Stephen Leather's Private Dancer

[Sundaytimes]

Originally posted by delifrance
my subject title says it all.

So what if you are number 1 in her life ?
Question is how long can you remain number 1 in her life ?

And when reality lays the card across the table showing you that you are no longer number can you accept it ?

Just think of how much time you can spent with her ? Its a long struggle. Tiring also. Brudders who are climbing for the number 1 throne, take a good rest and prepare yourself for what reality has to offer you.

Someone once told me "If a Girl like you she will do everythings for you. But if she doesn't, you will have to do everything for her".

A simple advise overlooked. But most of the time humans are to complicated to notice simple things like this.

[Sundaytimes]

Originally posted by siamcutey
Number 1 will always be Family
Number 2 will be the Friends
As for boyfriend/husband, top 2 spot taken up, I don't know whether it will get a 3rd spot.

SC

They are ALWAYS working hard for the FAMILY.
Oops.... I don't mean ALL WLs.
Not confirmation this time round. Just assuming.

[siamcutey]

Originally posted by Sundaytimes
They are ALWAYS working hard for the FAMILY.
Oops.... I don't mean ALL WLs.
Not confirmation this time round. Just assuming.

Working hard for the family is good. But must see whether the family is worth helping out for.

Imagine the bros, sisters all waiting at home for money to drop from sky. When they need money, they will look for you. When you don't give them, their attitude towards you change. When you give them, they worship you and of course, next time they will look for you again and again.

SC

[Mr.romance]

Originally posted by Sundaytimes
So what if you are number 1 in her life ?
Question is how long can you remain number 1 in her life ?

And when reality lays the card across the table showing you that you are no longer number can you accept it ?

Just think of how much time you can spent with her ? Its a long struggle. Tiring also. Brudders who are climbing for the number 1 throne, take a good rest and prepare yourself for what reality has to offer you.

Someone once told me "If a Girl like you she will do everythings for you. But if she doesn't, you will have to do everything for her".

A simple advise overlooked. But most of the time humans are to complicated to notice simple things like this.

Well said Bro!!!

From my experience it is really tiring to hold on to such a relationship tat is miles & miles away...The TG is not Stupid, she will definitely think how much time can u spend with her..

I ever question my TG whether she will prefer a local or foreign BF.
She herself admitted frankly tat she prefer a local one...She told me on the face:"Becos You can only visit me once every few mths!!"

Like some bros ever mentioned here before..."We don have Qian Li yan"& its really tedious to monitor thier movements...I personally find it tiring also...MY vitamin $ also start running low as I had to visit her every few mths....Xiong Men!!!
Don forget our money is hard earned...

BTW bro how long have u cheong BK..I was really curious

[Mr.romance]

Originally posted by liketoplay
You will be wary of them due to their occupation. Like wise , when you fall for them , they will be wary of you becos you visit a pros . On her mind , she will be thinking whether you've been faithful to her

haha..It kind of resembles me...My TG ever ask me:"How come you still look for pros since u had a GF?"

[tirak69]

Originally posted by delifrance
my subject title says it all.

just remember the song "tee neung mai wai". as long as we are not in bkk we have to accept the fact that we are not going to be number 1 in their lives. its a fact we have to live with unless either party is willing to make certain sacrifices. else the rules of the game has to change and you have to be more realistic with your expectations.

[Mr.romance]

Originally posted by tirak69
just remember the song "tee neung mai wai". as long as we are not in bkk we have to accept the fact that we are not going to be number 1 in their lives. its a fact we have to live with unless either party is willing to make certain sacrifices. else the rules of the game has to change and you have to be more realistic with your expectations.

Fully Agreed. But I was wondering whether are there any exceptional cases whereby the TG is willing to sacrifice. Maybe 1 out of 100.

Cheers

[thaigers]

Originally posted by liketoplay
You will be wary of them due to their occupation. Like wise , when you fall for them , they will be wary of you becos you visit a pros . On her mind , she will be thinking whether you've been faithful to her

If she really likes you, she will be thinking like that, if not she will think like what Mr romance said, another chai tao.

Incidentally, tonite went to the Lor 6 to book my regular but was told kena booked liao. when i went into the house, saw 5 or six girls there. when they saw me, they 'informed' me that she is working. knn as if i dont know...so no choice, went for a walk and then received an sms from my regular (those other girls must have told her i was here). I walked back to the house and then saw her coming out to hang her laundry. She called me and said 'Kid thueng' at me while i was standing at the roadside. and her expression machiam like damn miss me and damn disappointed that i cant book her. I was thinking, what was she thinking man.?? what if the person who had booked her saw her saying kid theung to me.?? and then when the guy go into her room, and she say kid theung to him???

anyway, since cant book her, just go jalan jalan lor. then she called and asked me where I am (kinda like checking up on me). told her i am going home and she say gohok, mai cheur...of couse i say jing jing lah, hahahha. then she say kid thueng again, so i say back gohok lor, hahahhaha.....

it might be true that she is 'worried' that i will go other house to bonk since i cant bonk her. otherwise she call up just to show 'concern'.........

[Mr.romance]

Originally posted by thaigers
If she really likes you, she will be thinking like that, if not she will think like what Mr romance said, another chai tao.

Incidentally, tonite went to the Lor 6 to book my regular but was told kena booked liao. when i went into the house, saw 5 or six girls there. when they saw me, they 'informed' me that she is working. knn as if i dont know...so no choice, went for a walk and then received an sms from my regular (those other girls must have told her i was here). I walked back to the house and then saw her coming out to hang her laundry. She called me and said 'Kid thueng' at me while i was standing at the roadside. and her expression machiam like damn miss me and damn disappointed that i cant book her. I was thinking, what was she thinking man.?? what if the person who had booked her saw her saying kid theung to me.?? and then when the guy go into her room, and she say kid theung to him???

anyway, since cant book her, just go jalan jalan lor. then she called and asked me where I am (kinda like checking up on me). told her i am going home and she say gohok, mai cheur...of couse i say jing jing lah, hahahha. then she say kid thueng again, so i say back gohok lor, hahahhaha.....

it might be true that she is 'worried' that i will go other house to bonk since i cant bonk her. otherwise she call up just to show 'concern'.........

haha..I always don believe in their "Kid Teung"...They can easily say it to 10 other customer..

I ever post a story whereby a TG hug & say "Kid Teung" before I left & even asked for my Hp no...tat was at a "la sarp bar" at JB.I just told her I'll be back..Like wat Bro SC told me..She could have hundreds & thousands of numbers in her HP...

[thaigers]

Originally posted by Mr.romance
haha..I always don believe in their "Kid Teung"...They can easily say it to 10 other customer..

I ever post a story whereby a TG hug & say "Kid Teung" before I left & even asked for my Hp no...tat was at a "la sarp bar" at JB.I just told her I'll be back..Like wat Bro SC told me..She could have hundreds & thousands of numbers in her HP...

I was rather skeptical about their 'kid thueng' too. I think they only say kid theung when you are at their house to visit them. When she was at my neighbourhood, she called me and we happened to meet up while she was doing her shopping. when i saw her, she didnt say any kid theung or act like she miss me etc... maybe her colleague was with her, but then again.....

it doesnt matter if you know how many hp numbers they have, i think if they can make you feel like you are the only one, then they have accomplished their mission.....

[Sundaytimes]

then she called and asked me where I am (kinda like checking up on me). told her i am going home and she say gohok, mai cheur...of couse i say jing jing lah, hahahha. then she say kid thueng again, so i say back gohok lor, hahahhaha.....

it might be true that she is 'worried' that i will go other house to bonk since i cant bonk her. otherwise she call up just to show 'concern'.........


That brings back some memories for me.
hahahah

[tirak69]

Originally posted by thaigers
I was rather skeptical about their 'kid thueng' too. I think they only say kid theung when you are at their house to visit them. When she was at my neighbourhood, she called me and we happened to meet up while she was doing her shopping. when i saw her, she didnt say any kid theung or act like she miss me etc... maybe her colleague was with her, but then again.....

it doesnt matter if you know how many hp numbers they have, i think if they can make you feel like you are the only one, then they have accomplished their mission.....

if they dun say kit tueng to you, what else can they say??? they treat us like customers and its part of customer service... if they participate in the service excellence awards organised by STB sporeans have no chance liao.

also for most of us our grasp of phasaaa thai is not good enough for them to express their feelings (assusming its real) in other language.

at the end of the day they or us can say kit tueng all we want... but actions and time will tell if they are truly "jing jai".

[tirak69]

Originally posted by yomun
Heard from someone you UP liao. Win liao lor.

is she THE one? i reserve my comments for now... time will tell.

[Mr.romance]

Originally posted by tirak69
if they dun say kit tueng to you, what else can they say??? they treat us like customers and its part of customer service... if they participate in the service excellence awards organised by STB sporeans have no chance liao.

also for most of us our grasp of phasaaa thai is not good enough for them to express their feelings (assusming its real) in other language.

at the end of the day they or us can say kit tueng all we want... but actions and time will tell if they are truly "jing jai".

True Enough, Time will tell everything as it passes.
I suddenly think of an incident whereby my TG & her friend was sitting at the back of the taxi while I was sitted in front. There seems to be some conversation between my Tg and the Taxi driver in which I don understand. Suddenly My Tg kept calling me "Tirak!Tirak!Tirak" many times
I was rather pissed off as it sounded quite fake.At first I choose to ignore her & due to my limited knowledge of Thai Language I only replied her" Pom rak kun mak mak"! at the end

[Darkstorm]

Originally posted by siamcutey
Number 1 will always be Family
Number 2 will be the Friends
As for boyfriend/husband, top 2 spot taken up, I don't know whether it will get a 3rd spot.

SC

Does this apply to Thai WL or to Thai non-WL as well?

Darkstorm