Curious about life, culture and women in LOS

[astreal69]

Originally Posted by Jessie

Thai ladies who are generally well brought up will also take their time to access a man. how to get past this stage when you are
1. Late 20s
2. Dont speak Thai
3. Income level unknown
4. No house or work in Thailand
The decent ladies also have their own criteria for choosing...unless u are getting WLs....

Criteria 1-4 are all within your control, it;s up to you to achieve it.

But i always believe in choosing a partner who will go through thick and thin with me and on my part i will show her likewise.

If things don't turn out what they are to be, then instead of blaming the whole world, i will blame on my judgement and move on with life.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by dyelook

i think maybe you don't read well or my english is hard for you to understand.. anyway sorry to geh boh your thread.. chok dee..



thanks for explaning for me, bro..

Bro, its fine lah, no need say sorry, Just manage ur funds well, you have the right to say no to some unimportant stuff man.... Like buying a bigger car even if u dun have more than 1 kid or buying a bigger house even though ur family household is small....

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by astreal69

I am in a relationship with my Thai GF for a long time. We are both financially stable and we are staying together. Does my gf cheat on me? Not that i know of. Do i want to find out? No..... Ignorance is bliss. Would i break up with her if i find out? Yes.... of cos, i am not an idiot. Would i be with her forever? Only god knows. To me, enjoy the journey and focus less on the destination. It applies the same to any girls around in the world.

I have so many friends who are happily married with their Thai wives and like any other Singaporean women, they are working in an MNC in Singapore helping to contribute to raise a family.

All thoes people who who complain about Thai women being Gold diggers, unfaithful and etc etc... are just like all the whiners in the world. Don't blame just her, you have a part to play in your poor judgement. Thoes who find a thai gf in places like Thai Disco, agogo, g-club etc etc, it's like playing with fire and complain you got burn. Any relationship starting with money transaction is a business arrangement, to keep business relations good, money is key, if there is no money, then obviously the relations cease to becomes pointless.

Not all Thai women worked in the night industry, not all women who worked in the night industry are bad. Same goes with not all women who work in the office are good women.
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Spot on, ignorance is bliss lah, when i cheat , i also will clean backside very well and not get caught hahahahahaha....

[stillgottheblue]

Hokkien say clean mouth but you clean backside, very funny hor...

[astreal69]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Spot on, ignorance is bliss lah, when i cheat , i also will clean backside very well and not get caught hahahahahaha....

I personally believe in karma, if i cheated and one day i found out my wife or GF cheated on me. I won't complain but accept the fact. It would be so hypocritical of me to cry foul wouldn't it.

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by astreal69

I personally believe in karma, if i cheated and one day i found out my wife or GF cheated on me. I won't complain but accept the fact. It would be so hypocritical of me to cry foul wouldn't it.

Bro stillgottheblue, Qi Ka Cheng(clean backside) is my way of saying lah lolx.... I more exposed to taiwan's Mi nan yu(hokkien) nowadays...

Bro astreal, karma is really scary, what goes around does come around. So if u wanna settle dont go out play liao, but then choose the right girl! dont blindly(love is blind but..) just accept any girl. I scorpio lah, more used to bachelor life, so i wont settle for casual BGR i guess....

[astreal69]

Originally Posted by mackewell

Bro stillgottheblue, Qi Ka Cheng(clean backside) is my way of saying lah lolx.... I more exposed to taiwan's Mi nan yu(hokkien) nowadays...

Bro astreal, karma is really scary, what goes around does come around. So if u wanna settle dont go out play liao, but then choose the right girl! dont blindly(love is blind but..) just accept any girl. I scorpio lah, more used to bachelor life, so i wont settle for casual BGR i guess....

I am retired! Its been years since i have plow the field. Still have to go G-club for Business entertainment reasons but the missus always know where i am.

[stillgottheblue]

Yes there are good and bad relationship. The context we are talking is not about those agogo, g-club and WL. At least I'm refering to "normal" Thai women and men, those not working in the night scene.

Having said that, I do know couples happily married with Thai wife, who are very hardworking and virtuous.

The whiners are those Ang Mohs, who find girls in bars and clubs and expect them to be angles while they themselves had flings everywhere. After being cheated, they published all their sobs stories and warnings on the internet for the whole world to see and expect pity and a pat on the back. From some of their comments it seems these Ang Mohs have huge ego, superiority and colonial mindset. These are real losers and whiners.

Originally Posted by astreal69

I am in a relationship with my Thai GF for a long time. We are both financially stable and we are staying together. Does my gf cheat on me? Not that i know of. Do i want to find out? No..... Ignorance is bliss. Would i break up with her if i find out? Yes.... of cos, i am not an idiot. Would i be with her forever? Only god knows. To me, enjoy the journey and focus less on the destination. It applies the same to any girls around in the world.

I have so many friends who are happily married with their Thai wives and like any other Singaporean women, they are working in an MNC in Singapore helping to contribute to raise a family.

All thoes people who who complain about Thai women being Gold diggers, unfaithful and etc etc... are just like all the whiners in the world. Don't blame just her, you have a part to play in your poor judgement. Thoes who find a thai gf in places like Thai Disco, agogo, g-club etc etc, it's like playing with fire and complain you got burn. Any relationship starting with money transaction is a business arrangement, to keep business relations good, money is key, if there is no money, then obviously the relations cease to becomes pointless.

Not all Thai women worked in the night industry, not all women who worked in the night industry are bad. Same goes with not all women who work in the office are good women.
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[flowbow]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

What dyelook says about LOS girls and their family is true. You have to take this into consideration. In any relationship, it's not only about 2 person. There are immediate family members getting involved sooner or later, so be prepared hor. Set your expectations right.

Yeah, in all relationships it's not only about two persons, but the difference between marrying a Thai wife and a SG wife is that SG wives don't expect you to take care of their whole family/village (in exaggerated terms, haha). Whereas it is often said that when you marry a Thai, you are marrying her whole family/village

Originally Posted by astreal69

I am in a relationship with my Thai GF for a long time. We are both financially stable and we are staying together. Does my gf cheat on me? Not that i know of. Do i want to find out? No..... Ignorance is bliss. Would i break up with her if i find out? Yes.... of cos, i am not an idiot. Would i be with her forever? Only god knows. To me, enjoy the journey and focus less on the destination. It applies the same to any girls around in the world.

Not all Thai women worked in the night industry, not all women who worked in the night industry are bad. Same goes with not all women who work in the office are good women.
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Well said bro. Upped you my humble one point.

[Jessie]

Not easy. We have our criterias while the other party also have her criterias. Difficult to find a decent girl without immersing yourself in Thailand and their culture for an extended period of time.

[stillgottheblue]

First ask for mobile number then can whatsapp and wechat
ขอใจเธอแลกเบอร์โทร kor jai tur laek ber tor
(sincerely ask her to exchange phone number)

[mackewell]

Originally Posted by Jessie

Not easy. We have our criterias while the other party also have her criterias. Difficult to find a decent girl without immersing yourself in Thailand and their culture for an extended period of time.

Its really not easy. Recently, i attended the ROM of one of my best bro as he married his viet gf after maintaining a long distance relationship for 3 years. There was a lot of trust issues and the only way u need this relationship to prosper is u either move other to their country or she come over to SG.

For me, i wont want stay in sg when i have money to retire. Its Too Expensive! thanks Garment! so guess the retirement visa in the our thai embassy in sg is waiting for me when i turned 50 man LOL.....

[astreal69]

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

Yes there are good and bad relationship. The context we are talking is not about those agogo, g-club and WL. At least I'm refering to "normal" Thai women and men, those not working in the night scene.

Having said that, I do know couples happily married with Thai wife, who are very hardworking and virtuous.

The whiners are those Ang Mohs, who find girls in bars and clubs and expect them to be angles while they themselves had flings everywhere. After being cheated, they published all their sobs stories and warnings on the internet for the whole world to see and expect pity and a pat on the back. From some of their comments it seems these Ang Mohs have huge ego, superiority and colonial mindset. These are real losers and whiners.

Well, actually what i am trying to say is people tend to over generalize. Just stating my own experiences, when my female singaporean friends know i have a Thai GF, they presume she is a working girl and i am a sexpat.

The world now is so dynamic and forward thinking, sterotyping is for people who gets left behind.

[astreal69]

Originally Posted by Jessie

Not easy. We have our criterias while the other party also have her criterias. Difficult to find a decent girl without immersing yourself in Thailand and their culture for an extended period of time.

What is you say is very true, it's very difficult to find a life partner, but why limit yourself to just Thailand?

Truth to be told, even after so many years here in Bangkok, there are still things that bewildered me in my daily life. I just brush it aside and say " Only in Thailand"

[stillgottheblue]

That is so true. My colleagues thought my female Thai friends are all WL and I have to pay for all the beers if I go drinking with Thai (men). Singaporeans generally judge a book by its cover.