told me she is currently working
at a new restaurant cum pub at Radchada. Any bros heard of any new
restaurant cum pub that just opened there few days back?. She is smart enough to sense my distrust in her...So she questioned me:" You dont trust me ah?".
Although deep inside my heart I only trust her 48.9%..I still answered her
promptly:"OF Coz I Do..."Later I add on " Pom Rak kun mak mak"
I told her I heard many TGs in Thailand easily slept with men for $..She replied:"It depends on the gal itself"..Haha I just laughed it off..I will see wat game she gonna play when I see her in my upcoming trip to BK...

Cheers

By the way, the amount you trust her is the same as the amount she trusts you.

hahaha
SC

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by yomun

Think you too long never go liao. They don't play those songs anymore.

Nan - Hula Hoop (DJ. Tee Red Beat Mix)

Track 15
http://www.thailandcd.com/detail.asp?txt_id=aud0352

By the way. Fuck the Taiwan group R&B for covering this song. Their version sucks.

Eh, read carefully. "once infamously"

hahaha
SC

[Mr.romance]

Originally Posted by tirak69

as much as u may/may not trust her, its also the same for her. dats why sometimes they call late at night or afternoons of weekends. they will also test u if they really like u... at the end of the day it cuts both ways.

Wat about those TG Who usually don call u..While we do most of the calling?

[thaigers]

Originally Posted by Mr.romance

Wat about those TG Who usually don call u..While we do most of the calling?

Good question. What about those who call you all the time when they are here and when they go back, they dont call or sms??

Well, actually to sms or call from thailand to other countries is quite expensive, I think, maybe that is why they dont do it, or is it??

anyone know about the Siam zone Mobile zone thai sms for free? i use that to send thai sms to her, wonder if she got it????

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by thaigers

Good question. What about those who call you all the time when they are here and when they go back, they dont call or sms??

Well, actually to sms or call from thailand to other countries is quite expensive, I think, maybe that is why they dont do it, or is it??

anyone know about the Siam zone Mobile zone thai sms for free? i use that to send thai sms to her, wonder if she got it????

Then at least should send you a letter right?

As for expensive or not, that is not the issue. Because if the girl love you, she will do a lot of things for you. If she don't give a flying fuck, do 1 thing for you also buay kei yan.

You should heard of those stories where the GL girl before go back always call the guy, when go back home, who is who also forget liao.

SC

[RJ2004]

Originally Posted by thaigers

Good question. What about those who call you all the time when they are here and when they go back, they dont call or sms??

Well, actually to sms or call from thailand to other countries is quite expensive, I think, maybe that is why they dont do it, or is it??

anyone know about the Siam zone Mobile zone thai sms for free? i use that to send thai sms to her, wonder if she got it????

down here, call all the regulars to keep their businesses. go back, no need those business liao so stop calling lor. its all about business

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by RJ2004

down here, call all the regulars to keep their businesses. go back, no need those business liao so stop calling lor. its all about business

Wah, you so straight forward. Frankly, its sometimes better to know the truth (which hurts) than to wallow in fantasy.

SC

[thaigers]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Then at least should send you a letter right?

As for expensive or not, that is not the issue. Because if the girl love you, she will do a lot of things for you. If she don't give a flying fuck, do 1 thing for you also buay kei yan.

You should heard of those stories where the GL girl before go back always call the guy, when go back home, who is who also forget liao.

SC

you two got a point there, and i have thought about those points as well. yes, she may like me, but she also know that because of the circumstances, she would rather let it go. Same for me.

Calling their customers and regular is part of their CRM when they are here. That is why i didnt bother picking up her calls when she called.

What i dont understand is, why does she wanna keep up the CRM when she is going to leave? I overnite her 2 days before she called to tell me she is quitting. I do not think she plan to quit, its like all of a sudden, she just tell me she wanna quit. So after hearing that, I dont even get a chance to bonk her again because they cant work when they say they wanna quit.

After she announced she quit, she still call and sms me and asked me out and asked me to go to the airport. Surely I will not be her customer here anymore after she says she quit. So why carry on all these CRM?? She has also displayed concern for me, asked me dont go geylang waste money, ask me to save the money and visit her in BKK for a holiday. She asked if will I go and visit her. I told her sure. She did not seem to believe me and asked , SURE???

KNN, if i think that she really want me to go, of course I will go lah. But i feel that she was asking for the sake of asking only.....

So why all the CRM before she left?? This is the only thing that i am confused about I wanna know the truth (whether she really like me), but I aint getting any..which hurts even more........