Well, it’s not because they really want a bad person. It’s because they want THE MAN. They want a MASCULINE man.
And it’s harder for women to find “nice” guys who are masculine than it is to find bad boys, who are almost always masculine.
A specific example of masculinity common in bad boys is their total dominance, particularly in the arena of sex. Some women go for bad guys because these women feel guilty about their sexual desires. By being with an aggressive “bad boy” who takes full control of the reigns, women feel like they are shirking all the guilt and all the responsibility to him. In this way, women can fully enjoy sex and not feel guilty. Moreover, almost all women, even those without guilt complexes, desire dominant men.
WOMEN AREN’T “NICE”
It is critical to realize that women are human beings and not made from sugar and spice. They are just as competitive, manipulative, conniving, game playing, merciless, and ruthless, in their quest to get the man of their choice. Once they “get” their man, they will try to control him.
You must not accept ANY crap from any woman, EVER.
As soon as she acts up, you must show how calm you are as you deliver
the punishment, the figurative SPANK.
This is the punishment: Dump her immediately, and tell her not to call you until she shapes up. Or, tell her clearly you will not tolerate that, and then dump her if she does it again, with the same message.
If you show her she hurt you, she’ll keep it in her arsenal. And she will use it again.
Think about it like this: 99.99 percent of the time, if somebody is being a prick, they know it.
Women know if they are doing something wrong to you.
And if they really don’t know, it’s probably something trivial and not
worth you mentioning to her anyway!
So if you DO indicate something hurt you, she will just know how to activate your “hurt button” in the future.
So here’s my recommendation:
Keep your cool at all times.
Don’t let her know that ANYTHING bothers you.
Always, calmly tell her she misbehaved by doing the specific thing she did. Tell her you won’t tolerate it.
But don’t let her feel it actually bothered you.
NEVER argue with her about it. It will NOT HELP, only make things worse. I guarantee it.
Now of course, if you have been with a woman who has been great to you for years, and once in a while she acts up a bit, well that’s perfectly normal- you probably aren’t perfect either. You’ve both earned a bit of slack.
There is a BUT, though.
Bro WB
Thank you for the nice power post above.
Some headlines
WOMEN LIKE BAD BOYS
The above is always true and the women love men who can bang them very hard and merciless. Women love multiple PVOs.
Women want a man who will be the “hunter”
The above again always true. The hunter will always hunt bad gals who are bad only in bed.
WOMEN AREN’T “NICE”
When are women nice. Often women will demand this and that. Women playplenty of mind games.
You must not accept ANY crap from any woman
This also I fully agreed and just walk away.
NEVER argue with her
Waste time to argue with woman.
Bro, I really learned many things from the post above and hope you can share more.
So many RS fall apart because very few men know how to behave like MEN, in ST and LT relationship, not even famous kings and emperors. So very sad.
Why? Because attraction is counterintuitive. What most men think should work actually has the exact opposite effect.
IMHO, the single most vital trait that will SPARK n SUSTAIN a girl's desire for a MAN is his degree of emotional and self mastery. Nothing even comes close. It will usually take time for a girl to fully appraciate a MAN's self mastery.
Let me continue the "bad boy" story, written by a guru.
But heed this warning:
Women will sense a guy that they can get to kiss their ass, and will take FULL ADVANTAGE OF HIM till he is barely even a rug to walk over.
And women will deny this till the end of time, even coming up with brilliant “excuses” for their bad behavior.
Now that you know this, it’s time to stop taking any crap from any woman. You are responsible from now on if you put up with anything that doesn’t feel right.
Think about that the next time you’re about to be “Mr. Nice Guy” with any woman. Women understand, relate to, and demand mental toughness more than you realize.
(Notice I used the word mental toughness. Don’t EVER get PHYSICALLY VIOLENT or even upset with any woman, I’ll explain later why this is so important to your success, and goes way beyond just the law.)
Don’t be Mr. Nice Guy. And don’t be Mr. Angry. Neither one is cool.
So you know now not to be a nice guy. How exactly should you be?
Pound this short answer into your head: Be “THE MAN”. In the macho, cliché sense.
Oh, I really hope that doesn’t hurt you or insult you.
It shouldn’t, because if you haven’t been THE MAN, it’s not your fault. For a long time, I didn’t think like THE MAN. It ain’t easy in our inane, politically correct culture.
Think about Al Pacino in Scarface. (A great movie example.) He is not supposed to be the best looking guy in the movie, but he gets the hottest woman, Michelle Pfeiffer’s character.
That’s because Scarface is THE MAN.
Ironically, a powerful proof that men and women are different in this regard (as well as others) comes from the behavior of homosexual men and women. Lesbians tend to be far less discerning about things like age and appearance in their partners. They also tend to have very few partners.
On the other hand, homosexual men tend to be EXTREMELY concerned about looks, and weigh this consideration heavily in choosing their partners. Also, gay men tend to have many sexual partners.
Your looks are a very small factor in the formula for attracting women.
Bro, this is a SUPERB thread!!
Now I understood why I failed as a nice man. SO many powerful men also failed in the past. Makes me feel bit better.
So never kiss woman arse. Can lick ass hole but dun kiss.
I looked at Scarface and he was a myth. Thought there was a movie too. He has a scar in the face.
A bro sent me the following PM n he has agreed to let me post his question here.
"Hi bro, saw some of the posts and I must say you are super experienced hence I need to ask some of your advice. Have been frequently visited club de emperor ktv ( former mirage) due to work ( entertainment). Have trying to enjoy myself by not sticking to the same girl all the time. However sometimes when you get those girl without chemistry, your session tends to be lousy.
To cut long story short, I have been sticking with same gal recently. However she always claim that she doesn't go out with customers. Recently saw a customer bought her a $7k Chanel bag. She claimed the customer wanted something in return and she wanted to return the bag but in the end the customer relented and just gibe her the bag without any returns.
She always says she doesn't go out . I only manage to get her out for dinner one time . And she claimed she doesn't have boyfriend. She said she is fond of me but I have never give her anything other than her deserved tips. She always tell she had a gambling mum back home but I have ever let her know I am going to help.
So I know that you are going to say all that she said is bs. Is there a way to test her out? Recently she did a damn smart thing. On V day instead of asking me to get her a present she bought a perfume for me. Please tell me there are similar tricks you have encountered so that I can switch off and change target soon
Thanks for reading and sorry to bother u
Regards, bro X"
I hv given him my brief answer. But many experienced bros here could analyse his situation more thoroughly.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB,
Let me try to see if my reply below match what you did replied him!
IMO - this gal already had bf or been BY by a rich guy. To me, I will not waste time with her and should had change target much earlier.
I learned from your thread that there is no point to be nice and must handle rejection. Every rejection will make the guy smarter.
Always try to think guy is the PRIZE and is her lost.
Previously, I hv mentioned the importance of giving women frequent PVOs or copulatory orgasms for them to become emotionally n sexually addicted to a man. All other forms of orgasms are inadequate.
All my LT mistresses n GFs hv intimated that PVOs r far more pleasurable, deeper, more holistic n more sustained than other types of orgasms. They feel satiated, connected, complete, blissful...
Many gurus still believe that it's much easier for women to hv clitoral orgasms n G-spot orgasms, even multiple ones, than to hv PVOs or copulatory orgasms. This is not necessarily true, IMHO.
I like to report that I hv encountered several girls who feel little w/ clitoral stimulation w/ my hand and/or mouth/tongue. No clitoral orgasms. In fact, absolutely nothing...zero responses.
But, within 60 secs after I insert my erect didi into their pussies, they start moaning n even screaming...some may respond almost immediately.
These girls may hv different wiring in their pussies and/or in their brains.
The right positions n angles may be crucial here. Your ability to hv penetrative vaginal intercourse for at least 10 minutes may also be important...
Have bros here encounter similar situations? Pls share ur experiences w/ us.
Cheers!
Bro WB
BRO WB- thanks for your marvelous thread.
I think when a gal had orgasms be it clitoral or PVO, gal will definitely enjoy very much. Some gals from 3rd world who are never exposed to foreigners will never encountered oral clitoral orgasm because their own partner may not be keen to do oral sex.
I encountered friends who told me that their partners prefer oral sex such as cunnilingus more than penetrative sex. SOme guy could hardly last 5 to 10 minutes for penetration.
Good afternoon,
A big thank you for all who have posted here.
I've forgotten many of my own posts in which I quoted various gurus. Reading their articles over and over agian are extremely helpful. It takes a long time to change the subconscious beliefs. There is no short cut.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Quote:
Originally Posted by EdvardTagseth
Bro WB
I agreed with the article you posted above. Drinking impaired our decisions and also our sexual prowess.
I also agreed with you that there is nothing manly about drinking excessively. Often my friends who had been drinking daily discussed saying they had problem reaching orgasms.
I was surprised this topic was discussed in your thread besides many other interesting topics.
Hope you can continue to guide us here.
Hope you have a great day too.
Bro, drinking is an addiction.
Quote:
Originally Posted by smelly
Bro WB
What a fantastic post above. Fully agreed with your guru.
"Women love real men".
"WOMEN ONLY LOVE MEN WHO DON’T LISTEN TO THEM!"
All these are wonderful quotes. True that women are funny creatures that behave the irrational way.
I hope to use your methodology in this thread to hook more women. Wish me good luck.
Please share more smelly habits of women with us.
Wish you have a great day.
Cheers!!
Bro, pls give us your FR.
Quote:
Originally Posted by PaulPogba
Bro WB
I found the above post to be the best in this thread.
Moral of story, be a bad guy and never be weak.
Also make sure have sex with many women
Let woman feel that you are superior and depend on you.
Total control of the woman world.
These are powerful messages I learned form above.
Please keep the post coming and hope to contribute.
Have a great day my friend.
Cheers!
Bro,
It's a good article.
But I need to set the record straight. I want to be as factual as possible.
Modern men have been around not much more than 300,000 years, not millions as reported by the author.
"But the best assurance a man could get that the child was his own, was to have sex with many women, and/or to simply make himself so desirable that a woman simply would not likely feel attraction to anyone else. He had to make himself a good catch, which meant becoming more courageous, a better hunter, defender, etc. In other words, for sexual value, a man relied on his “masculine” characteristics and LEARNED ABILITIES. These abilities and character traits are what women needed from men."
"Giving a woman “everything” once seemed like a logical way to make her like you, right? I’m glad that now you know it’s a sure-fire way to make sure she feels NOTHING for you but revulsion."
Life is about survival and reproduction, for both men and women. A man is hard wired to behave differently from a woman. It's not a matter of right or wrong.
Quote:
Originally Posted by iagree
Bro WB, I fully agreed with your reply to any bro who dun have plenty of money. In our society money is always not enough. So does that mean we stopped playing if we dun have enough money.
I have friends who dun have loads of money but they still can have plenty of fun . We may not be heading to expensive KTV or night club but we still can hook gals in other places.
I love the way you advise the brother above and very compassionate.
I will continue to read and will try to improve on my own skills.
Hope you continue to guide us.
Have a great week ahead.
From iagree
Bro, there are many ways to skin a cat. Sometimes, money is a hindrance in owning a woman's heart.
Quote:
Originally Posted by EdvardTagseth
Bro, waiting for your cheong report.
Bro, I didn't discover any new gals of my type.
Quote:
Originally Posted by irma
Bro WB
Very wise words from your previous post.
The person who cares least controls the RS. If a man doesn't hv dominant power in a RS, the girl will find him repulsive n leave him or cheat on him. Isn't life cruel? Don't blame the girl. She is not a bad girl, she is merely hard wired by evolution to behave this way.
Totally agree. I find it extremely difficult to even show proper respect to men who gives in to the lady all the time. It is different being a gentleman and being dominant. One can be both.
This is what charms the lady.
Hope you have a great day.
Bless you!
Bro,
How could a man ever earn the respect and love of a woman if he treats her like the grand prize?
What will happen to a man who has given everything to a woman?
He will end up like king Fucai!!
Quote:
Originally Posted by FoodLover
Bro WB
Thank you for the nice power post above.
Some headlines
WOMEN LIKE BAD BOYS
The above is always true and the women love men who can bang them very hard and merciless. Women love multiple PVOs.
Women want a man who will be the “hunter”
The above again always true. The hunter will always hunt bad gals who are bad only in bed.
WOMEN AREN’T “NICE”
When are women nice. Often women will demand this and that. Women playplenty of mind games.
You must not accept ANY crap from any woman
This also I fully agreed and just walk away.
NEVER argue with her
Waste time to argue with woman.
Bro, I really learned many things from the post above and hope you can share more.
Hope you have a nice weekend soon.
Cheers!
Bro, become a badass gentleman.
Quote:
Originally Posted by postmessage
Bro, this is a SUPERB thread!!
Now I understood why I failed as a nice man. SO many powerful men also failed in the past. Makes me feel bit better.
So never kiss woman arse. Can lick ass hole but dun kiss.
I looked at Scarface and he was a myth. Thought there was a movie too. He has a scar in the face.
Also interesting fact about lesbian and homo.
Hope to learn many more skills from you sir.
Please have a great day.
Bro,
A man must feel n behave like the prize.
Quote:
Originally Posted by huahee
Bro WB,
Let me try to see if my reply below match what you did replied him!
IMO - this gal already had bf or been BY by a rich guy. To me, I will not waste time with her and should had change target much earlier.
I learned from your thread that there is no point to be nice and must handle rejection. Every rejection will make the guy smarter.
Always try to think guy is the PRIZE and is her lost.
Hope my answer above match your advice to him.
I will continue to read and try to be better.
Please have a great Sunday.
Bro,
You're very good.
Quote:
Originally Posted by ZeNitHSwiSS
BRO WB- thanks for your marvelous thread.
I think when a gal had orgasms be it clitoral or PVO, gal will definitely enjoy very much. Some gals from 3rd world who are never exposed to foreigners will never encountered oral clitoral orgasm because their own partner may not be keen to do oral sex.
I encountered friends who told me that their partners prefer oral sex such as cunnilingus more than penetrative sex. SOme guy could hardly last 5 to 10 minutes for penetration.
Anyway many will not agree with my comment above.
I am still learning daily and hope to be better.
Wish you have a great weekend.
Cheers!
Bro,
Every woman is different. Only about 30% of women have experienced PVOs regularly. But even for those women who hv not, they still greatly enjoy penetrative sex w/ a real man. Just need to prolong the act.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Good afternoon,
A big thank you for all who have posted here.
I've forgotten many of my own posts in which I quoted various gurus. Reading their articles over and over agian are extremely helpful. It takes a long time to change the subconscious beliefs. There is no short cut.
Cheers!
Bro WB
A man must feel n behave like the prize.
Bro WB
Bro WB, thank you for your reply. No to worry, many brothers here will refresh your memory.
OK, I have a confession. I'm NOT a sex expert.
As a matter of fact, I don't believe you need overcomplicated techniques to rock a woman’s world in bed.
Stick with these fundamentals and you'll do
great!
1. Indulge in foreplay. On average, intercourse should last 7 to 13 minutes, but foreplay should be three times longer. When you indulge in foreplay,
she'll reach orgasm much more easily and look forward to having sex with you because she knows that you take your time to “get her ready”.
2. Exercise regularly. The best sex tip I can give you is to exercise regularly. You'll be stronger, last longer, and have more energy in bed. You'll make love with more passion and rock her world more than 95 percent of men out there do because they just can't get their asses to the gym.
3. Be adventurous and try new things. It's very unlikely that she'll lead you to new positions so take charge by testing new things. Don't put pressure on yourself. Just be playful and experiment. If it doesn't feel right, change again.
4. Don't be in your head. It's not a time to think who's going to win the Euro. Trust me—she'll FEEL it
if you're thinking about something else. To stay present, breathe deeply, pay attention to her skin, smell her, kiss her body, look at her, tell her that she's yours.
A lot of women stay in relationships with guys who treat them badly just because the sex is great. I'm not suggesting that you do the same, but never
underestimate the power of pleasing a woman in the bedroom.
Have an amazing day!
Guru RKY
Bro WB
The guru RKY is spot on for this post above.
Many men including me failed badly when we started having sex. Should have read your thread before I mature then will not make so many mistakes.
Anyway hope not too late to improve and just like we kept learning daily.
Often men rushed into the sex without much foreplay and neglected the women feelings. Women can be left frustrated when they left high and dry without cuming.
I remember once a gal said she hasn't cum yet and ask me not to shoot yet. However I couldn't help it and cum quickly because too long no sex. She was so upset with me and don't talk to me for 2 days.
Hope to contribute to your amazing thread here and hope you continue to post more.
Bro,
Every woman is different. Only about 30% of women have experienced PVOs regularly. But even for those women who hv not, they still greatly enjoy penetrative sex w/ a real man. Just need to prolong the act.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro, thanks for the speedy reply.
True that women are different. Their level of enjoy too differs. Sometimes too long the woman may not enjoy too. Usually about 10 to 20 mins ideal.
Originally Posted by warbird;12878887
There is a fascinating topic: KC or infatuation or falling in love w/ a girl, especially a WL. And the consequences of break up of that "love" RS.
Here I'll use KC as a colorful n generalized term for "falling in love" with any girl/woman because the biological and emotional processes are identical. And I believe that all man-woman RS is a form of business transaction. KC has at least 3 components: 1) lust, 2) romantic passion or infatuation and 3) attachment (commitment). These components can be felt for the same person at the same time, or they can be experienced completely independently from one another for different people. Romantic passion is short-lived (months to a yr?). Lust may last longer, but after many yrs, only emotional attachment is left.
What is surprising is that both men and women often get KC-ed by someone they consciously don't find attractive. Something must hv happened to their subconscious mind to trigger sexual attraction. I shall confine this discussion to men getting KC-ed by women.
There r so many instances, in the media, from reading SBF n from stories told by friends n relatives, in which a man has become so deeply KC-ed by a girl that he goes berserk when he is separated from her for whatever reason. He is so heartbroken that he can't sleep, can't work, can't stop thinking abt her. If she is alive, he will stalk her, even kill her n then commit suicide!
From a medical standpoint, such a love sick man suffers from an acute anxiety/hyper-arousal state. There is a huge surge in stress hormones (cortisols, adrenaline, etc.) n concomitant suppression of dopamine, oxytocin n serotonin...there may be elevated BP n heart rate, perspiration, sweating palms, tremors, physical pain, chest heaviness, shortness of breath, fatigue, anxiety, deep sense of loss, sadness, despondence, doom n groom. He is very tired but yet alert n can't relax. His immune system is shot and he may develop stress cardiomyopathy n could succumb to cardiac arrest and/or heart failure. Truly a case of broken heart!
These symptoms and signs of RS break up are stunningly similar to those of cocaine withdrawal. This has been confirmed by fMRI findings. [url
I met a new bro last month. He is in his early 30s, tall n handsome, from a well to do family. He told me that he had two 4-yr RS n each breakup took one full yr or more to recover, even though the breakup was mutual in both cases.
Here is a textbook case of a NICE GUY who gets KC-ed. A kaki, also in his 30s, met a KTV gal, quickly decided that she was the SPECIAL ONE, and after spending lots of money, upped her only once. Poor service n sex was quite bad. The gal returned to China after expiration of her tourist visa. He remitted money to her on several occasions. He texted and/or called her many times every day. She got annoyed n started to distance herself and he became needy n desperate. She finally asked him to stop contacting her. He became depressed, couldn't sleep or focus on his work. I had told him not to hv any ctc w/ her for 30 days, minimum. He keeps breaking this cardinal rule.
In another case, a personal friend n a rich n good looking bachelor, who couldn't sleep or work for months after his KTV GF broke up w/ him. He stalked her, offered to buy her a house in China plus big cash upfront. He flew to her hometown to propose to her...she avoided him as if he were a leper! That was 4 yrs ago...
My Fujian lao po WX and her ex BF, a rich young man in his early 30s had mutually agreed break up in Dec 2010, but he quickly regretted his decision...he became frantic n offered to buy her a house plus give her lots of cash. WX said NO n he proposed to her! She completely rejected him. In Feb 2011, she contacted me n in March she asked me to BY her.
Your FRs, comments n criticisms will be appreciated.
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB, wanted to comment above post back in 2015.
"Relationship Breakup Similar to Addiction Withdrawal"
Few of my friends had suffered some form of the above. After reading your post, I sort of understood why such addiction happened now.
To me, I am a hard person who willing to let go once there is a break-out. I may get upset for maybe a few hours or at most one day. The next thing I will go hug a few gals then I forgot about it.
I often guided my friends about r/s break out but many times my friends cannot overcome the break-out because they had been kc badly. So I often told friends to do some spying and will understand the whole truth.
There was a case that midnight checking and true enough his so called gf had another man sleeping together without my friend knowledge.
Anyway plenty of sob stories or fun filled ex-break up stories to share but just all the same old type of nonsense.
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