Do you know what your girlfriend is doing behind your back? - Page 4

mansgp · #46 06-08-2007, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by mansgp

After some search in Yahoo!, I found that most of these spy software are rather expensive. Some cost on the side-side of 3-digits and some even over 1k.

Sorry. I meant high-side.

no_faith · #47 06-08-2007, 01:43 PM

imho, if need to resort such method, you will be always suspicious.
everyting little movements she makes, your imgination starts to run wild.

maybe you love her too much and you are afraid of losing her.

if she is fated to leave, she will leave eventually.

my 0.02.

lustlusty · #48 06-08-2007, 03:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by no_faith

imho, if need to resort such method, you will be always suspicious.
everyting little movements she makes, your imgination starts to run wild.

maybe you love her too much and you are afraid of losing her.

if she is fated to leave, she will leave eventually.

my 0.02.

Quite true. However, like in my case, I won't classify myself as paranoid. After one betrayed relationship, I don't get suspicious but rather I get more sensitive (a more neutral word

).

The SMS forwarding to me is like a tool that enables myself to broaden my horizon. For example, I tried it on another gal I got to know (by buying her a N73 of course), and the results have been great. There has been no cheating or talking ill behind my back and I can really relax with her and tell her my inner thoughts with no risks of her using them against me. One other piece of tidbit is that I can use it as a tool to help in the relationship.

For example, if she is moody and don't feel like talking, I got the reason from her SMS to her sister that her parents are quarreling at home and she feels bad and helpless. She even confides to her sis that she is afraid that if she gets married later, she will end up fighting and have history repeats itself.
Knowing all these info, I make it up to her by surprising her to a great dinner (a total surprise for her) with a prelude of flowers and later an evening walk along the beach and just tell her that no matter what happens, I will be with her, whether she is moody or happy. She was so touched that she opened up with her thoughts on her parents' fights (although I know it well before).

no_faith · #49 06-08-2007, 04:04 PM

on one side, it seems gd. you have the first hand info and you will be on top on all other guys who trying to woo her.

on the other side, u need technology to get to know her instead of using the feelings or telepathy between u and her to feel her.
if no such tech, u might not even bother to know her. u dun wan the troublesome to talk to her and accompany her,
u only wan short cut to her needs.
imho, it wun really work in long term.

if one day she knows abt the phone. game over.
i migh be wrong cuz i really dunno head and tail in your scenario.
i juz based on wat u have posted

my 0.02.

mansgp · #50 06-08-2007, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by no_faith

if she is fated to leave, she will leave eventually.

my 0.02.

I agree with you bro. But why wait till it happen when there is a way to find out earlier?

Maybe due to my suspicious nature and experiences, I had read SMS and emails of my ex-gfs and even ex-wife and caught some of them red handed. It has taught me not to trust gals no matter how much they profess their undying love for me. Heck, I can't even trust myself.

no_faith · #51 06-08-2007, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by mansgp

I agree with you bro. But why wait till it happen when there is a way to find out earlier?

find out? ok, you have find out everything, you have tried all ways to avoid or prevent.

but when fate end, it will end.
it only hurts more if u prolong it.

my 0.02.

sbm4900 · #52 06-08-2007, 04:12 PM

please advise the software and where to purchase. thank you very much.

Quote:

Originally Posted by lustlusty

Quite true. However, like in my case, I won't classify myself as paranoid. After one betrayed relationship, I don't get suspicious but rather I get more sensitive (a more neutral word

).

The SMS forwarding to me is like a tool that enables myself to broaden my horizon. For example, I tried it on another gal I got to know (by buying her a N73 of course), and the results have been great. There has been no cheating or talking ill behind my back and I can really relax with her and tell her my inner thoughts with no risks of her using them against me. One other piece of tidbit is that I can use it as a tool to help in the relationship.

For example, if she is moody and don't feel like talking, I got the reason from her SMS to her sister that her parents are quarreling at home and she feels bad and helpless. She even confides to her sis that she is afraid that if she gets married later, she will end up fighting and have history repeats itself.
Knowing all these info, I make it up to her by surprising her to a great dinner (a total surprise for her) with a prelude of flowers and later an evening walk along the beach and just tell her that no matter what happens, I will be with her, whether she is moody or happy. She was so touched that she opened up with her thoughts on her parents' fights (although I know it well before).

giggz83 · #53 07-08-2007, 01:31 AM

well .. it seems like man act god kinda device.

WillamSexsphere · #54 07-08-2007, 02:00 AM

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Originally Posted by lustlusty

The SMS forwarding to me is like a tool that enables myself to broaden my horizon. One other piece of tidbit is that I can use it as a tool to help in the relationship.

For example, if she is moody and don't feel like talking, I got the reason from her SMS to her sister that her parents are quarreling at home and she feels bad and helpless. She even confides to her sis that she is afraid that if she gets married later, she will end up fighting and have history repeats itself.
Knowing all these info, I make it up to her by surprising her to a great dinner (a total surprise for her) with a prelude of flowers and later an evening walk along the beach and just tell her that no matter what happens, I will be with her, whether she is moody or happy. She was so touched that she opened up with her thoughts on her parents' fights (although I know it well before).

Whaddya know?! 21st century love!...hehe....while telepathy is only limited to the specially endowed, now any tom, dick and harry can telepathically understand women better! Since the technology is avaliable, and probably soon for other types of mobile phones, heck, use it.

-Only thing is, would this be considered an invasion of privacy, more so done without her knowledge?

-Just like would we be happy if our gfs or wives steals our passwords to access our computer terminals and emails even if we have nothing to hide? Is this healthy in a relationship?

-Is 'knowing her better thru spying on her supposedly privacy' a good justification for obtaining such software?

-Isnt it better to communicate openly face to face where matters of the heart are concern?

-I know bros will obtain this software whatever the costs or reasons, irregardless good or bad, the temptation is too great, but consider too that women are not stupid, they too will know of such tech in time if not now, and what happens if they set you up with false smses, pretending not to know of such tech and you spying on her, thus will you be getting the right info to make an intelligent decision?

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kaff · #55 07-08-2007, 03:02 AM

u got pm

curious75 · #56 07-08-2007, 03:58 AM

who knows maybe some bros's wife also register in sbf and they pm the TS for the software and spy each other

babyface71 · #57 07-08-2007, 07:42 AM

Bro lustlusty

Care 2 share the software ?? We have same thinking...I would rather use
this software 2 find out earlier den 2 know it later on

Recently...i also suspect my girl r hiding something from...
Pls pm me the software...can??

Many many tks

lamparsoh · #58 07-08-2007, 06:23 PM

[QUOTE=babyface71;2193974]Bro lustlusty

Hi bro im interested inthe software can pls email me the software to [email protected]. Thank

SexPoweR · #59 08-08-2007, 01:25 AM

www.flexispy.com

jesterem · #60 08-08-2007, 03:10 PM

Dis is my true story of my ex, maybe a lesson learnt...few weeks b4 our breakup.......

things hv not been smooth for a couple of weeks, we always argued and quarrelled almost every nite, naturally of cos the sex also stops. few days later noticed some signs......signals telling me she was seeing someone.

one nite she said she wanted to go out wif frenz...so I say ok..after her shower i pretended to go to the kitchen for a drink and closed the bedroom door but to shut it...wif a small gap. I knew she will be putting on her clothes.

after some good timing went near the bedroom door and peeped thru the small gap. saw her put on her black lacy panties and bra dat i bought 4 her. her routine is to perfume herself b4 putting on her clothes. but dis time as i peeped at her i noticed she sprayed perfume in between her inner thighs in addition to in between her cleavage...dis really shocked me as after 3 yrs withe her dis is not her routine.

TING!!! warning number 1......of cos I pretend lah....let dis past by with benefit of doubt given to her.

dat nite she came back, tot i was sleeping...went thru her usual routine to prepare for bed. ler her sleep soundly first..den in the middle of the nite went to bathroom took out her panties and sure enuf...as I expected my gal had some of her cunt juice on the crotch of her panties. dis I can tell as I know how she she reacts when she is in "the mood"..and boy dat nite was she on de mood but not wth me...TING !!! warning number 2.

test number 3 was of coz getting to fuck her, our normal saturday morning routine..dis time really can tell....her cunt was dry even for my dicky...although I cna see she is trying hard to be interested... the kiss lack passion, the body a bit stiff...damn even her nipples did not get erected as b4....

so dis is how I know...3 days later confronted her straight in her face and sasked her to f**k off from my house.

end of strory...