How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Today I discovered that i really kana KC-ed. I lost the game. Issit my EGO that played me out.

Today, in the late afternoon a guy brought my viet gal for makan and she suppose to go work at 7+pm. I thought it is okay as she is on code red. The guy will not be able to do anything. Since my viet gal is not free, so after my work, I called another viet gal out for dinner and had stated my intention very clearly that I going to bonk her before she work. She agreed. A possible FOC bonk.

At 7+pm my viet gal sms me that she is at home already and may not go work. I was thinking 'huh, wtf, why not going work, issit that guy bringing her out to visit places'. I called her to ask the reason, but heard the guy voice and it don't sounds like she is at home. I told her i will meet her in 30min and she better be home.

For this reason, I let go off this other viet gal who agreed to go bonking... just to meet up my viet gal who KC-ed me. In the end, this other viet gal is pissed off with me, and will not meet me again. And I end up going supermarket to buy food. She is going to boil soup for me to drink tomorrow after my work.

Falling deeper and deeper into the trap...

Hahahaha....I can feel it when I look at your face msging her Nothing is going to prevent her from seeing other man...Only solution is get married dont let her work anymore. But the things was facing so many Viet girls around how can you grab a tree and forgo the forest

All is "Ni Qing Wo Yuan"....Remember if your DICK head not so itchy, today things wont happen at all....('',) !!!

So It's all up to you, and no one are able to help you too...^_^

cheers VK

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by v.killers

Hahahaha....I can feel it when I look at your face msging her Nothing is going to prevent her from seeing other man...Only solution is get married dont let her work anymore. But the things was facing so many Viet girls around how can you grab a tree and forgo the forest

All is "Ni Qing Wo Yuan"....Remember if your DICK head not so itchy, today things wont happen at all....('',) !!!

So It's all up to you, and no one are able to help you too...^_^

cheers VK

yes my dick is itchy, that is why i am in this situation. though now I put in feeling in this game, my head is still clear, so i won't marry her. There is already a good one in HCMC waiting for me for 2 years 9 mths liao.

this tree is now in Sillypore, so i can forgo the forest at the moment. Once she is back in HCMC, I will be back hunting in our playground. 2 more weeks. Afterwhich I will need to plan and create stories so as to breakup with her and still maintain a good guy image.

It is diffcult to stop her from seeing other man outside her workplace unless I am always with her. but I don't mind as long as she tells me, which she did actually. I told her i am jealous at the way she and this guy is talking on the phone and meeting up with him. She is happy that i am jealous. bo tay. After a night of thinking, I would say that my ego play a big part in the way I feel yesterday. Just wanna make sure she dun go bonking with other guys except me for this 1 month.

Anyway, i lost this KC game because it seems like i am the one who needs her more than she needs me. I never had this kind of feeling with all other gals...

[Harvest]

A Quick Reference Guide to:
Top 10 Signs That You Have Fallen Into the KC Trap

Beginning Stage

1) You kept thinking of her after the sexual event every waking moment

2) You are overjoyed when she sent you a SMS and can't wait to reply immediately

3) The moment your pay comes in, you rushed to the ATM to withdraw $$$ for an urgent RTF

Intermediate Stage

4) You look at her SMSes everywhere you go... driving, shitting, working, watching TV etc. and can't sleep at night... thinking of her

5) You start dating her out for makan, sight-seeing, pubbing, movies, FOC bonks etc on a regular basis

6) You got disappointed when she did not call/SMS for a day... and start wondering if she has other lovers too

7) You get anxious whenever she calls in sick, or heard a man's voice in the background, or detected something that is out of the norm

Advanced Stage

8) You start to give her more and more $$$ upon her requests giving her the benefit of doubt, even though your wallet hurts

9) You become posessively jealous and suspicious, checking on her every now and then.

10) You decided to quit commercial sex for her sake! Holy Cow. Who do you think you are? KC Superman saving a damsel in distress??

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Harvest

A Quick Reference Guide to:
Top 10 Signs That You Have Fallen Into the KC Trap

Intermediate Stage

4) You look at her SMSes everywhere you go... driving, shitting, working, watching TV etc. and can't sleep at night... thinking of her

5) You start dating her out for makan, sight-seeing, pubbing, movies, FOC bonks etc on a regular basis

6) You got disappointed when she did not call/SMS for a day... and start wondering if she has other lovers too

7) You get anxious whenever she calls in sick, or heard a man's voice in the background, or detected something that is out of the norm

Advanced Stage
9) You become posessively jealous and suspicious, checking on her every now and then.

i m in the Intermediate Stage + point 9

[rogerlim]

bro harvest came up with an FAQ on KC, nice! 2 thumbs up!

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by Harvest

A Quick Reference Guide to:
Top 10 Signs That You Have Fallen Into the KC Trap

Beginning Stage

Intermediate Stage

Advanced Stage

10) You decided to quit commercial sex for her sake! Holy Cow. Who do you think you are? KC Superman saving a damsel in distress??

Well said.... This man definately a "Lau Jiao"

Guess you had been thru this kind of situation before rite

Cheers VK

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

i m in the Intermediate Stage + point 9

Troi oi...I used to be like you

There is once my bx came back after working, this guys call her for more than 30 times non-stop BOT TAY !!!!

Make me feel like taking up the call and "FARK" him up

Guess this is what you called JEALOUS !!!! ^_^

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by v.killers

Troi oi...I used to be like you

There is once my bx came back after working, this guys call her for more than 30 times non-stop BOT TAY !!!!

Make me feel like taking up the call and "FARK" him up

Guess this is what you called JEALOUS !!!! ^_^

troi oi, a co nhieu bx ha?
1 con gai o HCMC, a keu bx. Gio con gai lam o sin, a cung keu bx.
e chi co 1 bx ma nhieu ban gai thoi

I tot you did pick up the phone and fcuk him proper. When my gal was here in my house for the first 5 days of her arrival, no one keep bombing her phone. Maybe they dun noe she arrived. I shall see how issit this weekend. She will be staying at my house again for 3 days.

If there is anyone calling her and disturbing my sleep, I will fcuk him proper. Not jealousy but it is my ego... just to let them know that she is staying over with me and to stop KCing her.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by Harvest

A Quick Reference Guide to:
Top 10 Signs That You Have Fallen Into the KC Trap

10) You decided to quit commercial sex for her sake! Holy Cow. Who do you think you are? KC Superman saving a damsel in distress??

This is interesting.. I have almost quit for various reasons.

Anyway, I maintain the stance that IF my presence means that she will be better taken care of in whatever way I am prepared to.. then I will continue inspite of anything

However, IF my presence is going to cost her issues in anyway and I feel that her needs will be better served without me... I will fade away.

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

Anyway, i lost this KC game because it seems like i am the one who needs her more than she needs me. I never had this kind of feeling with all other gals...

Perhaps you have met your "THE ONE".

Originally Posted by v.killers

Guess you had been thru this kind of situation before rite

Yup, 10 years ago I "quitted" GL for her sake for... 9 months!!

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Anyway, I maintain the stance that IF my presence means that she will be better taken care of in whatever way I am prepared to.. then I will continue inspite of anything

However, IF my presence is going to cost her issues in anyway and I feel that her needs will be better served without me... I will fade away.

Bro Ken, easy to say "I will fade away" but when time comes it will be very hard to do. In KC, there is really no such thing as "fading away" one esp if you are in the Advanced Stages of KC addiction. The strong emotional bonding will definitely pull you back into the cycle all over again. The only cure is to go COLD TURKEY.

[juzplay]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

This is interesting.. I have almost quit for various reasons.

Anyway, I maintain the stance that IF my presence means that she will be better taken care of in whatever way I am prepared to.. then I will continue inspite of anything

However, IF my presence is going to cost her issues in anyway and I feel that her needs will be better served without me... I will fade away.

erhhh.. u getting emotional huh...

Well, to share a story from my friend.

Met the girl, fall in love and they were quite alrite but in the end, girl decided to get BY as money is more impt...

Tat bro left the scene for her but in the end, regardless of wat happened, they still can't be together

Bro Ken... u take care. Call me if you need a drinking partner

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

troi oi, a co nhieu bx ha?
1 con gai o HCMC, a keu bx. Gio con gai lam o sin, a cung keu bx.
e chi co 1 bx ma nhieu ban gai thoi

I tot you did pick up the phone and fcuk him proper. When my gal was here in my house for the first 5 days of her arrival, no one keep bombing her phone. Maybe they dun noe she arrived. I shall see how issit this weekend. She will be staying at my house again for 3 days.

If there is anyone calling her and disturbing my sleep, I will fcuk him proper. Not jealousy but it is my ego... just to let them know that she is staying over with me and to stop KCing her.

Troi oi...BX nhieu nhieu cung kg sao dau ma em oi

I pick up the call that was the next day already, because he still keep calling Guess he is being K-Ced by my BX ?

Well, I already told her not to do such thing anymore, like that will hurt many ppl de

Cheers VK

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by Harvest

Yup, 10 years ago I "quitted" GL for her sake for... 9 months!!

Bro Ken, easy to say "I will fade away" but when time comes it will be very hard to do. In KC, there is really no such thing as "fading away" one esp if you are in the Advanced Stages of KC addiction. The strong emotional bonding will definitely pull you back into the cycle all over again. The only cure is to go COLD TURKEY.

Hahaha...My guess was correct

Agreed with the addiction thingys... Got to be strong if you really want to let her go

[HCKing]

poor me still stuck at pt 3 only, want to advance also cannot cos $$ always no enough.

but on 2nd thought, might be better off this way though.

[rogerlim]

Try not to fall into the trap leh..