Gf doesn't like any kind of intimacy

[xmodconnects]

Ts, dont need to ask us. For the fact that u ask, chances are you already cannot take it and have been tolerating for quite a while. At the end of the day, relationships have to satisfy needs from both sides, regardless of the nature of the need. Life is so short, why waste time being unhappy?????

[gmpc]

If you love your gf you will not have ask for such thing... just respect her decision... If she wants, she will not stop... She will dry you up everyday....

[chengzc]

Ts not to pour cold wAter on you. I have a friend who got a gf like that also. End up we caught the girl cheating behind my friend.

I hope won't happen to you.

[Taramis]

Originally Posted by ViperX7

My gf and I have been dating for around 2 years now. We do hug and kiss but she doesn't like any other kind of intimacy. We french kiss once in a while but she doesn't like it.

Once while we were frenching, I move my hands to touch her boobs. She immediately stopped me and became very angry. She said that these places are private and said that I did not respect her.

Maybe she is saving herself for marriage to the right guy.

[sinseh]

TS... you say you date for 2 years?
I must say that perhaps you do not know how to turn her on? Perhaps you are too direct? Try some wine-dine-romance like K-Drama?

I have an experience like yours, dated a girl who was not used to intimacy and sex. In the first 2 months, we hardly even kissed and french kissed. However, slowly, bit by bit, I opened her up by being nice and ultra-nice. I showered a lot of attention on her and made her feel happy and carefree. After that, she surprised me one afternoon by waking up and then coming straight on to me with a freaking wet pussy! I proceeded to have sex that was initiated by her.

After that, when I asked her, she said that she has never felt anyone that showed so much care and concern for her and that it felt just right and its the right time. So, right now, I am having the best sex of the relationship, 4 months later.

I highly suggest you do not pressure her and take it easy. Just try to be extra and ultra-nice. It will work. I swear!

[bochapsing]

if u love her, she loves u...

and u think she is a good girl, and will be a good wife, good mother, good daughter-in-law etc etc in future...

then u pray hard that she will change after marriage....

if suay suay she doesn't change, then u just have to outsource the "sex" part...

[sarahxx]

yeh i agree w big sexy she sounds like a very decent girl, and there's nth wrong with that. both ur values and needs are different thts why ure in this situation.

ull need an open conversation with her, telling her ur needs and desires. she might be afraid that once she starts to let u fondle her boobs, one thing may lead to another and eventually sex. she doesn't seem comfy w that, so i think it'll be good to set certain boundaries (what u shld do n what u shldnt) as well as find out what she really wants to make her feel at ease. if she's still persistent that she doesn't want any form of intimacy, then any advances u make on her, she's gna take it as ure disrespecting her.

it all boils dwn to how much u love her and how much u can tahan not being intimate..

[crazyivan6636]

She's not the type who enjoys a good bang.

In the future, she's not going to be the person that will take you in the mouth and swallow with a bright smile. Or will she give you a good hard ride on top till you cum all over in her. The rough sex and banging her brains out will never happen.

These girls will just lie there like a dead fish while you unload on your own in a rubber inside her and then go to bed. Once you have kids, all complaints will come up and she will distance from allowing you to eat her as it becomes a chore. You will end up spending more money eating outside and if you get caught an expensive divorce coz she will stand by her family's side and make you the bad guy.

If you enjoy banging chicks, then get a good one that is experienced, who may though not be a virgin but are like minded and can satisfy both parties.

[crazyivan6636]

Chicks like these are a sucker for rubber. Will never get on the pill or let you blow your load inside her unless its your wedding night where she get's it for the first time or when parents in law start to complain why no grand kids yet.

It will just be one day where she lets you shoot it all inside and she get's knocked up with your 1st child and the routine continues.

Just watch that once you get your first kid, she will not take care of it and want to go back to work and socialise. your parents in law will end up taking care of it. Also she will not like to be seen with kids in public.

She will also give you the excuses that 1 is enough.

[embracez]

i am sure you already know the answer posting here in this forum

you are probably looking for affirmation.

but i guess it really depends on you. if you are those who can do without sex then go ahead. but it would be likely since you do come this forum

so yep, keep your doors open !

[Intltuk]

TS, She has been taught tat pre-marital sex and heavy petting before marriage is a no no.

Have u explore with her if this is something she will be comfortable with once married?? Discuss with her and then decide wat u want to do.

[TreakSYT]

Very sad to say that i am glad that i am not the only one.
My gf before marriage also cannot have sex, only do like 2 or 3 times in 5 years.
But she is not bad in other areas just that really low sex drive

Finally i marry her, hope that things will be better because got house already got privacy. But still the same. Intitially ask her for sex, lie down there like dead fish, ask her to change position, she said she is not prostitute, dun want to change. Sibei sian, angry and upset, i just withdraw my cock and dun do anymore.

After 3 years, i find that our relationship without baby feel like is not complete. Tell her i want baby so need to do. Tried a few times but always not successful because she is too dry and also i am totally not aroused. She will lie down there, i stripped her. Ask her do bj she will say no. Only thing she can do is lick my nipple with laziness for less than a minute. Hard for a while and soft again. Sibei sian. I tried to lick her hoping that she will return favour, but she dun bath, i never find myself able to do that. I tried to finger her, she feel itcy and say its wasting time and just proceed to lick my nipple just want to hurry up finish the sex so that she can continue to do her work.

I never brought up the divorce topic to her although it always crosses my mind. I also feel guilty to do that to her just simply because she has no sex drive. I also tried to give her suggestion like change to a less stressful job but she will instead ask me to find a even better job so that she can quit.

In order to have baby i tried to have pill so that i can just routinely insert and just get the job done. I can only do with her every sat like a house rule.
Minus away mensus and she not feeling well, you can imagine how is my sex life.

My advise to the TS, its better to be guilty now than taking the chance. But its also very hard to know how your
Wife will behave until that happens. The chances of your gf like my situation seems high.

I also dun know what to do with my life too, maybe some experience bro can advise me too

[p00t]

Does sounds scary

[Slotti]

Two years is a long time as a couple not to engage in petting beside kissing.
Not sure but perhaps she has other doubts on her mind .
Time to reconsider your r/s if things doesnt improve sooner .

[xmodconnects]

alot of people say if u love her you will wait blah blah blah. all these fuckers stand on moral high ground and tell you to do this and that and make you feel bad for wanting to be intimate.

at the end of the day what is the difference between best girl and guy friends and bf or gf? a big part is physical intimacy. without it, you might as well be best friends. I can say i miss my best girl friend, and care for them etc, but i wont have physical intimacy with them.

Tell your gf she has been downgraded to best friend lol.