Ever fall in love with a massage girl

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by UGotTalent

Their China Ang bao market rate is around RMB $50 to $100, S$10 to S$20, village will be worst, poor relatives will give less than S$5. Give her $28 will do for gd luck or RMB$100.

How u know thou? Anyway thanks. Good advice.
Will most probably give $28 then. Initially I was thinking maybe around $58 lol

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

While you wish your r/s is like FB or BFGF that has no string, FOC, she might not think likewise. If I were you, and if I used to bonk her not on a pay per session, then there's no big deal she's asking for a Angbao for CNY.
If you have been giving her money each time you bonk her, then the more an Angbao is no big deal.
If I were you, I would have prepared one but won't give her immediately upon meeting, but after the deed.
If she's more keen in getting the Angbao the moment you meet, then that explains itself. Also, it's even clearer if she opens the Angbao and complains the amount is too little. Then you can write her off leh.

It is a pay per session. Known her for 3 years + since 2020. But sad to say she’s always been a “money” person. 认钱。

Past few years CNY I acted “blur”
Didn’t give her any angbaos. Only go for her services. This year was the first time she came asking me for it.
What to do. Clearly PRC and most MLs treat us SG guys as Roberts and ATM. Must give angbaos. I rather give my own family, they come first

Noted and thanks for the advice. Angbao roughly about $28 then. As per another bro said. I shall see, see if this upcoming CNY Meetup; after giving her the $28, she will open up immediately or complain too little anot.

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by snake-eater

Bro, I think ML request give angpow is already considered lucky and normal. Last year when i met my ML on cny day 1, she wants me bring her go MBS shopping.knowing her taste,I may end up spending hundreds to thousands. In the end I drove drop her off and i find reasons to excuse myself.🤣

True. Agree with you. But then PRCs and most MLs
They treat us Singaporean guys as Roberts and ATM. Also many spoil market already, shower them with too much $$ and gifts.
My 2 cents worth

[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

It is very possible thing that is with regards to the title of this thread. There are bros who manage to achieve this. The point of getting into the relationship with the ML is not to pay for the sex. You do spend on her in some other ways like simple gifts, treat for meals etc, but it can be way lesser than to keep paying for it as a service outright.

If you have a place that you can use, you can also omit the entrance fees by bringing her back to keep with you. It's like bringing your gf back to spend the night. To reach this stage, it takes a lot of time and effort to build the chemistry. Actually it is quite the same as getting a real gf but much easier to start on the part about approaching the girl. It does not work on the MLs who already intend to earn from this, you need the suitable target, which are usually those which are neglected.

Your answer is very different from the bro 2 posts below yours LOL.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by ssd3469

Your answer is very different from the bro 2 posts below yours LOL.

That's because he kept it commercial by paying her instead of having a relationship. I don't want a commercial feel. It is boring and I can't get enough feel from a girl without chemistry. So I went further since I don't intention to change my regular ML. Of course, the part about paying for it later can be a risk especially if I leave her for another ML or got her pregnant, which the latter being the higher chance of happening.

[ssd3469]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

That's because he kept it commercial by paying her instead of having a relationship. I don't want a commercial feel. It is boring and I can't get enough feel from a girl without chemistry. So I went further since I don't intention to change my regular ML. Of course, the part about paying for it later can be a risk especially if I leave her for another ML or got her pregnant, which the latter being the higher chance of happening.

what do you mean by went further since you don't intention to change regular ML? Means went to find other ML instead of this ML?

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by ssd3469

what do you mean by went further since you don't intention to change regular ML? Means went to find other ML instead of this ML?

No intention to find another ML for the time being. Making it a relationship with this one than being just a customer which is the reason that omit her asking for tips.

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by evoralliart

It is a pay per session. Known her for 3 years + since 2020. But sad to say she’s always been a “money” person. 认钱。

Past few years CNY I acted “blur”
Didn’t give her any angbaos. Only go for her services. This year was the first time she came asking me for it.
What to do. Clearly PRC and most MLs treat us SG guys as Roberts and ATM. Must give angbaos. I rather give my own family, they come first

Noted and thanks for the advice. Angbao roughly about $28 then. As per another bro said. I shall see, see if this upcoming CNY Meetup; after giving her the $28, she will open up immediately or complain too little anot.

For all these ML or FL, it's all commercial.
I will be more worried when she does not want money but love it worst, marriage.

[UGotTalent]

Originally Posted by evoralliart

How u know thou? Anyway thanks. Good advice.
Will most probably give $28 then. Initially I was thinking maybe around $58 lol

Based on personal experience and I asked a few MLs from different province in China about the market rate. $28 易發...if she finds it too low, then it's proven that she is after your money and expects at least $100 ang bao from u...better drop her fast.

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

For all these ML or FL, it's all commercial.
I will be more worried when she does not want money but love it worst, marriage.

Yup. Very rare for an ML to take a liking to a customer, mostly commercial. We as a customer have to be super lucky to meet one that 不认钱。so as for my case for this ex ML. She is earning $$ only

Even if she’s not in this line anymore. I believe besides me, she did meet up with a few ex-customers outside also. Not for me to care. As I am talking about this ML, she’s not the type that will marry customers. But other things, no right for me to care already as I did quarrelled with her over such matters

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by UGotTalent

Based on personal experience and I asked a few MLs from different province in China about the market rate. $28 易發...if she finds it too low, then it's proven that she is after your money and expects at least $100 ang bao from u...better drop her fast.

Right. Thanks bro.
I will most probably give $28 then. This ML from Shandong province lol.

[hornyxiaoboy2]

Wallet must be very thick if u fallen into this

[junior_cannibal]

Originally Posted by evoralliart

Yup. Very rare for an ML to take a liking to a customer, mostly commercial. We as a customer have to be super lucky to meet one that 不认钱。so as for my case for this ex ML. She is earning $$ only

Even if she’s not in this line anymore. I believe besides me, she did meet up with a few ex-customers outside also. Not for me to care. As I am talking about this ML, she’s not the type that will marry customers. But other things, no right for me to care already as I did quarrelled with her over such matters

If the quarrel is due to her seeing other customers outside of her work, it ain't worth it.
In fact, she's either honest to admit it or you happen to catch her red handed.
As long as I get what I want, be it the company or sex, I wouldn't care if she's out with others.

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

If the quarrel is due to her seeing other customers outside of her work, it ain't worth it.
In fact, she's either honest to admit it or you happen to catch her red handed.
As long as I get what I want, be it the company or sex, I wouldn't care if she's out with others.

I didn’t catch her red handed but she didn’t deny when I happened to talk to her abt it.

Yea. Thanks bro. Guessed i get sex and company when I ask her out at times. Its just my turn to do her when she’s with me. It takes alot of heart to be as u said; you wouldn’t care less if she is out with others. But its been very long already, I still don’t feel good thinking she’s out with others when she’s not with me. Even as a friend point of view. For her good

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by junior_cannibal

If the quarrel is due to her seeing other customers outside of her work, it ain't worth it.
In fact, she's either honest to admit it or you happen to catch her red handed.
As long as I get what I want, be it the company or sex, I wouldn't care if she's out with others.

Originally Posted by evoralliart

I didn’t catch her red handed but she didn’t deny when I happened to talk to her abt it.

Yea. Thanks bro. Guessed i get sex and company when I ask her out at times. Its just my turn to do her when she’s with me. It takes alot of heart to be as u said; you wouldn’t care less if she is out with others. But its been very long already, I still don’t feel good thinking she’s out with others when she’s not with me. Even as a friend point of view. For her good

bro JB, you are level headed about this, I can't say this is true for all the bros. I have fallen into the shit storm before, and it sucked.
Forget honesty, you will catch her.
that's when you have to decide, how much pain are you willing to take, to stay or to go. Its simple but hard to do.

bro Evo, if you are talking about as a friend, for her good, and you don't feel good when she's out with others, perhaps you are already too close, and struggling to stay or go? I am guessing.

I was there, not a good place to be.