Did I kena the KC Trap?

[Sylvan]

Originally Posted by sweetspot

good advice.
I should listen.

U r e 1 who will listen... but tink still got countless of them nv listen...

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by Sylvan

Anyway I also tel myself nt to get serious over her... wat she can do wif me she also can do wif other pple... in order to tempt customers to get regular business... now my ML no longer working liao she nv even msg me lo... Hohoho!

Same bro. My ML went back China 2 weeks ago, for good. But she said not sure she will be coming back in future; depends since hers is earlier cancellation of work permit.

She said she is ok to stay in contact but since her wechat is a work one, she said she might only login when she is free and since she has her own family and a kid back home.

After she went back, she did reply me abit. Few days once. 1 sentence. Now stopped liao. She didn’t even message me already.

[ChiongsterofHC]

its a SOP thing that the girls will try to KC us one... just take it with a pinch of salt when they say love your or miss you

[jay.lay]

Originally Posted by Sylvan

U r e 1 who will listen... but tink still got countless of them nv listen...

up u bro

[jay.lay]

Originally Posted by egresnow

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Upgrading this bro's pointers, the +(value) at the back is an indicator if they are into you, take it with a pinch of salt:
1: she would text you when she’s free: That's just to get you as a regular. But fast reply with SHORT answer OR slow reply with LONG answer are +1.
2: when you find her for services, she wouldn’t mind how much tips you pay: My first ML did stuff with me for free and introduced me (and treated me to nice places to eat). if anyone does this +1
3: Going out + holding hands is +0.5
4: Listen to your problems? Anyone will do that to provide good customer service lol. EVEN BROS HERE DO THAT LOLOLOLOLOL +0
5: rejecting your gifts or ask you not to buy gifts might be because they dont trust your taste LOLOLOL. But i'll giv ethe benefit of a doubt +0.5

Added more pointers:
6: ask you to sleep over without paying +1
7: posting a photo of you and her on her social media, or you and her chat on their social media +999
8: sending photos of herself +0.5 might be mass send.. because i do that too LOLOL
9: video calling you, this usually ends with me sleeping with them(on further dates, with normal china/vietnamese girls, guess this applies to ML too?) +1
10: lets you stay longer and relax. longer = more than 1 hour extra. Or she ask you to go over when she's sick or not working, and don't need to pay one +1

So some of the experience above is with my first ML (i only half 3-4 ML so far). But the first one was the best one, since she kanna my KC trap. But I accidentally ignored this ML (plus i left early so that i wont sleep overnight...thrice LOL, so she was very sad and disappointed), so after a while of no contact, she deleted me from her life hahahaha.


but like what sam boss says, they are for fking, not loving. You can have a short fling but don't go beyond that. Have fun and use the above to remind yourself that she is not that into you.

If she is into you... don't get serious. Kthxbye

up u bro

[sladang]

Many threads on this subject matter are created, many samsters responded, giving sound & positive advices, many agreed that we dun get ourselves KC-ed.

When someone is advising, many are listening, but listening and doing are 2 different things.

How many do u think, after they have listened, will strictly adhere to the many good advices from samsters from all corners not to fall into the KC trap? I am afraid not many la.

Dun be surprised that those giving so called good advices here are actually they themselves being deeply KC-ed, juz kidding la ..

[egresnow]

Originally Posted by sladang

Many threads on this subject matter are created, many samsters responded, giving sound & positive advices, many agreed that we dun get ourselves KC-ed.

When someone is advising, many are listening, but listening and doing are 2 different things.

How many do u think, after they have listened, will strictly adhere to the many good advices from samsters from all corners not to fall into the KC trap? I am afraid not many la.

Dun be surprised that those giving so called good advices here are actually they themselves being deeply KC-ed, juz kidding la ..

Fully agree. must practice what you preach

Oh and one more bonus pointer: Usually ML have a work and a personal Wechat. If you can get the personal one, its a +0.5. Not much bonus but well.

But in the first place, if you can exchange money for her time and body, she's no worth your efforts. Because someone else can exchange money for their time and body. If top up to $2-3k, she might even throw in GFE for them. so yeah.

[Sylvan]

Originally Posted by egresnow

Fully agree. must practice what you preach

Oh and one more bonus pointer: Usually ML have a work and a personal Wechat. If you can get the personal one, its a +0.5. Not much bonus but well.

But in the first place, if you can exchange money for her time and body, she's no worth your efforts. Because someone else can exchange money for their time and body. If top up to $2-3k, she might even throw in GFE for them. so yeah.

Well said!!!

[Sylvan]

Originally Posted by sladang

Many threads on this subject matter are created, many samsters responded, giving sound & positive advices, many agreed that we dun get ourselves KC-ed.

When someone is advising, many are listening, but listening and doing are 2 different things.

How many do u think, after they have listened, will strictly adhere to the many good advices from samsters from all corners not to fall into the KC trap? I am afraid not many la.

Dun be surprised that those giving so called good advices here are actually they themselves being deeply KC-ed, juz kidding la ..

Some of us who gave advices are 过来人, we went through such things thus advising those who have not fall into e KC trap not to repeat e same mistakes like us, but hw many will listen?

[Barracuda]

Originally Posted by evoralliart

Same bro. My ML went back China 2 weeks ago, for good. But she said not sure she will be coming back in future; depends since hers is earlier cancellation of work permit.

She said she is ok to stay in contact but since her wechat is a work one, she said she might only login when she is free and since she has her own family and a kid back home.

After she went back, she did reply me abit. Few days once. 1 sentence. Now stopped liao. She didn’t even message me already.

You've said it yourself, she only contacts with you through her work wechat. How much she is into you, this is one of the very obvious sign already.

[Sylvan]

Work chat or personal wechat not strong proof of whether tat ML is into u... is just a account, she can still add those potential carrots customers to make them feel exclusive

[thedevil666]

Originally Posted by Sylvan

Some of us who gave advices are 过来人, we went through such things thus advising those who have not fall into e KC trap not to repeat e same mistakes like us, but hw many will listen?

Some times I wonder why some men are really that desperate for ML. Are you that desperate for love that a normal ML can fill your void heart? That they become so blinded and fall into love with them so easily?

[jay.lay]

Originally Posted by evoralliart

Same bro. My ML went back China 2 weeks ago, for good. But she said not sure she will be coming back in future; depends since hers is earlier cancellation of work permit.

She said she is ok to stay in contact but since her wechat is a work one, she said she might only login when she is free and since she has her own family and a kid back home.

After she went back, she did reply me abit. Few days once. 1 sentence. Now stopped liao. She didn’t even message me already.

up u back

[SOS999]

Most of the Ah Tiong Bu are good actress, don't fall into their trap. Just pay, fuck and leave. Some of them already married with kids in China but still wants to act virgin here.

[bruceleex999]

Originally Posted by SOS999

Most of the Ah Tiong Bu are good actress, don't fall into their trap. Just pay, fuck and leave. Some of them already married with kids in China but still wants to act virgin here.

Not most but I would say all. The tiong MLs I met all have kids back in China, and some of their kids are as big as 20 years old. They act innocent here, say not married yet, no kids and is virgin. Hahahaha