How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[alfian88]

First and foremost, thank you all brothers for your kind advice. I guess that is the only way out of the mess i am in. Have never been happy with the relationship anyway except for the sex sessions of which i really enjoyed. Now to concentrate on straightening my life and clearing the mess.
Thanks again.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by alfian88

First and foremost, thank you all brothers for your kind advice. I guess that is the only way out of the mess i am in. Have never been happy with the relationship anyway except for the sex sessions of which i really enjoyed. Now to concentrate on straightening my life and clearing the mess.
Thanks again.

Good to hear that.... wish u success in life.

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Why I want to fly to HCMC to look for her again?
Is it for the $500 gift that I want to get back the ROI or I really met “THE ONE”…

One funny thing is that during the peroid of my internal struggle, I still believe that she did not go fcuk around with customer or this other guy.

going around the loop again

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Being a winner in most KC game, and getting a bit bored, I let myself fall into this. It is really a struggle, a sweet and bitter relationship. Knowing that there is no fairytale ending, my little bro still wanna continue.

Ahh, the inexplicable web of emotional entanglement in modern day tirakship. But trust me on this bro, the longer you let this loop goes round and round, the harder it is to exit. Yes, I know some people let themselves "fall into the KC trap" because of boredom, just like me seeking to KC the WLs because I want to stretch my dollar value. The bottom line is at what price are you paying for this "KC rabbit hole"?? I'm not just referring to just $$$ here but also the intangible stuff like if itz affecting your r/s with your other gf?

The longer u drag on this, the more painful it will get... your jealousy and possessiveness is a grave sign of no turning back liao. Take care, bro.

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by mike1304k

Bro,

While you are spending on her and worrying about her, how many other guys you think are doing the same thing? Does she worry how much she has taken from you and how you feel? Not very likely. By feeling gentlemanly, by worrying about her fate and by wanting to keep her, it is your ego that is acting!

There is no way other than the hard way. One road leads to financial ruin, if you continue to give and spend on her. The other is the road you will take to let her go, build up your resources again and stand tall again. Which road do you want to take?

There is no such thing as being a gentlemen if you are cheonging. I am not sure about your marital status or even your financial status, but she will bring you to financial ruin and once you are spent, what makes you think she will not just drop you and go to the next guy? What makes you think she does or is not already fleecing the next guy? They come here to make money... Do you think they bother about feelings?

Just some food for thought. I cannot tell you what to do and I do not presume to be able to do so too... It is up to you. I have been down this road before and I know that we have to protect ourselves.

braddah mike is very right. i think you need to quit now. i get sad reading this happened to you braddah. please it will be tough but i suggest you change your number and not contact her again. there is no need. you pour your heart for this girl and lose $$$$$$$$ but she got others and doing this to other braddahs you dont know. its terrible that this is happening. think about her in a bad way. maximum bad might help you to overcome.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Harvest

Ahh, the inexplicable web of emotional entanglement in modern day tirakship. But trust me on this bro, the longer you let this loop goes round and round, the harder it is to exit. Yes, I know some people let themselves "fall into the KC trap" because of boredom, just like me seeking to KC the WLs because I want to stretch my dollar value. The bottom line is at what price are you paying for this "KC rabbit hole"?? I'm not just referring to just $$$ here but also the intangible stuff like if itz affecting your r/s with your other gf?

The longer u drag on this, the more painful it will get... your jealousy and possessiveness is a grave sign of no turning back liao. Take care, bro.

True true...

I was wondering if I should stop my RTFs to LW in view of my retirement.. afterall, kinda weird to retire and yet...

Well... tough choice... 情 versus 义...

Like Harvest said, need to consider the impact to the other GF...

Maybe I should??? But the flesh is weak...hahaha

Old habits die hard... system is tuned to cheong and duct production is also used to generating that amount of cum each day so... if really abstain.. skali SCN...

Fellow retired bros.. u still steal eat with yuor ex regulars?

[Panamera]

Originally Posted by alfian88

First and foremost, thank you all brothers for your kind advice. I guess that is the only way out of the mess i am in. Have never been happy with the relationship anyway except for the sex sessions of which i really enjoyed. Now to concentrate on straightening my life and clearing the mess.
Thanks again.

Hi Bro Alfian88,

欢场女子的存在就是填补男人心中的空缺.
她们只是你的过客，她们存在的意义就是装饰男人的梦
她们疯狂的行为，就是对男人有种强烈征服感, 尤其喜欢男人为她们做傻事. 爱情在她们手中成为害人的工具，你对她们同情，换来的是被她们利用或成为她们用来刺激身边人的 现成刀子.
当你对她们的爱失去理智，就成了一种精神与肉体上的伤害!
这种感情只有两个字可以形容易: 悲哀
伤??? 是伤在明知是一滩浑水，仍然给浊水溅湿!
为什么明知如此，还要身陷其中,给她们机会?
欢场女子永远只是记忆中一个美好的片断，后来的后来，就有悲哀发生。
风流总被雨打风吹去，向来是这样。
是时候, 觉醒了!

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Panamera

Hi Bro Alfian88,

欢场女子的存在就是填补男人心中的空缺.
她们只是你的过客，她们存在的意义就是装饰男人的梦
她们疯狂的行为，就是对男人有种强烈征服感, 尤其喜欢男人为她们做傻事. 爱情在她们手中成为害人的工具，你对她们同情，换来的是被她们利用或成为她们用来刺激身边人的 现成刀子.
当你对她们的爱失去理智，就成了一种精神与肉体上的伤害!
这种感情只有两个字可以形容易: 悲哀
伤??? 是伤在明知是一滩浑水，仍然给浊水溅湿!
为什么明知如此，还要身陷其中,给她们机会?
欢场女子永远只是记忆中一个美好的片断，后来的后来，就有悲哀发生。
风流总被雨打风吹去，向来是这样。
是时候, 觉醒了!

True true...but the dream is good while it lasts...

Sort of like those sweet dreams that you wake up and yet want to go back to sleep to continue dreaming...

In the end, life itself is a dream...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

In the end, life itself is a dream...

Sorry bro, this statement i cant agree....
It all boils down to whether you want to live in the real world or dream world.....
There's a very huge diff in the 2....
That's why, in this world, we have the realists and the dreamers.....
Both score very differently in real life too...

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

Sorry bro, this statement i cant agree....
It all boils down to whether you want to live in the real world or dream world.....
There's a very huge diff in the 2....
That's why, in this world, we have the realists and the dreamers.....
Both score very differently in real life too...

erhh... I live very much in the real world lah... the life is a dream .. is more to express that we should have aspiration and dreams.. not wallow in dreams..

hahaha... paisey paisey...

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

erhh... I live very much in the real world lah... the life is a dream .. is more to express that we should have aspiration and dreams.. not wallow in dreams..

hahaha... paisey paisey...

No worries la bro......
So you've been moderating the Thread on LW
When she leaving?
Maybe when I'm back, i shud try the LEGEND hehehe

[aczeta]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

No worries la bro......
So you've been moderating the Thread on LW
When she leaving?
Maybe when I'm back, i shud try the LEGEND hehehe

When u coming back? By then, maybe I decide not to be TS liao ler...

Well, she is kinda a legend lah..

[aczeta]

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

No worries la bro......
So you've been moderating the Thread on LW
When she leaving?
Maybe when I'm back, i shud try the LEGEND hehehe

When u coming back? By then, maybe I decide not to be TS liao ler...

Well, she is kinda a legend lah..

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by aczeta

When u coming back? By then, maybe I decide not to be TS liao ler...

Well, she is kinda a legend lah..

Mid July.
Pls la, you stop being TS i tio beh pio laio wahahahaha

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

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Maybe I should??? But the flesh is weak...hahaha

Old habits die hard... system is tuned to cheong and duct production is also used to generating that amount of cum each day so... if really abstain.. skali SCN...

Fellow retired bros.. u still steal eat with yuor ex regulars?

Tsk, tsk! Excuses, excuses... It is not a question of whether you should or not, itz a question of whether you want or don't want. Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Originally Posted by Harvest

Tsk, tsk! Excuses, excuses... It is not a question of whether you should or not, itz a question of whether you want or don't want. Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.

Its ok la bro harvest, becos of her, he dun wan others liao c his siggy
Dun worry, if she's really that good, when i come back, maybe i can help bro aczeta get this cancer off him...hehehehehe