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Originally Posted by soccerfreak
Hey guys, I've been surfing here for while awhile now. Married for 3 yrs with a little child. I know we are all here in this forum for a reason. But just wanna check if you feel any guilt when you visit ML or FL? I don't do FL, mainly cause I'm scared, but have been visiting MLs for quite a while. Probably like once a month. Every time I scan thru the forum, I get very excited and gian. I go for it, the moment I shoot out, guilt creeps in. Obviously I know I shouldn't be doing this, but I can't help feeling guilty.
I will tell myself this is the last time..but few weeks later, I'm bored and surf the forum and the whole thing repeats.
Just wondering if any of u feel the same? How u cope with it? Some MLs even tell me it is fine. Your wife will never massage u like that, will never give u a hand job like that...men all need release. But I feel that's probably coz they from China and more open minded...Singaporean wives will never think this way lor...
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Is it guilt or fear that what will happen if you get caught.
I also had similar feelings when I started but I realised it was more of a fear.
After you go a few rounds you need something more exciting and a little more wild.
The fear goes away slowly the more experience you get.
However if you are really feeling guilty then may be you should stop chionging , otherwise the guilty feelings are notorious to come out when you are least expecting..