Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
Recently got to know an American-educated PRC lady in my workplace; she came to get my contact no as she asked if I could help her with work. Tbh I didn't really check her out prior to that, but somehow our work convos on text led to discussions about our personal lives.
We had dinner together on one night, and it was fun, with lots of laughter. Then we proceeded to her house (she lived in a single bedroom unit) as I claimed my phone was running out of battery (I was half-hoping something would happen!)
So we continued to talk and joke, and I gave her a light massage, with me behind her. Then I went to hug her from the back and gave her some light pecks on her neck. She was actually surprised and rejected me outright, saying that she needed time to explore, blah blah blah... It sucks to be me, so it was damn sian, and I left her house blue-balled.
Subsequently, she texted me and asked if we could go for movies etc. This was clearly a warning sign that she wanted more from me - I simply want a FWB and not a girlfriend (as I've one already lol). But I still met her for dinner, and the convo was still fun. Once back at her house (I told her I wanted somewhere discreet, without our masks, so I could tell her serious stuff hehe), I clarified with her that I wasn't looking for emotional attachment , and preferred physical relationships.
She was clearly disappointed about it! Just shortly before I left, we had a hug... and that was when things became slightly heated. I gave her a peck and some nibbling on her neck, and she kind of surrendered and lay down on the bed for me to French kiss her neck. But once again she rejected me moving on to the next stage, though she also kissed me on the lips and licked my neck. We were unfortunately interrupted by her PRC friend, who was coming up to pass something to her. So I left blue-balled for the second time LOL!
I haven't texted her since then, as this happened a few days earlier. Bros, any suggestions? She's clearly ok with the physical part despite denying it. But I'm afraid of the emotional intimacy that she wants (which I clearly don't!). Really want to get into her pants - she's very tall and slim, and damn I just want to feast on her tummy and legs!
Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
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Originally Posted by a380
Recently got to know an American-educated PRC lady in my workplace; she came to get my contact no as she asked if I could help her with work. Tbh I didn't really check her out prior to that, but somehow our work convos on text led to discussions about our personal lives.
We had dinner together on one night, and it was fun, with lots of laughter. Then we proceeded to her house (she lived in a single bedroom unit) as I claimed my phone was running out of battery (I was half-hoping something would happen!)
So we continued to talk and joke, and I gave her a light massage, with me behind her. Then I went to hug her from the back and gave her some light pecks on her neck. She was actually surprised and rejected me outright, saying that she needed time to explore, blah blah blah... It sucks to be me, so it was damn sian, and I left her house blue-balled.
Subsequently, she texted me and asked if we could go for movies etc. This was clearly a warning sign that she wanted more from me - I simply want a FWB and not a girlfriend (as I've one already lol). But I still met her for dinner, and the convo was still fun. Once back at her house (I told her I wanted somewhere discreet, without our masks, so I could tell her serious stuff hehe), I clarified with her that I wasn't looking for emotional attachment , and preferred physical relationships.
She was clearly disappointed about it! Just shortly before I left, we had a hug... and that was when things became slightly heated. I gave her a peck and some nibbling on her neck, and she kind of surrendered and lay down on the bed for me to French kiss her neck. But once again she rejected me moving on to the next stage, though she also kissed me on the lips and licked my neck. We were unfortunately interrupted by her PRC friend, who was coming up to pass something to her. So I left blue-balled for the second time LOL!
I haven't texted her since then, as this happened a few days earlier. Bros, any suggestions? She's clearly ok with the physical part despite denying it. But I'm afraid of the emotional intimacy that she wants (which I clearly don't!). Really want to get into her pants - she's very tall and slim, and damn I just want to feast on her tummy and legs!
Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
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Originally Posted by tuyp
So i reconnected back with a FWB turn normal friends after got friendzoned. I had feelings for her so got rejected but i didnt remove or block her and instead we text every month or so.
Started meeting up once a month for drinks/dinner/lunch 3 months back and did hint from time to time about how good the sex was.
So went with dinner on Friday, had drinks and kbbq dinner. She wore a sexy spag strap which shows her cleavage and tight denim jeans. Probably the hottest girl at the drinking place that night
Supposed to send her back home but before i start the engine, she asked if she smells like bbq, i went to smell her hair and her neck and said no, she smelled like beautiful roses. She then smelled my neck and started to lick my neck.
Took the hint,drove to a hotel nearby and had a good round before sending her home
So don't burn bridges and keep in touch. Never know what's gonna happen.
Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
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Originally Posted by a380
Recently got to know an American-educated PRC lady in my workplace; she came to get my contact no as she asked if I could help her with work. Tbh I didn't really check her out prior to that, but somehow our work convos on text led to discussions about our personal lives.
We had dinner together on one night, and it was fun, with lots of laughter. Then we proceeded to her house (she lived in a single bedroom unit) as I claimed my phone was running out of battery (I was half-hoping something would happen!)
So we continued to talk and joke, and I gave her a light massage, with me behind her. Then I went to hug her from the back and gave her some light pecks on her neck. She was actually surprised and rejected me outright, saying that she needed time to explore, blah blah blah... It sucks to be me, so it was damn sian, and I left her house blue-balled.
Subsequently, she texted me and asked if we could go for movies etc. This was clearly a warning sign that she wanted more from me - I simply want a FWB and not a girlfriend (as I've one already lol). But I still met her for dinner, and the convo was still fun. Once back at her house (I told her I wanted somewhere discreet, without our masks, so I could tell her serious stuff hehe), I clarified with her that I wasn't looking for emotional attachment , and preferred physical relationships.
She was clearly disappointed about it! Just shortly before I left, we had a hug... and that was when things became slightly heated. I gave her a peck and some nibbling on her neck, and she kind of surrendered and lay down on the bed for me to French kiss her neck. But once again she rejected me moving on to the next stage, though she also kissed me on the lips and licked my neck. We were unfortunately interrupted by her PRC friend, who was coming up to pass something to her. So I left blue-balled for the second time LOL!
I haven't texted her since then, as this happened a few days earlier. Bros, any suggestions? She's clearly ok with the physical part despite denying it. But I'm afraid of the emotional intimacy that she wants (which I clearly don't!). Really want to get into her pants - she's very tall and slim, and damn I just want to feast on her tummy and legs!
Just a pic of her here...
Continue with the same thing. Dinner -> her house ->WINE or any alcohol -> kissing/arousement.
But this time when y'all were getting into the heat of it, you break off first. Say something like sorry, I let the wine get to my head again.. you don't want it.. right? Some reverse psychology might work wonders
Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
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Originally Posted by a380
Recently got to know an American-educated PRC lady in my workplace; she came to get my contact no as she asked if I could help her with work. Tbh I didn't really check her out prior to that, but somehow our work convos on text led to discussions about our personal lives.
We had dinner together on one night, and it was fun, with lots of laughter. Then we proceeded to her house (she lived in a single bedroom unit) as I claimed my phone was running out of battery (I was half-hoping something would happen!)
So we continued to talk and joke, and I gave her a light massage, with me behind her. Then I went to hug her from the back and gave her some light pecks on her neck. She was actually surprised and rejected me outright, saying that she needed time to explore, blah blah blah... It sucks to be me, so it was damn sian, and I left her house blue-balled.
Subsequently, she texted me and asked if we could go for movies etc. This was clearly a warning sign that she wanted more from me - I simply want a FWB and not a girlfriend (as I've one already lol). But I still met her for dinner, and the convo was still fun. Once back at her house (I told her I wanted somewhere discreet, without our masks, so I could tell her serious stuff hehe), I clarified with her that I wasn't looking for emotional attachment , and preferred physical relationships.
She was clearly disappointed about it! Just shortly before I left, we had a hug... and that was when things became slightly heated. I gave her a peck and some nibbling on her neck, and she kind of surrendered and lay down on the bed for me to French kiss her neck. But once again she rejected me moving on to the next stage, though she also kissed me on the lips and licked my neck. We were unfortunately interrupted by her PRC friend, who was coming up to pass something to her. So I left blue-balled for the second time LOL!
I haven't texted her since then, as this happened a few days earlier. Bros, any suggestions? She's clearly ok with the physical part despite denying it. But I'm afraid of the emotional intimacy that she wants (which I clearly don't!). Really want to get into her pants - she's very tall and slim, and damn I just want to feast on her tummy and legs!
Just a pic of her here...
you are making the right moves so far, keep it up and you will likely succeed
Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
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Originally Posted by a380
Recently got to know an American-educated PRC lady in my workplace; she came to get my contact no as she asked if I could help her with work.
You are already so close, just need to keep it up.
I foresee you would proceed further and further with her. Keep us updated.
It is really great that you are so honest with her about not wanting the emotional part.
You might loose some potential catch, but those that carried-on usually become longer term FB.
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Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
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Originally Posted by a380
Recently got to know an American-educated PRC lady in my workplace; she came to get my contact no as she asked if I could help her with work. Tbh I didn't really check her out prior to that, but somehow our work convos on text led to discussions about our personal lives.
We had dinner together on one night, and it was fun, with lots of laughter. Then we proceeded to her house (she lived in a single bedroom unit) as I claimed my phone was running out of battery (I was half-hoping something would happen!)
So we continued to talk and joke, and I gave her a light massage, with me behind her. Then I went to hug her from the back and gave her some light pecks on her neck. She was actually surprised and rejected me outright, saying that she needed time to explore, blah blah blah... It sucks to be me, so it was damn sian, and I left her house blue-balled.
Subsequently, she texted me and asked if we could go for movies etc. This was clearly a warning sign that she wanted more from me - I simply want a FWB and not a girlfriend (as I've one already lol). But I still met her for dinner, and the convo was still fun. Once back at her house (I told her I wanted somewhere discreet, without our masks, so I could tell her serious stuff hehe), I clarified with her that I wasn't looking for emotional attachment , and preferred physical relationships.
She was clearly disappointed about it! Just shortly before I left, we had a hug... and that was when things became slightly heated. I gave her a peck and some nibbling on her neck, and she kind of surrendered and lay down on the bed for me to French kiss her neck. But once again she rejected me moving on to the next stage, though she also kissed me on the lips and licked my neck. We were unfortunately interrupted by her PRC friend, who was coming up to pass something to her. So I left blue-balled for the second time LOL!
I haven't texted her since then, as this happened a few days earlier. Bros, any suggestions? She's clearly ok with the physical part despite denying it. But I'm afraid of the emotional intimacy that she wants (which I clearly don't!). Really want to get into her pants - she's very tall and slim, and damn I just want to feast on her tummy and legs!
Just a pic of her here...
Just keeping doing it. dun let your own negative thoughts deny your opportunity, is Friday, go meet her up. You really got nothing to lose at all. The most she said no and you say "next". Good luck and keep us update.
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Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
My worst fear for gals are:
1 after a round of sex, she again asks for commitment, not just a one off or FWB. When you reject, she cries rape
2 she starts to behave weird, e.g. Stalking, or spreading words about the two of you and this goes back to your gf
Anyway, the ocean is big enough, plenty of fish, why let yourself be blue balls twice?
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Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
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Originally Posted by junior_cannibal
My worst fear for gals are:
1 after a round of sex, she again asks for commitment, not just a one off or FWB. When you reject, she cries rape
2 she starts to behave weird, e.g. Stalking, or spreading words about the two of you and this goes back to your gf
Anyway, the ocean is big enough, plenty of fish, why let yourself be blue balls twice?
same fear as you hence rather go for commercial pay and forget. however can't deny the thrill of wooing
Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
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Originally Posted by wantedbryan
same fear as you hence rather go for commercial pay and forget. however can't deny the thrill of wooing
Not exactly. There are also some who may not mind to be FWB, ONS.. Just that this particular one that's mentioned, I saw too many red flags, also, quite a cock teaser.
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Re: Anyone u sex with before that u never thought of....
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Originally Posted by junior_cannibal
Not exactly. There are also some who may not mind to be FWB, ONS.. Just that this particular one that's mentioned, I saw too many red flags, also, quite a cock teaser.
Yes bro...my dilemma. Many red flags but sometimes what you can't have makes you even want more...