Happiness / family - Page 2

Naughtyb9y · #16 12-04-2015, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by porscheclub

Why are you so obsessed with an ex? Is sex that great or her personality? She's EX for a reason otherwise you would've married her.

Remember. We grow old & so will the women. Once they hit menopause, our sex life will go negative so worry about that more!

Personailty. Never had sex with her throughout the dating.

Naughtyb9y · #17 12-04-2015, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Intltuk

TS, u for real or not? ur early posts in 2013 u intro urself as 18yr old looking to host couples, now u married with kid????
http://sammy.services/showthr...=#post10079556

As other bros have stated, u seemed to be the problem and not ur wife. U are adamant about going with ur ex. Well, if u don't heed their advice.......then u've to live with the consequence.

You think I will waste time and joke on this? I might as well take the time and effort to go and write story earn points if I were to joke. Yes, I know I'm the problem here.

korean · #18 12-04-2015, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Naughtyb9y

I still have feeling for my ex-girlf. We still keep in contact , Somehow we know there's still love between us.

your situation quite similar to mine many years ago, I only held hand with my ex at most, not even hug.

how do u know she still love u?

Intltuk · #19 12-04-2015, 01:21 PM

If u're for real, the 1st step, which u've taken is to admit u're the problem; which u did. Unfortunately, from ur writings, ur problem seems like it requires a Psychologist/professional counsellor's help to sort out conflicting thoughts and set ur priorities right.

Good luck in ur search for the right path.

Naughtyb9y · #20 12-04-2015, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by korean

your situation quite similar to mine many years ago, I only held hand with my ex at most, not even hug.

how do u know she still love u?

We still keep in contact once in a blue moon. At times we will talk about the past that we gone through. Recapping about the past and she told me if she have the chance to choose again, she will choose me. Sadly I'm married with child if not I would have got back together with her.

Till now where she have to make a big decisions in life, she would also ask me for advice to proceed instead of asking her current boyf

Naughtyb9y · #21 12-04-2015, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Intltuk

If u're for real, the 1st step, which u've taken is to admit u're the problem; which u did. Unfortunately, from ur writings, ur problem seems like it requires a Psychologist/professional counsellor's help to sort out conflicting thoughts and set ur priorities right.

Good luck in ur search for the right path.

Yes, thanks for your advice

porscheclub · #22 12-04-2015, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Naughtyb9y

Yes bro.. I understand.. I know that she's a gold to keep. But love is spinning me around. I also wish to substain the family. Only advantage to all of my family and her. No disadvantage to us. Thank you bro, at least something to enlighten me

Well, if you can handle then keep the family & have few women

Naughtyb9y · #23 12-04-2015, 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by porscheclub

Well, if you can handle then keep the family & have few women

This is gonna be the best bro!!! But very tiring leh, having so much to hide.. Need to jagar all side very well lol

korean · #24 12-04-2015, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Naughtyb9y

We still keep in contact once in a blue moon. At times we will talk about the past that we gone through. Recapping about the past and she told me if she have the chance to choose again, she will choose me. Sadly I'm married with child if not I would have got back together with her.

Till now where she have to make a big decisions in life, she would also ask me for advice to proceed instead of asking her current boyf

I choose not to talk about the past with my ex eventhough there are a lot of questions in my mind what was really happening during the separation coz I try to avoid to be in your current situation

Are you sure presently she still love you? Or she just want to retain ambiguous relationship with u since she got bf now. did she say she prefer u than her bf?

Naughtyb9y · #25 12-04-2015, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by korean

I choose not to talk about the past with my ex eventhough there are a lot of questions in my mind what was really happening during the separation coz I try to avoid to be in your current situation

Are you sure presently she still love you? Or she just want to retain ambiguous relationship with u since she got bf now. did she say she prefer u than her bf?

Wah bro, our situation very alike haha!
Before we catch up, me and my ex also have lots of question marks in between. That's where we found out that we actually regretted our decisions to break back then.

Yes bro, she claims to. Ya, she prefer me among all.

korean · #26 12-04-2015, 02:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Naughtyb9y

Wah bro, our situation very alike haha!
Before we catch up, me and my ex also have lots of question marks in between. That's where we found out that we actually regretted our decisions to break back then.

Yes bro, she claims to. Ya, she prefer me among all.

My advice is either stay away from her e.g. not meeting her, lesser contact via any mean,

Or you propose to her to have relationship while maintaining ur current marriage first, (up to her whether she wanna maintain her current relationship with her bf). She may or may not accept.

It is just a matter of time one of the option will be chosen, whether u like it or not, as well u expedite now to be move you out of this ambiguity situation unless you enjoy it

For me I chose the option 1.

excm69 · #27 12-04-2015, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Naughtyb9y

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Yes bro, she claims to. Ya, she prefer me among all.

Hmm.. just wondering, maybe your ex is the problem?

JoannaJourney · #28 13-04-2015, 12:53 PM

Hi TS,

Actually you already know the answer.

You do not need any advice from fellow samsters here, just their support to affirm your answer in order to put it to action.

It is never easy to get involved in an affair while maintaining your marriage. No woman like to share her man, if she truly love him.

Would you mind if your ex keeps her current bf and at the same time start an affair with you?

urgg · #29 13-04-2015, 01:08 PM

TS,

Don't be a naughtyboy.. You already mentioned that ur wife is a good wife/dil/mother.. u still want to steal eat outside..

You mentioned that your wife is sensitive.. she is right! her six sense is good.. u cannot deny that ur actually planning something naughty.. I dunno but u must have did something to make her feel sensitive.. Dun live to regret..

This is just my opinion..
Good luck to you.

a2014 · #30 13-04-2015, 01:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Naughtyb9y

We still keep in contact once in a blue moon. At times we will talk about the past that we gone through. Recapping about the past and she told me if she have the chance to choose again, she will choose me. Sadly I'm married with child if not I would have got back together with her.

Till now where she have to make a big decisions in life, she would also ask me for advice to proceed instead of asking her current boyf

TS, what make you made that decision of marrying a different girl at that point in time or you med your ex-gf some time later. What you have described was that you current wife is good but you long for someone else.

No harm still keeping in contact however avoid keeping in frequent meetup as you are not able to control your emotion. You already have a happy family and a daughter guess sex is not a problem to you at all and she is a decent wife so why rock the boat, what make you thing that the next girl is better.

When you don't get something that you longing for it, you will always feel that the grass at the other piece of land is greener.

Take Care.