Safe to travel alone with PRC GF back to China?

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by i_12_have_fun

...she does not have any personal details abt me, save for my mobile num. Now that is taking a risk, for her but not me. i can end it anytime i want without much to worry abt

All my overseas "GF" (esp those WL type) only had my phone number too, I stay in rented apartment alone so even those who visited me in Sg b4 won't be able to hunt me down if I wanna call it quit...

However, the point I like to make here is that sometimes... eh... often times I feel really bad for them to be taking all the risks. Especially when you know she's genuinely loving you and wanted u as husband material - I'll feel like a bastard still hanging on (lying) to them as their "BF" but really only going for her "companionShip" with a capital S. Anyone feel this way too?

When I initiate a break off, wah lao eh... all hell break loose and in fact I'm currently facing one situation where the gal want to jump off the building if I do

Ya, prostitues are for fucking, but we are really the Fuckers if we steal their heart to get what we want....

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by goodpartner

When I initiate a break off, wah lao eh... all hell break loose and in fact I'm currently facing one situation where the gal want to jump off the building if I do
Ya, prostitues are for fucking, but we are really the Fuckers if we steal their heart to get what we want....

Waah... good luck bro... For me, I am cautious b'coz I am frighten that my GF will be in this stage too.

I can play but not wif people's life

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Waah... good luck bro... For me, I am cautious b'coz I am frighten that my GF will be in this stage too.

I can play but not wif people's life

Well, if you ever got into the same shit like me above, this is what works for me if she "threaten to jump off a building", etc:

Be very stern and use strong tone to tell her off that if she wanna do it, go far far away (choose the tallest building) and do it when you're not around. Gals are lidat, they just want to drama in front of you, but if you're not around to witness it, she'll tone down.

Disclaimer: YMMV, Results are not typical. You know your gal better than anyone else. I know mine.

Otherwise if she knows that you're "frighten" because of that threat.... it's me who will be wishing you good luck

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

No lah... I tink I still slightly in better shape than TS.

Haiz... see how whether our love can fuel it lah

My local GF still hoping I will go back to her

Ya Bro for sure you in better shape than me, at least you don't your thoughts wander too much...

[lurpsexx]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

... needing to rush down to GL to see her everyday ....

Errmmm bro, you mind telling us where she now working in GL ah? Arbo we accidently go visit n engage her biz then damn paiseh to u leh... so better we avoid hurting ur feelings la...

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by lurpsexx

Errmmm bro, you mind telling us where she now working in GL ah? Arbo we accidently go visit n engage her biz then damn paiseh to u leh... so better we avoid hurting ur feelings la...

Aiyoh... better not know.. else more paiseh

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by azzaro23

Ya Bro for sure you in better shape than me, at least you don't your thoughts wander too much...

Tat's b'coz she is not in SG now... trust me, she not being here makes a world of a difference. When she was here, I was little better than you

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by lurpsexx

Errmmm bro, you mind telling us where she now working in GL ah? Arbo we accidently go visit n engage her biz then damn paiseh to u leh... so better we avoid hurting ur feelings la...

Y feel pai seh? It is expected that WL will be engaged by various customers including relatives, friends n so on...

[colins]

Originally Posted by i_12_have_fun

To share my personal experience, i have a 23 yrs old shanghainese girlfriend who is a OL. Bagged her as a vrigin and till now have not committed a single cent. So having a relationship there is possible. I travel a lot for work (various countries and twice for SH only last yr) and so we are maintaining a 'long distance' relationship. How i know she is true......she does not have any personal details abt me, save for my mobile num. Now that is taking a risk, for her but not me. i can end it anytime i want without much to worry abt

Hi bro, I'm curious at the type of relationship you are having with her?

[Heart Break Kid]

Originally Posted by naemlo

What is the different leh?? WL can also find a decent job and get salary end of the month and live decent life by herself. I find it crazy to give monthly allowance to so called gf and let the gf shake leg at home and only meet her once in awhile. Aren't this more like paid companion???

Agree..but what I know is most WL is not willingly to work decent jobs for low salary plus long hours. To them its all hardship

Originally Posted by aczeta76

I know.. so I dun do it yet... till I go to ZH and see her

Good for you

[aczeta76]

Aiyoh... I may still succumb to $$ KC after I see her in June.

She juz told me she miss me...as I told her I am in Indo for a event.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by naemlo

Y feel pai seh? It is expected that WL will be engaged by various customers including relatives, friends n so on...

To TS, if the WL really wants you as BF material and not for the money, one of the tell tale sign is that she'll be willing to stop working and just be with you, at least for this trip.

So it seems that she's still trying to make her trip worthwhile here by continueing working now? Hmm...

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

..but what I know is most WL is not willingly to work decent jobs for low salary plus long hours. To them its all hardship

This one I raise up both my arms and legs to agree too

Maybe there are still the 1% who falls into the scenario where they need lots of money urgently and has no other choice. But the other 99%, even if they are so-called conned to cum here to work in the KTV, have a LAZY mentality.

Compare them to those other PRCs who work decent job with low salary - there is no other excuse.

If you choose to be with one of those 99%, you'll find that it's almost impossible to change their LAZY mindset. So to TS, take the chance to test her on this aspect before you fall head over heels on her.

[azzaro23]

Originally Posted by aczeta76

Aiyoh... I may still succumb to $$ KC after I see her in June.

She juz told me she miss me...as I told her I am in Indo for a event.

Bro share with you something happen today, I mentioned b4 that she requested me to give her $2.5k she stop working & go back to China early with me?

I decided to give her the money. Reason being she got beaten up today by a 1st time customer of her.

When I immediately rush down this morn to see her my heart shattered... Her nose bridge was swollen, left eye blue black forehead & chin swollen. She cried hysterical when she saw me. I was so damm pissed off, I try calling my GL frs who known the ppl in GL to help me find this fellow & whack him. My Gf told me to let the matter rest she scared if the matter blow big she might not have a chance to come to singapore to see me again. So she rather suffering in slience...

How not to love such a woman?? That y i decided to give her the money to get her to stop working at GL....

[aczeta76]

Errh... she suffering has nothing to do with u loving her... If that is the case then it is pity.

But if she is hurt, take care of her hoh