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#481
10-09-2009, 01:43 AM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her
On Friday, 14 Aug 2009. After my work, I meet number2 and purposely wanna bring her out the evening till the next morning as I do not want her to meet the very close guy friend. I told my number1 that I will not be back home early and will not call her as I want her to sleep (although I know that she will not sleep if she knows I am outside).
I brought number2 to meet my friend for prawning after midnight. Number1 called me. I thought that number2 decided to let me have a 1 month period to choose between them and that she accepted to be number2, It will be alright to pick up the phone and talk to nuimber1 awhile. The shocking part... number 2 purposely speak to me in Vietnamese and purposely say loudly that I wanna breakup with number1. Number1 on hearing her voice, started to cry and talk alot. My mind is blank, forget what she talk but I keep telling number1 to stop crying. Number2 caught a prawn, she was happy and keep calling out to me. I was so stunt on the phone with number1 that i never take note of number2. number2 on seeing me ignoring her, she went off. I thought she went toilet but she actually walk out of the prawn farm and took a taxi back. I told number1 that I will go home now and call her. After hanging up, I kept looking for number2. Called her, sms her, no reply. I sense that she will gome home, I drove to her place to wait for her. I kept calling her and sms her also no reply. At this moment in time I was thinking that I am gonna lost 2 women I love at one time. I am feeling damn bloody down. 1 hour passed. Still not able to locate number2 and I should have reached home to call number1. I went to my car and called number1 and try to patch back what has just be done. After alot of talking, Number1 accepted my apology. I cried for 3 reasons. 1) I went overboard with the KC game I have always been playing 2) I discovered that I truely love my number1 and number1 really love me alot. 3) 1 phrase that numbe1 say… “everytime you say you go out drink coffee with friends, I know you just don't want me to know you go out to play and hug gals. I kept quiet. This is because I love you so I got to bare the pain. BUT WHY THIS TIME YOU LET ME LISTEN TO A GAL SPEAKING OVER THE PHONE? IT IS REALLY HURTING” Since managed to patch back with number1 already, I continue to call number2 and tel her that I will wait for her till she turn up. Waited not long, number2 came out from her house to meet me. I told her I already breakup with number1 and asked her why she wanna run away. She said that she was sad that I never notice her when she caught a prawn. She wanna share her joy with me but see that I am stunt on the phone. She leave the prawn farm thinking that I love number1 more than her. I tried consoling her and keep telling her that number1 is angry with me and will not contact me anymore, we broke up, I will only have her (number2). On hearing this, number2 started to hug and kiss me again. She say that she will open 1/2 a road for me to enter her heart now and I should cherish it. There will not be anymore chance for me to hurt her if I lie again. 1) not telling her I got galfriend number1 2) not telling her I go Vietnam to look for number1 while she is in Thailaind It was very late so I let go home sleep and I go home. I felt lucky that I manage to turn the whole thing around and patch back with the 2 women I love. Last edited by KangTuo; 10-09-2009 at 02:10 AM. 
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#482
10-09-2009, 01:49 AM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her
After a dramatic 1 week with number2. I manage to bring her to hotel to bonk her on Saturday night. (turn out to be my very last bonk with her
 )Since then, everytime we meet, number2 will ask if number1 call, check my phone. I will also check if the very close friend call or sms her, or they had secretly meet up for some session (checking her body)... this is damn very tiring. On 19 Aug 2009, after number2 finished her work (2nd day of work), she still call me to ask if number1 call. Since I am damn tired of her checking again and again, I told her the truth. what happen next is...... SLAM... phone hang up. This is the end of the relationship with number2. Who is the winner? who is the loser? What I get from this 4 months 28 days? 
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#483
10-09-2009, 01:57 AM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her
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Me - I told her I am still with number 1 and cannot breakup a 3 years relationship for a nearly 5 month relationship Her - she is able to put down everything and ignore me. Treating me as another customer (or worst) loser Me - I still cannot put down the relationship. I still wanna look for number2 and still stocking her at her house. I still wanna see number2. What I get? Broken heart. A KC game that turn to love with a sad ending. An ending I do not want.
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#484
10-09-2009, 02:40 AM
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She already put everything down and treated me like a customer or an enemy. Since cannot contact number2 on the phone. On 20 Aug 2009, after work I went straight to her place to look for her. I step out of the car, I see that she is with her very close guy friend talking as sweetly as before. I walk up to her. She say that she do not know me anymore. I reply her saying thank you for letting me know who I truly love. I ask her that if we can be friends, she say no. I ask her is I can be her customer, she say no. Deep in my heart I feel very 'bu fu qi'. I walk off. Through the day and night, 2 consecutive days i sms her alot without any reply. But she replied to me on money matters. $50 - to have meal with her $100 - to sit with me if i look for her at her workplace $500 - to see me after her work or go to the beach $10,000 - to have sex with her 22 Aug 2009, while i was cheonging, she sms me asking me if its true that i want to be her customer, I can fetch her go for makan. Since I still cannot forget her, I went over to fetch her. Give her $50 and brought her to geylang lor42 to eat. I tried talking, asking her question, hold her hands. she never answer my question and she brush of my hands. She say $50 is to eat with me only. After eating, we got into a heated argument. I chase her off and ask her to go back by herself. In the taxi, she called me she scolded me for the first time "FUCK YOU KANGTUO" Weekdays come again and I keep peeping on her at her place. sometimes her very close guy friend will be there. I waited at her work place to see her go work. SMS and give her miss call. I did cheong to pick up gals, bring gals for bonking session. But none of them meet up to her standard and non make me feel as horny as she did while in hotel. I feel damn freaking crazy and lonely without her. 28 Aug 2009, while cheonging and unable to get any gals that can replace number2, I sms number2 to meet up found supper. Once again, meet her, give her $50. Fetch her to geylang lor42 again. I never talk, nere do anything but just look at her. The look she give me is not worth the $50. A sour face... don't treat me like a customer at all. After eating. I send her back. Same old thing i did last week (1 sep till 4 sep). sms, phone and stocking her with reply about $$$ only... $50 - to have meal with her $100 - to sit with me if i look for her at her workplace $500 - to see me after her work or go to the beach $10,000 - to have sex with her wanna talk, give money... do anything, give money.... 5 Sep 2009. After cheonging in Geylang, I sit at one of the kopitiam to have a break and plan for the next location. I sms number2 to ask her come and accompany me to sabai sabai.... I will give money. Her reply: "you enjoy sitting at the kopitiam, I am not free today" straightaway my mind went crazy... I stood up and look around for her. walk around that few lorongs and into hotel to see if she checked in with any customer. Cannot find. sms her, no reply liao... feel so sad and uneasy... not feeling to go cheong again with my buddies.
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#485
10-09-2009, 09:46 AM
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Ever since I was dumped, I cheong more to recover from this heartbreak. I thought of finding someone to replace her. I get to know 7 gals, upped 2 of them (performance in bed is not as good as number2). With the release of one SBF bro from 'house arrest' by his vn gal, we cheong for consecutive 5 nights. I pick up some gals and started my KC game with them (1 is from number2 workplace). When number2 knows that I visited her workplace to cheong, she sms me to ask why I never call her to sit.. am i afraid?... knn dunno what she means. Yesterday, 9 Sep, after work drove pass her house before meeting my kakis to cheong. I saw number2 with her very close guy friend sitting intimately. She sits on his lap facing each other. (1st time I saw them in this way). My heart do not feel as pain as before already. Maybe I had recover abit from all these madness. I just feel more of a 'bu fu qi' and a lost as I cannot enjoy sex with her already but anyone willing to pay her will be able to have sex with her. Even if i am willing to pay the same amount she do not want. She want $10,000 from me in order to bed her, to have all of her and she will let me have the feeling of love again. As 1 of my regular cheong kaki from SBF told me that there are alot of gal who may be a better performer in bed. Just keep on searching. Even if I pay $10,000 to her, the lovely feeling will not be the same as before as I am buying it. At the moment I am still searching for 1 that is as good in bed as number2... This weekend I will be visiting number2 workplace with my SBF kakis. She knows that I will be going to her workplace and say that since it is her bday and she will want $150 from me if i want her to sit with me...
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#486
10-09-2009, 09:53 AM
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1) give her $150 and ask her to put up a performance just like the 1st time we met. 2) ignore her, siam her and look for other gals 3) let her know I reach. Let her come in room but choose other gals 4) let her come in and sit with me. complain to mummy that she do not know how to work, give her $20 and ask her to FUCK off. then take another gal 5) buy her a bday cake. Ask her in to celebrate. let her thought that I will give her $150 and want her to sit with me. When sitted, I change gal 6) see her, 'suan' her that "how come bday still working and new boyfriend (the close guy friend) never celebrate for her but let her work" ..... still thinking what to do to earn back my pride.
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#487
10-09-2009, 10:16 AM
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I know it is your pride trying to get one-uppence on her but then for wat.. so that you can be the one to "proudly" announce you are the one who ditched her. Sometimes letting go at the rite time means sweet memories to cherish for everyone... Now, you wouldn't like a life full of "Exciting" but emotionally-disturbing past to look back upon rite. I only read your last few post but I can sense you are trying to justify "actions" to end the r/s but then sometimes there is no reasons... Things just happen.. Recently contacted my ZH EX-.. she is in CQ working (as wat, I never bothered to ask).. to me, we are just people whose life has intersected in one way or another.. that time has pasted. Now, I dun even look back at the time we spend with any emotions. Remember, there is the life you think you will lead and there is the REAL life that you are leading ... work, friends, family... Draw a clean line and never let your emotions affect your real life...when it comes to pure KC...Unless, you really wanna settle down with her. Well.. cheers and snap out of it soon.
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#488
10-09-2009, 10:49 AM
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Before she came, I already thought of letting the r/s end sweatly once she goes back in a month or 2. But it happened just within 1 week plus and it is not the kind of ending i wanted. You are right that for the pass weeks I have been trying to justify "actions" that end this r/s... I discovered the reason for such behaviour from me. 1) I wanted more bonking session from her... which I cannot get it now 2) She is the gal who can make me cummed 3 times in 2 hours... i cannot find now 3) up to today, she is the gal who make feel that my 'tool' is charged 24/7.... have not had a good bonking session since Now i am trying to move on... getting back to my usual cheonging times with my few kakis from SBF.
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#489
10-09-2009, 11:24 AM
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Your 1-3 sounds like how I felt b4 my ZH Ex GF left... passionate bonking bordering on madness a few days before she left ... Anyway, you can sure find more gems who can hit number 2.. that is the LUST portion. For me now, bliss in with the one whom I can ML without end and end off with one boom... I still get hard after that but then ONE shot is enough.. not good for health to cum too many times... F many, cum ONCE though is different. Well.... bonking goes on... Cheers and have fun..
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#490
10-09-2009, 01:37 PM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her
Got to know this girl about a year ago. Got mesmerized by her beauty, visits became frequent. Wanted to find out and know more about her. Got along well, got to know her name, her family. Started daily sms or small phone chat. Began to ask her out for meals. Got back the GF feeling (with my ex) once again.
Nothing was committed between us, and both of us did not lead each other on. It is just enjoying the moment. But at times, I wanted more... And when I am more sober, I knew this is going nowhere... I see no start and end. Any bro in similiar situation?.... If you are, you know how I feel. Sorry for this messy and poor phrased post, If I can structure it well, maybe I will not post here...
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#491
10-09-2009, 03:44 PM
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The lack of "closure" or rather "closure" on your terms is what drives you to think incessantly of her, things related to her, etc Nothing good will come out of this if you continue to mentally torture yourself this way...worse if it leads to physical expression :-) Let me tell you some other things that are fact....you WILL find someone else that will give you that loving feeling. BUT you will not find it unless you let go of this one which is not going anywhere good. REPEAT what I just said to you a hundred times and every time you think of her. Channel your energies and thoughts to making yourself even better so that if ever she sees you again, she will REGRET letting you go! 旧的不去新的不来 nothing puts out an old flame faster than a new one bro :-) You are not the first one to experience this, so learn from all the others that have gone before you ....and come out stronger and better!!!!
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#492
10-09-2009, 03:51 PM
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I replied her few scarcastic sms... 1) If u think I sms shit, u r happy. there is nothing to do with me. I regret i never 'xao nhieu hon'. I regret because you will not let me F#@K you anymore. E la nguoi $130 dc cho nguoi ta du roi dung kg? 2) 2weeks i go crazy. I got enuffof sadness and craziness. You go enjoy F#@KING with your new bf. I enjoy xao con gai khac. bye bye $130 xxxx 3) Neu a co vui, a xai tien bao nhieu cung vui. Neu ngay mai a tim e ngoi voi a, e dc lam cho a vui va suong, $150 a se cho. E phai nho e kg phai la nguoi 'chim co vang'. E la nguoi $130 dc lam tinh roi  translate: If i am happy, i spend how much money also happy. If tomorrow I look for you to sit with me, you can make me happy and horny, I will give $150. You must remember that you are not a person who have 'golden pussy'. You are a person where $130 can F#@K with you already. ~~ THE END ~~
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#493
10-09-2009, 04:01 PM
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Re: How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her
当她爱你深，你却不认真
当你情变真，她已恨你深。。。。。 花开堪折直须折，莫待无花空折枝。。。。 无论结果你们是否在一起，已不重要，重要的是那充满美好回忆的过去将会陪伴你终老 与其执着于你失去的，不如看看你还拥有的
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#494
10-09-2009, 04:02 PM
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Actually I do not need to find anymore loving feeling. I already got my number1 galfriend in vietnam waiting 3 years. I am trying hard to bring her to Sillypore. This incident bring me closer to my 3years vn galfriend. Make me realize that my love with number1 is very strong. This is what one of my SBF cheong kakis say... "you backside itchy, cock itchy"
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#495
10-09-2009, 05:26 PM
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ood to see Kangtuo is moving on..
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