Wife & Sex - going through the motion

[Fade]

Oh suggestion to. U guys.. why not launch a reward system with ur wives. Afte a session say u promise to jaga the kids for a few hours while she goes to the salon.. a BJ in exchange for doing the laundry.. one shot gets 1 hour time-off away from kids 2 shots.. 3 shots etc.. but I know.. usually just one nagging or screaming and the wife gets all the above done minus the session.

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

you are not alone.... wife, FB, Xiao San, Mistress all become this way after time

Its only WL that can still give you the GFE and the AV star feel, but then because
1. They are experts, they do it daily with many different men 2. You are paying them

[ibanezjem555]

Originally Posted by angelhunter702

Well, all bros here are indeed lucky. Some had sex before marriage but not after kids. Some had sex before marriage but reduced significantly after marriage. I envy you all.

I didn't have once before marriage and thought she is waiting for us to have sex after marriage. 10 years of relationship and 2 years after marriage, guess what, I didn't even have sex once with her before but she cheated me once.

I love her and respect her as my life partner. I'm her best friend and so does she as mine. But I guess there is where it stops. I married my best friend. Hahaha~

Well, I had it once awhile outside (I guess I slept with 8 different FL so far), otherwise, it's just visit my favourite massage lady and let her jerk me off.

I did all this discretely and always feel guilty after that. Anyway, I guess this will go on till the rest of my life? Anyway, I'm now working overseas and busy coping with wife and life and never had sex for a loooong time.

So, cheer up bros, I guess I am the worse case by far.

Bro Angelhunter,
I read also I feel tu lan for you. Marry her and still in 'friend zone'.
Gotta move her into FB zone.
You provide for her, got car for her to be tai tai, London shopping
Cannot be karma la.. are you too nice to her ?

[angelhunter702]

Originally Posted by Fade

hmmm.. just wondering how u guys Initiated the session and under what circumstances that you got rejected?
Women are also visual creature.. are u guys cleanly shaved & Smelling good?
Good oral hygenie and look appealing to ur wife? Do U just anyhow grope her or gives warm cuddly loving hugs?? It's just a routine for u guys to cum but for ladies to orgasm and squirt it's a totally different level.

I did all sort of things, shaved, bathed, no bad breath, always looked clean and neat, always make her feel relaxed (good meal and good ambiance), coax her, surprised her with gifts from time to time, etc. I'm running out of idea now and I had given up to initiate at all now cause according to her, she is super low sex drive and not keen in sex at all. I did discuss this with her and she was like, "Well, you knew this before marriage and why you now you want me to change?". She claims that a marriage can be maintained without sex and we are the living proof. I was like, "Are we doing a PHD thesis or something to proof a new humanity discovery?".

Anyway, apart of sex, I still love her. She will be my life partner till my last breath. Well, take it as the karma hits back from my previous life.

[angelhunter702]

Originally Posted by ibanezjem555

Bro Angelhunter,
I read also I feel tu lan for you. Marry her and still in 'friend zone'.
Gotta move her into FB zone.
You provide for her, got car for her to be tai tai, London shopping
Cannot be karma la.. are you too nice to her ?

Thanks bro.
I doted her a lot and that's no doubt about it.
She claims that she sacrifice her career to be with me overseas without friends and relatives. So, I was like alright. So now I become the bad guy.
Well, I am always soft when come to girls. That's probably my weak point.

[NewPaper]

Originally Posted by Lenghtyshot

I ve been jerking off before I have my 1st gf in my poly days.
Got my nickname from my ns buddy due to my long lasting fuck before ejaculation.
Tot that I wont ve to use my hand anymore but after 10yrs of marriage with with 2 kids, I'm back to jerking again.
Wife totally not interested in sex at all. I suspect is the thingy she implant in her arm to prevent pregnancy. Everytime give same excuse, tired, stress, kids awake...etc until I dun bother to initiate anymore.

Last time if gf dun like to ve sex at least can change or find another. Now is like can only see , remember and imagine during jerking. sigh...
Really hope to find a FB rather then keep hunting high n low for best worthy FL.

Sometime wondering am I normal anot, Basically I need sex daily.

Very bad situation bro .... agree that we guys need a daily dose of sex

[latishame]

My baby is nearing six months old and my wife is still rejecting my advances. Tried almost everything, but still...

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by angelhunter702

. She claims that a marriage can be maintained without sex and we are the living proof.

Anyone that believe a marriage can remain strong without sex must be delusional and deceiving themselves.

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

Anyone that believe a marriage can remain strong without sex must be delusional and deceiving themselves.

This is fucking rubbish these fucked up spore women learn from feminists n Aware.

Saying their bodies are sacred.
N no obligations to fuck.
I suppose this means they can refuse to fuck husband but can fuck other men.

If they can unilaterally declare no sex, then husband can unilaterally declare no allowance etc lo
________
Exchange points fucking rubbish ma

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

Anyone that believe a marriage can remain strong without sex must be delusional and deceiving themselves.

Yes, totally agree wif wat bro Monster has said ...it is 1 of the most impt purpose of marriage..

[Fade]

Originally Posted by angelhunter702

I did all sort of things, shaved, bathed, no bad breath, always looked clean and neat, always make her feel relaxed (good meal and good ambiance), coax her, surprised her with gifts from time to time, etc. I'm running out of idea now and I had given up to initiate at all now cause according to her, she is super low sex drive and not keen in sex at all. I did discuss this with her and she was like, "Well, you knew this before marriage and why you now you want me to change?". She claims that a marriage can be maintained without sex and we are the living proof. I was like, "Are we doing a PHD thesis or something to proof a new humanity discovery?".

Anyway, apart of sex, I still love her. She will be my life partner till my last breath. Well, take it as the karma hits back from my previous life.

Wow...looks like u have married a Diva.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

Anyone that believe a marriage can remain strong without sex must be delusional and deceiving themselves.

that's spot on bro

but let me also expand, ANY relationship, gf, mistress, xiao san, fb, wife etc... the key factor to hold it together is sex.

[fringe929]

I feel more sad after reading all these... my wife is willing to perform her duties unlike most bro's partners here... but its me who cannot stand at all... only works if i take pill... i know i still want it... but just don't know why..... got me thinking of karma... young play too much liao.. now paying the price as yakult exhausted

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by fringe929

I feel more sad after reading all these... my wife is willing to perform her duties unlike most bro's partners here... but its me who cannot stand at all... only works if i take pill... i know i still want it... but just don't know why..... got me thinking of karma... young play too much liao.. now paying the price as yakult exhausted

try tcm many options, increase testerone

1. Tongkat Ali 2. Cordyceps 3. Juageng 4. Qigong massage 5. Seafood

[fringe929]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

try tcm many options, increase testerone

1. Tongkat Ali 2. Cordyceps 3. Juageng 4. Qigong massage 5. Seafood

Thanks bro... been taking but does'nt seem to help... maybe like another bro in sbf said ... wife not attractive enough liao lol

[Rickey]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

that's spot on bro

but let me also expand, ANY relationship, gf, mistress, xiao san, fb, wife etc... the key factor to hold it together is sex.

Can't agree wif u more bro Shadow_warrior ...Like wat u said !...v true ...it is sex tat binds a r/s betw a man & a woman close tgt n gives it meaning to go on