Picking up girls in Singapore clubs

[MakeJohnBark]

Originally Posted by coolmagnifico

Bro no nid to be goodlooking. Just have balls and courage. Confirm have hits and misses. I got rejected several times before on that night before i finally scored

Bro you're so modest

[graphical]

reminded me when I was in bangkok a few months ago. Went Funky Villa but it closes early around 2am.. then my fren went ons with a local girl there.

Left me alone , was walking along the street and this ang moh dude thought I was local there (maybe becos of my dark skin) and mumbled thai language but I replied him in english then I said Im from sg.. we became random kakis and in the end we went to club moon (closes around 6am) happy ending after that.

Sorry to side track bros.

[syt_punisher]

Super not easy to be honest.
Ratio of guys to girls in the club is 4:1 so you are fighting with 3 other wolves.
Best part is only 3/10 girls are pretty, the rest consist of hippos and giraffes !

Ok, I only had one experience when I was younger, only because my 2 other friends scored with the girls group, so this girl is left with me after her 2 other friends checked into hotel with my friends, so I guess she also naively check in with me (who cares!)

[subidowa]

so who is gathering the bros this Friday?

[Doldrums]

These are just my views on clubbing in general.

Clubs are great for picking up girls for 2 reasons:

1. You might be able to guess how the girl is like in bed from the way she dances, same goes for guys.

2. With loud club music blaring in the background, its ideal for less spoken communication and more body communication. I believe having to speak to pickup girls always shows your nervousness straight away.

For those reasons, i would usually do the following:

1. Go in and walk around checking out the crowd. Check out where the girls are.

2. I head for the bar and get a drink, to calm my nerves.

3. I survey some more and pick the right song to enter the dance floor, dancing in rhythm and making my way to my "targets" slowly.

4. I check them out obviously and get closer dancing as i go along until im next to them.

5. I mirror their dancing style, to show them im interested and paying attention to them, also at the same time hoping to catch their gaze. When i do catch their gaze i give them a grin and continue mirroring their dance style.

6. At this point, if there is no reaction, i move on. If there is a smile back, grin, laughter, rolling eyes with impish grin. I take that positively and get closer to them. Hopefully at this point, their body language changes and they turn a bit more in your direction or open up to let you dance with them/her.

7. If shes a bit more adventurous and grinds into you. Its pretty assured she wants to fcuk u. If its anything else other than grinding into you, then she probably likes you, wants to enjoy dancing more but hasn't the idea of fcuking you yet or shes shy and has never done this before.

With everything happening above, there is hardly any spoken communication at all till this point, other than to buy your drink(which usually involves pointing at the menu or shouting at the poor bartender).

Dancing
If you need help with dancing, you can youtube clubbing moves and practise in your spare time. Everyone has different limbs and hip coordination, try out each move infront of the mirror and see the overall effect, if you look goofy, that move is probably not for you, try something else. Once you find a few goods moves that you can alternate between to suit different changes in the beats, you're set. Its more important dancing to the beat with simple moves than dancing out of beat with flashy ones. Too much movements may make your moves look goofy, small movements like e.g just twisting your wrists or simple foot work may look better.

Dancing shows guys how ladies move their hips, ladies who move their hips during love making just make the experience so much better.

Dancing shows ladies how smooth guys handle their trusts, and also show how much variation(angles, depth, twirling) we could provide during love making.

Overall for both parties, it also shows whether your love making might be in sync (you trust while she trusts at the same time? Yes the guy doesn't necessarily do the job all the time).

Some dancing etiquette:

1. Don't grope the obvious areas, like ass/chest/groin, unless she/he is fairly into you and preferably after you guys have grinded against each other or kissed/frenched.

2. Safe areas before you guys have advanced to that stage that you can touch is the arms, shoulders, hips.

3. Guys shouldn't grind(or hump) into a lady, unless she starts it first.

4. Even while grinding, you shouldn't grope the obvious areas, until she/he combines this with kissing/frenching.

These are based on my own experience, the general idea being to score and not weird out the ladies/guys(who don't like aggressive and open minded girls) along the way.

[subidowa]

Anyone wanna go hunt at KYO later???? Meet around 10? Budget on your own?

[coolmagnifico]

Originally Posted by subidowa

Anyone wanna go hunt at KYO later???? Meet around 10? Budget on your own?

Bro i thinking of trying zouk on fri. Wanna go? Any other bros? Lets share and open one bottle

[subidowa]

Anywhere but zouk

[BankOfEngland]

Originally Posted by subidowa

Anywhere but zouk

Why if you don't mind me asking bro?

[coolmagnifico]

Originally Posted by subidowa

Anywhere but zouk

Sure man...another day perhaps.

[subidowa]

Who is organising msg me the location and budget. Leave ur number best..

I will get back to you once im come back from jb with my jap girl.

[subidowa]

Back... No one gathering?

[formidable]

Ts probably busy dating ha

[Loserfool185]

Originally Posted by Doldrums

These are just my views on clubbing in general.

Clubs are great for picking up girls for 2 reasons:

1. You might be able to guess how the girl is like in bed from the way she dances, same goes for guys.

2. With loud club music blaring in the background, its ideal for less spoken communication and more body communication. I believe having to speak to pickup girls always shows your nervousness straight away.

For those reasons, i would usually do the following:

1. Go in and walk around checking out the crowd. Check out where the girls are.

2. I head for the bar and get a drink, to calm my nerves.

3. I survey some more and pick the right song to enter the dance floor, dancing in rhythm and making my way to my "targets" slowly.

4. I check them out obviously and get closer dancing as i go along until im next to them.

5. I mirror their dancing style, to show them im interested and paying attention to them, also at the same time hoping to catch their gaze. When i do catch their gaze i give them a grin and continue mirroring their dance style.

6. At this point, if there is no reaction, i move on. If there is a smile back, grin, laughter, rolling eyes with impish grin. I take that positively and get closer to them. Hopefully at this point, their body language changes and they turn a bit more in your direction or open up to let you dance with them/her.

7. If shes a bit more adventurous and grinds into you. Its pretty assured she wants to fcuk u. If its anything else other than grinding into you, then she probably likes you, wants to enjoy dancing more but hasn't the idea of fcuking you yet or shes shy and has never done this before.

With everything happening above, there is hardly any spoken communication at all till this point, other than to buy your drink(which usually involves pointing at the menu or shouting at the poor bartender).

Dancing
If you need help with dancing, you can youtube clubbing moves and practise in your spare time. Everyone has different limbs and hip coordination, try out each move infront of the mirror and see the overall effect, if you look goofy, that move is probably not for you, try something else. Once you find a few goods moves that you can alternate between to suit different changes in the beats, you're set. Its more important dancing to the beat with simple moves than dancing out of beat with flashy ones. Too much movements may make your moves look goofy, small movements like e.g just twisting your wrists or simple foot work may look better.

Dancing shows guys how ladies move their hips, ladies who move their hips during love making just make the experience so much better.

Dancing shows ladies how smooth guys handle their trusts, and also show how much variation(angles, depth, twirling) we could provide during love making.

Overall for both parties, it also shows whether your love making might be in sync (you trust while she trusts at the same time? Yes the guy doesn't necessarily do the job all the time).

Some dancing etiquette:

1. Don't grope the obvious areas, like ass/chest/groin, unless she/he is fairly into you and preferably after you guys have grinded against each other or kissed/frenched.

2. Safe areas before you guys have advanced to that stage that you can touch is the arms, shoulders, hips.

3. Guys shouldn't grind(or hump) into a lady, unless she starts it first.

4. Even while grinding, you shouldn't grope the obvious areas, until she/he combines this with kissing/frenching.

These are based on my own experience, the general idea being to score and not weird out the ladies/guys(who don't like aggressive and open minded girls) along the way.

Great post bro!

[sarahxx]

just my 2 cents from past experiences, if you're interested in a girl please don't go straight to her or worse sneak up behind her back and grind your hardon on her ass without even saying hi or introducing yourself. it's really rude and not cool at all. the best way for a guy to score a lady (in my opinion) is to not look too desperate for her - dance close to her but respect her space. at the same time try to strike up a friendly conversation bout the dj/ music/ club. if she's interested, she'll stay close, continue the convo and you can ramp things up from there. if she's not, she'll move away.

respecting space and touching the appropriate areas while dancing is really impt. if done right, it can be really hot and will leave the lady wanting more. but it's too much and too desperate, u'll just destroy your chances with her.