For the married : What your lover/mistress did to threaten you? - Page 2

England · #16 21-10-2005, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by teraterm55

the worse i got was
she will post my picture and number on the net and in her blog to tell everyone what a jackass i am... problem is she is just turned legal when we first encounter. and she could actually lie abit it and get me into trouble.... so damn stressed. lucky now she run off with a ahbeng on bike.

The second worse one i got was this PRC chick who treaten to tell the dean about our relationship if i dont let me visit my parents... 2 way also die.. meet my parents i DIE.. she tell the dean i lose my teaching job...
lucky the dean is understanding.

The third one i got now is "I love you, if you dont marry me i will kill myself"
anyone knows how to answer this.. because now i am lost.... DIE liau. play until fire burn ass.

Bro, you master of playing fire. Few times also never die mah. Are you sure you in teaching profession. I thought you are a Fire-Eater

Tiger Beer · #17 25-10-2005, 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by teraterm55

the worse i got was
she will post my picture and number on the net and in her blog to tell everyone what a jackass i am... problem is she is just turned legal when we first encounter. and she could actually lie abit it and get me into trouble.... so damn stressed. lucky now she run off with a ahbeng on bike.

The second worse one i got was this PRC chick who treaten to tell the dean about our relationship if i dont let me visit my parents... 2 way also die.. meet my parents i DIE.. she tell the dean i lose my teaching job...
lucky the dean is understanding.

The third one i got now is "I love you, if you dont marry me i will kill myself"
anyone knows how to answer this.. because now i am lost.... DIE liau. play until fire burn ass.

Bro, you really have a very colourful history.... It's damn tiring and also challenging.

LonelyLad · #18 26-10-2005, 10:26 AM

My two pence of advice for all bros..
1`. Use another phone no. for all activities...
2. Never disclose your address..

I never give my normal phone no. to any gal I find I want to bonk.. this would avoid detection and unnecessary phone calls. Just get a top up card and it works well.. a second phone is cheap nowadays.
I always make it a point to remove my house season parking label from my car whenever I go out but cos I have a few cars.. it is easier.
Print another set of name cards... put on fictitious address etc but with a mailing address for impressions.. my cards show my company is an off shore company incorporated in the British Virgin Islands.

By doing so.. i never get the problems..
Hope this is good for all u guys

Frankiestine · #19 26-10-2005, 10:42 AM

I had an affair for about a year well cannot really say it is a year cos we broke up and got back together again but that is another story....for my mistress...i hate that word cos make me seems like a rich man with a kept woman...no she was more like an gf to me....everything we did was just like two love birds in the early days of romance...we even had time to steal away for holidays together...sometimes cannot help but wonder how i managed to do all that....yes she knew where i stayed and my contacts but not once did she ever threaten me with this...the times when she missed me and I couldn;'t be with her, she just cry her heart out to me.....the only time i ever felt threaten was when she wanted to leave as she just felt lousy in such a relationship and of all the things she signed up with a dating service agency to get to know guys...yeah i even caught her with one of them when he send her home...so in a way she was using them to put some pressure on me so that i can give her a commitment....

mccormick · #20 26-10-2005, 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by deepthroat

Bro,

Lucky for me, I've not been threaten by my few flings(my threads-2 yr with office girl) before. So far, I've always make this point clear that I won't leave my family for her(lover) or whatever happen before we start off.
Those lovers I had are usually someone I knew for a while and I'll only venture further after knowing that she's not those who'll wreck my family.
So far so good, even with this present one.....ha ha.

bro deepthroat.... not to pour cold water on you lah... but then hor, when a women gets too obsessed, she does things to ur surprise and break the rules of the game.... sigh~~~

K123456 · #21 26-10-2005, 11:25 AM

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Originally Posted by LonelyLad

My two pence of advice for all bros..
1`. Use another phone no. for all activities...
2. Never disclose your address..

I ys

Could not agree more.
what I do is to buy another pre-paid phone card and divert all my calls from my existing number to the new number when going out to cheong.
That way, if family or friends calls me, they will still reach me and when I give the girls the number (miss call or SMS) it will be from the pre-paid number.

And then give excuse that you travel a lot when I am not going out to cheong and wants to have time with family. That way, the girl will know that you are only in town for a few days in a month. And they don't bother you when you need time off.