What is it like after getting married for over 5 years? How to maintain the marriage? - Page 3

tittyhawk · #31 25-03-2006, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by blackeagle10

Well marriage is boring and unexciting if you made it that way. ....
So whilst u may cheong around, you still need to come home to reality eventually. All those SYTs outside are just temporary distractions unless you want to make them permanent & start paying alimony & alienating yr own kids...

Bro, thanks for the comments...reality bites...but the last statement very TRUE....

tittyhawk · #32 26-03-2006, 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by new_woman

*sing this to her. maybe it will help to rekindle some sparks?*

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I could be the man who grows old with you
I wanna grow old with you

Thanks bro new_woman...nice one!!

new_woman · #33 26-03-2006, 04:00 PM

errr.. sorry la.. me aint bro..me sister..

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Originally Posted by tittyhawk

Thanks bro new_woman...nice one!!

LED... · #34 26-03-2006, 04:40 PM

Marriage is not all about happiness.......you cant expect to be always happy and fullfilled by one individual..... if you can feel lousy about your relationship so can your spouse..........no one says marriage is easy, imagine you need to vow and sign a legal document in order to be annouced as husband and wife.....

Ups and downs are really part of the game.........its you and your spouse that can make it happen till the end of time....... be contented, appreciate her more (esp after your FL session

) and try to do something together that both will enjoy....

But I guess most crucially, its you and your other part must conpromise to allow each other to have their own space to do the things that you like.... so you wont feel sooooo suffocating sometimes...........

Last but not least, you willingly chosen her as your "forever" partner.... you are suppose to uphold your decision unless otherwise as a man........

Cummingliao · #35 27-03-2006, 12:15 AM

This thread is so depressing. I thought this is a sex forum???

Anyway, I don't think this is a good place to seek advice on your marital woes. Going to the counselling centre to seek professional help would do better.

bbailey · #36 27-03-2006, 02:01 AM

Reality is depressing wat...bo pian. birth, growth, sickness and death - SOP for anyone's life.

want more excitment ..?
1) trade in old model, sign a new contract and pay (of cos) to get a new one.
it's like going home with ur 1st Xbox360. shiok. wake up u think of it, during work also thinkg...come home rush to it.

(P.S : Rem, trade-in not cheap hor.)

2) dun see, dun hear and avoid all other models esp those latest ones. those hot from the oven,see liao, confirm want to grab. avoid at all costs.
Ignorance is bliss....

tittyhawk · #37 27-03-2006, 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by LED...

Marriage is not all about happiness.......you cant expect to
............
Last but not least, you willingly chosen her as your "forever" partner.... you are suppose to uphold your decision unless otherwise as a man........

Guess reality really bites esp on the last statement...Thanks for the comments..

Cummingliao · #38 27-03-2006, 10:08 AM

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Originally Posted by bbailey

Reality is depressing wat...bo pian. birth, growth, sickness and death - SOP for anyone's life.

want more excitment ..?
1) trade in old model, sign a new contract and pay (of cos) to get a new one.
it's like going home with ur 1st Xbox360. shiok. wake up u think of it, during work also thinkg...come home rush to it.

(P.S : Rem, trade-in not cheap hor.)

2) dun see, dun hear and avoid all other models esp those latest ones. those hot from the oven,see liao, confirm want to grab. avoid at all costs.
Ignorance is bliss....

You are into zen huh...

tritonyeah666 · #39 27-03-2006, 10:50 AM

i think he got a point there dude.

SassySammy · #40 28-03-2006, 12:41 PM

bbailey is right. Ignorance is bliss. heh
Think it's impt that the couple have to keep themselves in good shape even after marriage, constantly improving themselves. Especially the wifey..

Sharing and enjoying the company of each other in different circles of friends should help..?

Sorry if im wrong.. Only 20yo and there's alot to learn from bros n sis here.

hit me baby · #41 28-03-2006, 03:32 PM

hi brudders ...i know how it feels after getting married for a long time but as for me this is gonna be my 10th anniversary but i still look forward to make love to my wife everyday although i eat out quite often...maybe cos i feel more relaxed and she's more attentive towards my needs ...i wud make her talk dirty to me when we do it which makes me damn high ..maybe u guys should try it sometimes with ur partners...at times u can always call her in the day and tell her that u want to have a great time with her later at home to rise up the ocassion ...hahaha...it doesn't matter even if u have kids cos i have 4 sons for ur guide and it doesn't affect my sex life with my wife..
we still hv great intimate sex at times when our kids r asleep...kids r a compliment to our marriage cos they light up our lives at times ...anyway hope u guys can maintain a long and lasting marriage ...cheers bros

HumpBackOak · #42 28-03-2006, 07:56 PM

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Originally Posted by tittyhawk

Bros,

Been disappearing away from the forum for quite some time now.

Well, cut the story short, as the subject suggests, how you guys, for those who are married, to maintain a marriage which has became a routine, dullness, and non sex exciting anymore? And what are the remedies (if any) or alternatives?

Comments pls.

TTH

hi,

firstly it depends how young are your children if any?

it gets dull because we are all creatures of habit

it takes both hands to clap, but if u are refering to sex part?

role play, do more stuff together u have never done before. experiment.

a couple needs to grow together, cos if one party gets left behind.

thats when the marriage breaks down.

parkerpenn · #43 29-03-2006, 01:39 PM

Bros, I am not in position to give any advice. I married just slightly more than 2 years, so still very "fresh", altough CO is cutting down on sex when compared to courting and just married time. This is expected.

I have not gone out to "eat" yet, I hope not, but I know for most of the men, most of us will "eat out" at least once if not more in our life time. Just make sure "eating out" is not a long term solution. Love your CO and your family, that is the minimal we men can do to be called human.

tittyhawk · #44 29-03-2006, 07:24 PM

Its nice to see so many bros' comments to the subject matter. Some of them really hits the heart, and some enlightening.

In any case, most of you would agree that the union of two different people to spend the rest of their lives, is not an easy job but it is blessed to be.

So, cherised our loved ones/partners in life.

I've got the message across.

newasianhand · #45 30-03-2006, 03:24 PM

don't even mention marriage.

my last gf was a chio bu but after a few years, totally lost the romance.

my present gf seems to be going down the same path after just a year.

getting worried if it's a trend.

what if my whole life ends up like this?!

respect my parents for sticking together..