Wife & Sex - going through the motion

[Tomthefucker]

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Originally Posted by trinity_24160

Quite contrary, the romance starts to kick in when the kids grow up.
Cuz of empty nest syndrome and all, you two will suddenly have alot of two people world time, and all the lovey dovey come back again. But by then, duno if both body and health still in condition to have fun anot.

that is provided the marriage can last the distance till kids grow up...

[Ninjaron]

After reading so many bro's post, i can understand why bros work so hard, because money can buy us what we want when our wife cannot give us what we want....

I'm in the same plight, before marriage, already 2-3mths once, now 5mths and counting. Wanna see if can break record of 1yr.

We dont have kids, only a HDB in our name. I'm already thinking of divorce and thats also the reason why i'm not planning to have kids.

Work can at least give us a little satisfaction...

[RX300]

she had done her duty for you. give birth.

but you must not neglect your mental health... pay some fun....

[Window7]

Maybe we can hv a count.

Longest duration no sex with OC

1) Window 7 = 2 years.

[stone08]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

Bro believe me, woman they will never blame themselves. They have these self righteousness conceited beliefs that no matter how deprive a hub is, he must never ever eat the forbidden fruit. I been through this last year with oc, initially when first found out she willing to take part of the blame but after a while, she turn round and start blaming me. Thou more or less now she has simmer down but sex wise still no improvement.

yup, cant stand the self righteousness of women...especially with educated singapore woman...they feel they are entitled to be treated like queens...

some of them will just suck our blood dry..

[stone08]

Originally Posted by ice2001

Bro, totally agreed with you. You not bad 7 days got 1 fuck! mine is 15 days and 14 nights. Shangri-la somemore. Wtf! This year till date we never even fuck for 3 times.

Really envy those bros out there where their wife is so horny for them even with kids. And maybe they are not well off like some of us here. I rather be poor but have a normal sex life. Due to screw up life, donated around 400k to RWS and MBS.

somehow , the opposite sex doesnt realise that sex is so important to men...i pity those who cant even pcc at home with spousal approvals...

[tamtam]

Originally Posted by stone08

somehow , the opposite sex doesnt realise that sex is so important to men...i pity those who cant even pcc at home with spousal approvals...

Ya, till now i sometime ask myself, why i put myself in these misery ?
They don't want to do it, yet forbid us to do it outside, pcc also cannot coz is an insult to them.....How true !

Nowadays i don't quarrel anymore, most of the time i will be very soft spoken but very sacasitic. I even told her calmly many time...

" If you kept your CB shut, pls keep your mouth shut too, so don't nag ! "

And i just walk away or go out of the house and have fun.

[kfly]

Sharing my screwed sex life
Dating time
2-3 times a night regularly for almost a year.
Slowly we got closer and got married, she changes...
Less attentive towards her dress sense, way of speech got worse, behavioral changes, personal hygenie also less attention paid, letting out gas in front of me.(even during meals) I stop having sex with her,can't bring myself to it.
I agreed when couples got closer, do feel more at eased.
However I still believe we should still maintain certain level of well-being.

She have the cheek to ask why I no longer have regular sex with her?
I made some excuses to hide the truth in order not to hurt her, and I also did talk to her in an diplomatic way on this issue on a separate account.
So I put in effort in suggesting kinky stuff like car sex,loo sex,photoshoot, cosplay,toys,etc to spice up, yet the reply was;
dun wan la,wait people see,
Wait another Edison Chan/Gary ng
Wait neighbors hear
Dildo too big, dun like vibration
All reason she can come up with..till I gave up.
Yet she will still ask, why no sex with me?? Are you eating outside??
I was like KNN, WTF !?
you freaking behaves like a wet market Auntie,who doesn't care about well being and yet not open up for new stuff and you expected me to drill you every day!!!???
guys are still more of a visual mammal,in case you do not know.
So I tulan and start eating outside as she kept suspecting me.
I am in my early 30s, still have sex drive and lust but what can I do?

I just read a yahoo article couples of days back.
Subject was 8 reasons why man cheats.
I was nodding my head throughout the article.....

Originally Posted by doglike

Wait

[kfly]

Don't know why I quote d another bro's images, my apologies

BTW, I believe physical maintenance and grooming is necessary be it for. guys and gals
There's no ugly people,just lazy people.
I dress up, she will ask, why wear so nice? Who you meeting??

I was like............ CCB...
Apologies on my language used, but the frustration and suppressed anger leaks sometimes.
These are merely my own thoughts on my marriage,nothing against others who are reading this.

Cheers

[wolflust]

Reading all the stories from bros here, reminds of something my friend told me before. Sex before marriage was great, after that it seems to become like a duty or obligation (for both husband & wife).

Dated several girls and went through the whole crap of it in the end, haven't secured a life partner. Nowadays, I feel it ain't that bad staying single.

If need be, physical needs can be settled commercially or having a fling.

I have seen friends lose their freedom once they have girlfriends. No longer free to meet up even for a coffee, just because they need to accompany their gf for this and that.

I wonder if they ever read this thread like I do.

[sgiceboy]

Originally Posted by kfly

Don't know why I quote d another bro's images, my apologies

BTW, I believe physical maintenance and grooming is necessary be it for. guys and gals
There's no ugly people,just lazy people.
I dress up, she will ask, why wear so nice? Who you meeting??

I was like............ CCB...
Apologies on my language used, but the frustration and suppressed anger leaks sometimes.
These are merely my own thoughts on my marriage,nothing against others who are reading this.

Cheers

bro

at least yr wife still wants to have sex worrrrr....

mine is zero leh......

last yr sex was less than the fingers on my one palm....

[kfly]

Originally Posted by sgiceboy

bro

at least yr wife still wants to have sex worrrrr....

mine is zero leh......

last yr sex was less than the fingers on my one palm....

Yes bro, I see your situation and I feel for you.
For me is that I try to do it upon request, till eventually she no asking and we stop doing.
So after 4 years of marriage, we are behaving as no sex couple..of course once in a while we do it when I boh pian needs a pussy instead of my right hand

[SiliconVibrator]

Till now bro me is still single, of cos flings n FL! But din expect no sex with wife n can't even PCC like one bro says, real demanding huh!

[Gixer]

Originally Posted by analog

Hey Bro:

At least you're getting some!!!
Many are getting nothing.

Women are really evil in this sense....
Their entire job, obligation, is to have sex with their husband. That is what a marriage license is, a document consenting to have sex with this man.

Sigh....life.

Note to all young guys, I know, i know...your GF today is a slut, she complains you can't fuck enough or often enough, she sucks your cock, takes it up the ass everything, you're in bliss. You buy a ring, you get engaged....life is great. After you get engaged sex gets even better, you are in heaven all is great, You get married, and your screwing her in every room in your new flat every day of the week, TWICE a day, its all good. She gets pregnant, you're both happy, after all, you're married. Its all good, sex continues through the pregnancy, then the baby is born, happy, happy, happy.......and it never comes back. You wait, you're a patient, modern sensitive guy, she has to heal you say to your self, 2 months, 4 months, 6 months a year.....when is she going to heal? Why she not interested any more etc....

Then she decides she wants another baby, she rapes you for a few months until she gets pregnant again, then she shuts off. Not like first time when you fucked all through the pregnancy. This time she doesn't let you touch her....and the cycle repeats.

And this is how life is with a Singaporean wife my friends. And young boys who are still in the GF/BF stage, save your advice. You have no idea how that little slut you have for a GF right now will change once you marry her and she has a kid. You simply have NO IDEA!

I went to a marriage course when I was a teenager, church related thing, married priest (yes, there are such things) and he said this:
"Couples marry with the man thinking his wife will never change and the woman thinking she will change her future husband. They're both wrong."

How true that has turned out to be.

I'm hoping once the kids get a bit older she comes back. By she I mean the woman I married because the woman I am with now is not who I married. But there is nothing any of us can do about it. Its enough to drive a man to drink....and many do.

Cheers,
jim

You are exactly right!!!! Fuck! Every man thinking of getting married has to read what you wrote.

[2centsworth]

http://sammy.services/showthread.php?t=281718

I find this interesting. This guy was one of the 44 charged for underage sex. Look at his wife. You do wonder if it's a case of pretty wife with no martimonial sex life. Why pay for a 17 year old who isn't even close to the beauty that your wife possess? Plus the wife won't charge you for sex.