Gf doesn't like any kind of intimacy

[fictionman]

Dating time u aldy feel like this...Think of wat will happen if u marry her...

I knw u love her very much...Sex is part a gd relationship...But lack of sex doesnt mean u guys cant have a gd relationship...But if u r deprive of sex now or aft marriage, u will go & find sex outside...Its up to you bro

[adventured]

You should tell her it's not normal for a couple not to have intimacy and she should seek professional help.

[yang punk]

TS
You want trophy wife or FB?

Ask her whether she prefers you to get your gratification elsewhere. Because like 99% of men you need sex for more than procreation. If you can't get sex from her then the marriage is bound to fail. Is that what she wants?

Why is she so adverse to sex? Due to religion, strict moral up-bringing (rare nowadays) or some traumatic experience? If you both don't know the answer, the future will be difficult to predict.

So going back to the first question. If she is so attractive in physical appearance or so capable that you think she is worth the sacrifice in the sex department, then perhaps you can go ahead to marry her and seek your gratification from elsewhere.

[selflick]

What you should so is to confide in her best female friend or good female friend. Choose a pretty one. Get her to talk to your gf in private, that a relationship without good sex won't do.

Whilst hearing you, the best or good friend may get turned on. Share with her your numerous creative attempts and your strengths. Eg "I tried to do a 69 by flipping her over in a jiffy and proceeded to lick her clits furiously while inserting my stiff rod down her throat, but your good friend still doesn't want..." While hearing this, her best friend will definitely get turned on and may offer a temporary solution in the form of herself out of pity or doing your gf a favour. Win win.

[FuckApps]

Originally Posted by selflick

What you should so is to confide in her best female friend or good female friend. Choose a pretty one. Get her to talk to your gf in private, that a relationship without good sex won't do.

Whilst hearing you, the best or good friend may get turned on. Share with her your numerous creative attempts and your strengths. Eg "I tried to do a 69 by flipping her over in a jiffy and proceeded to lick her clits furiously while inserting my stiff rod down her throat, but your good friend still doesn't want..." While hearing this, her best friend will definitely get turned on and may offer a temporary solution in the form of herself out of pity or doing your gf a favour. Win win.

Ha ha ...so called, "shift target"

[1nottiboy]

I have written in a similar thread before but for the benefit of TS I shall share my experiences again.

Because I studied in "branded" schools thru out my academic career, I was brought up to be a gentleman. And the gals that I met in my younger days were all decent gals. The gals who went out with me were all on a "willing" basis. No forced kissing. No forced touching. And I paid for all the dates.

The first few gals I went out with never went beyond kissing and touching (clothed), if they allowed. One didn't even allowed me to hold her hands. And I was happy because I thought I was doing the "right" thing. And when these gals and I broke up, I could hold my head high cos I didn't "owe" them anything. it was my traditional moral values at play.

Because most of these gals and me broke up on good terms, we remained as friends and were in contact rather often. They would update me abt their lives and these updates angered me. There was a gal that I couldn't bed even after 4 years of courtship. She slept with the next bf. The gal who wouldn't let me hold her hands, had a shotgun marriage and subsequently cheated on her husband with her colleague. I also knew of many so-called decent gals who went out with multiple guys. And there was a "decent" gal only used me for dinners and shows (no sex). She claimed she wasn't ready.

What happened to values? What happened to morals?

It's all bullshit!

Intimacy is all about pushing the right buttons. I have had decent gals practically raping me. Forcing her kisses on me, pulling my cock out and sucking on it without me asking. I have also had the "post revision" sex. "Post supper" sex. etc etc.

If your gf wont get wet for you now, she wont get wet for you EVER.

Some idiots will tell you that marriage is more than just sex. It's true. Marriage is about money, bonding, responsibility, etc, etc, etc, PLUS SEX!!! Unless you are going for an open marriage (i.e. she allows you to eat outside), in the long run, this isn't gonna work out. If a gal really loves you, she will be begging for you to fuck her. (I dun mean on the first date. Months into the relationship, if you dun touch her, a normal gal will get very upset.)

[billy_bonker]

speaking from experience, GET OUT NOW BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE.